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114 pages, Paperback
Published July 1, 2022
Under the rule of bourgeois ideology and the capitalist way of life, the complexity of love creates a series of complex and insoluble problems. By the end of the nineteenth century the many-sidedness of love had become a favourite theme for writers with a psychological bent. Love for two or even three has interested and perplexed many of the more thoughtful representatives of bourgeois culture. In the sixties of the last century our Russian thinker and writer Alexander Herzen tried to uncover this complexity of the inner world and the duality of emotion in his novel Who Is Guilty?, and Cheryshevsky tackled the same questions in his novel What is to be Done?, Poetic geniuses such as Goethe and Byron, and bold pioneers in the sphere of relations between the sexes such as George Sand, have tried to come to terms with these issues in their own lives; the author of Who Is Guilty? also knew of the problems from his own experience, as did many other great thinkers, poets and public figures. And at this present moment many “small” people are weighed down by the difficulties of love and vainly seek for solutions within the framework of bourgeois thought. But the key to the solution is in the hands of the proletariat. Only the ideology and the life-style of the new, labouring humanity can unravel this complex problem of emotion.
One of Kollontai’s most important innovations is precisely this: having identified love as a social construct half a century before feminism began to say the same about gender. It was not until the most recent elaborations of the feminist movement and the critique of the ‘romantic love’ model that we find something similar to what Kollontai did a hundred years ago and, even so, it does so with much weaker political connotations and implications. Her proposal is not based on thinking about what each of our separate relationships should be like (individual ethical criteria), but on the type of interpersonal ties and bonds that we need to build a classless, fairer, happier and fulfilled society.