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The Natural: How to Effortlessly Attract the Women You Want – A Proven System for Confidence, Charm, and Seduction
One of the world’s top pick-up artists, Richard La Ruina went from having no women to being a true master of seduction. Now he shows you how to do the same. So move over Mystery, and tell Neil Strauss that The Rules of the Game are about to be rewritten. Every element of the winning pickup is right here, from discovering confidence to exuding charm, learning conversation starters to mastering body language, to much more. And as you move from daydreaming to flirtation to passion to romance to love, The Natural will show you how it’s done.
227 pages, Kindle Edition
First published February 7, 2012
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July 17, 2013
I pity any guy who believes this uhm... book.
Neil Strauss any day over Richard La Duckface.
He's nice, I'll give him that but no way he'll get you a decent life partner. He suggested too much talking and being cocky & condescending. Won't fly well with girls with backbones.
Just watch his videos and ask some girlfriends what do they think about him. Their answer is your forecast success meter.
Neil Strauss any day over Richard La Duckface.
He's nice, I'll give him that but no way he'll get you a decent life partner. He suggested too much talking and being cocky & condescending. Won't fly well with girls with backbones.
Just watch his videos and ask some girlfriends what do they think about him. Their answer is your forecast success meter.
March 30, 2013
From a female perspective, it's fascinating to get an insight into the minds of men and their approach to women. A really rich and simple read. Worth buying.
March 3, 2014
Liked this far more than I thought.
February 16, 2015
I am female and I did not like this book. I read this to get some perspective on men's dating books and to tease my loving, yet sometimes sardonic boyfriend (who already knew this book was going to be garbage). I really hope no guy takes this person seriously. I guess if you only want to play the field and not have a long term relationship, then this book is ok. Personally if a guy pulled these pick up lines on me I wouldn't buy it and think he was a creep, regardless of how goodlooking he was.
July 17, 2018
It was better than I expected. I read it out of curiosity, expecting misogyny, but it mostly gives advice on how to truly connect with women, or at least give the appearance of connection. While I didn't agree with some of it (there were too many blanket statements on what "all" women want, and a lot of the pickup lines would certainly only illicit eye rolls from me personally), I can see its value to some people.
January 31, 2018
There are a lot of interesting, sensible tactics throughout this that I did find enlightening. This book is most relevant to attracting women in clubs and nightly social situations, with a little chunk at the end focusing on daytime interactions. I think the most valuable part for me was just learning about social cues and triggers. There were some sleazy moments (as expected), but a lot of the advice was respectful, relatable and practical. I found it to be enjoyable, passively listening to the audiobook while warming up in the gym and cleaning up.
June 11, 2017
In order to become really good at anything, you only need to master the basics.
This book is a very good start on how to approach and attract hot babes.
It is a bit lacking on the mindsets though, and what you need to do to better understand yourself before attempting to become a modern day Casanova!
This book is a very good start on how to approach and attract hot babes.
It is a bit lacking on the mindsets though, and what you need to do to better understand yourself before attempting to become a modern day Casanova!
July 23, 2017
This is a book I can return to with a pen and pad. Insightful story with a few hot cheeky moments. But mostly practical value for self improvement practice through coaching. The Natural is for the guy who wants to be better at seduction and socializing. Wonderful narration, nicely written, this book made me feel like an evolved gentlemen.
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April 15, 2012
Probably the best basic book ever written for men about how to approach, attract, date, and keep women. No gimmicks. No flashy "pickup artist stuff". Just good solid advice.
February 25, 2013
Insights close to reality. No more comments!!!
July 30, 2014
Awesome.
February 24, 2015
Great read! Interesting concepts! All very applicable stutff.
August 27, 2015
Interesting peak into a different lifestyle.
August 3, 2016
Good book with sound advice!
February 1, 2017
Good book but it need some indepth studies
April 23, 2025
A “manual” with a healthy amount of honest self-reflection and humor about personal challenges. There’s a big “aha!” about confidence, body language, and decisiveness. Practical and actionable advice, and suited for the “jump in and experiment” approach. The author convinces that this as a skillset one can practice and master.
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CONFIDENCE & ZONE. An important trait of successful men? Confident body language - no words needed with women, just attitude they will be successful again. Women are incredibly drawn to a guy who owns the space without apology. Meeting women and making them fall for you is a skill, not luck; anyone can improve if they want it enough.
HIGH STATUS BEHAVIOR. Don’t “pretend” to be a leader - be one. Alpha guys have a strong sense of self-belief, powerful physical presence, willingness to make decisions, a calm and collected attitude under pressure, and sharp social intelligence. If you want to become high status, copy how high-value men act - don’t fake it, embody it. Your core beliefs about yourself shape how people treat you, and confidence about what you want is magnetic.
STRONG SELF-BELIEF. Like yourself, trust yourself, and know what you want. Have clear standards for how others should treat you, and don’t act like an outsider or think you’re unattractive. Your own certainty about wanting a future with someone is a big draw for women. Make your affirmations about your best self, and get into a “zone” (music, snapping fingers, whatever it takes) so you link the feeling to the ritual. It’s rapid, dramatic change if you use it. Your “affirmation kit” should have your playlist, positive statements, and a trigger like finger snapping.
BODY LANGUAGE & PHYSICAL PRESENCE. High status shows in your body: stand with feet apart, sturdy like a tree; slow, deliberate movements (no nervous shuffling or twitchy arms); relaxed hands with fingers loosely touching; never look at the floor, keep soft eye contact and glance sideways if you need to break it. Take up space - own the room, sit spread out, use big gestures. High status guys get more personal space automatically.
DECISIVENESS & LEADING. Alphas make decisions for themselves and the group - where to eat, what to do. Whoever is most certain wins, and others follow that strength. Just act as if everyone will go along, and they usually do. Don’t ask “is this okay?” or “do you want Italian?” but say, “Let’s get Italian.” Never seek approval. Practice certainty in small decisions and build up. The more beautiful the woman, the more she’s used to being the decision-maker - shift that dynamic by confidently leading.
ENVIRONMENT & DESENSITIZATION. Comfort is a three-part game: first, get comfortable in any environment (clubs, bars) by acting like you own the space - chat with staff, explore the layout, treat it like your living room, feel at home. Second, learn to act normal around beautiful women - guys who work with hotties aren’t fazed and get laid more because women sense they aren’t put on a pedestal. Hang out where there are lots of attractive women and desensitize yourself. Third, get comfortable in your own skin - when a woman “tests” you (“why are you wearing that?”); stay calm, hold your space, and respond physically and confidently.
SOCIAL ROLES: SOCIABLE, COMFORT, SEDUCER. You need all three. First, Mr. Sociable (think Van Wilder) - open, animated, high-energy, makes groups laugh, keeps conversation rolling, and is expressive and positive. Hold eye contact, split groups, use gestures, and show enthusiasm - people are drawn to fun. But don’t stay here too long; too much “sociable” gets shallow and tiring. Switch to Mr. Comfort (Ross from “Friends”) when someone’s focused on you - now it’s about listening, building rapport, showing genuine interest, and connecting on shared interests. Humanize yourself, show your imperfections, and act like you’ve known them forever. Just don’t linger too long, or you’ll get friend-zoned. Mr. Seducer (“Cruel Intentions” guy) never apologizes for wanting women. He doesn’t bluntly say “I want you,” but makes it clear he desires her as a whole person, not just for her looks. This mode is all about subtle hints and escalating intimacy when you sense the time is right - after real rapport is established. Slow down your talking (think of the movie “Drive”), hold eye contact, and use pauses - with more frequent, escalating touches.
THE APPROACH. “Opening warm” (after eye contact or a smile) is so much easier and more effective than “opening cold.” If you want the superhot girl’s attention, don’t zero in on her - be sociable with everyone. In groups, get on their level - sit down or match their posture, don’t loom over them. When you get eye contact: don’t look away nervously. If you wonder whether she wanted you to approach, the answer is 90% yes - she wants you to make a move. GO - don’t hesitate or overthink. Make approaching part of your nature, so you act instantly on a signal.
APPROACH TACTICS. Don’t invade personal space too quickly. Don’t point your feet directly at her; keep your posture open but not crowding. Even when touching, keep it casual and light, especially if you turn your head away slightly to signal comfort.
DIRECT VS INDIRECT APPROACH. Direct pickup is straight-up: escalate touches, get quickly to intentions, and you’ll find out fast if she’s interested - but it requires big confidence and risk tolerance. Indirect is more under-the-radar: just get her comfortable, cut down on anxiety, and you’re less likely to get shut down harshly. For most beginners, indirect is safer and builds your skills. Use direct only when you’re sure she’s into it (from clear signals).
WARM-UP & SOCIAL HACKS. Warm up in the bar by short, casual openers with lots of groups - build connections, make people aware of you, and later you can revisit groups as if you’re an old friend (huge rapport hack). Remember people’s names and use them; it’s pure gold for reopening. Get used to rejection by making a game of opening - do 20 a day, don’t chase closings, just rack up the approaches. Focus on your own reps, not the outcomes at first. Go out not to “close” but just to be the fun, social guy.
OPENERS & CONVERSATION. The first minute is everything. A simple “Hey” - with a silent or smiling pre-opener - is often the best opener. Break the group’s flow, grab attention, and don’t over-explain yourself. Remember, the transition after your opener matters more than the opener itself. The first minute is all on you - lead, don’t interview! Once she’s engaged, you can start balancing the conversation.
LINKING & DEPTH. Use whatever she gives you - an accent, a detail, a weird earring - as a “link” for your next question or comment. Keep the flow positive, build up her unique qualities, and connect dots in real-time. Don’t get stuck in a loop talking about yourself; that just builds distance. Look for beauty in her answers and compliment what’s unique.
HOOK POINT & STORYTELLING. When she starts asking you things, opening up with body language, real interest is there - look for signals like open posture, laughing, watching your mouth, head tilts, or a lot of direct eye contact.
EMOTIONAL ENERGY. Talk passionately about what matters to you - energy is magnetic. Avoid negative topics at all costs, always keep the mood light, curious, and fun. Don’t be afraid to disagree - when you don’t like unimportant things, your compliments on what matters feel more genuine.
QUALIFY & CHALLENGE. Show her that you’re choosing her, not just chasing women. Challenge her playfully - “Can you cook?”. Make a detailed list of the traits you want in a woman - this shifts your focus from surface looks to deep qualities and makes women feel like they have to qualify themselves to you. It’s a natural pull - women love when they feel chosen, not just chased. If a wingman brags about your status, it’s cool - bragging yourself isn’t. Bring your wing into or out of conversations smartly.
ISOLATION & RAPPORT. Isolate her from the group if you can. Build emotional connection - talk about passion, joy, and memorable life moments, and listen with empathy to why she cares about these things. Use her memories and stories to echo back connection. In conversation, give a lot more statements than ask questions (90/10 rule): lead with confident statements, use questions only to dig deeper or follow up. Don’t rapid-fire questions like an interview; let the chat breathe and build.
TOUCH & BODY LANGUAGE. Touch quickly and confidently - don’t stare at the spot you’re touching or make deep eye contact during the moment. Keep handshakes or touches a couple seconds longer than normal.
RELATIONSHIP & SEX. Author recommends not delaying sex - if you’re looking for a real relationship, get the sex “out of the way” so it’s not a barrier. When you meet, treat her like a girlfriend with a hug - she wouldn’t be there if she wasn’t interested.
TEXTING & FOLLOW-UP. Don’t reply to texts faster than she replies to you. Write your message, then let it sit for 10 minutes - improve it. Keep texts short and fun, and don’t be overly eager or answer every question. Call at energetic times - never from a silent house where you sound dull. End on a note that leaves her wanting more, not know when you’ll text next.
***
CONFIDENCE & ZONE. An important trait of successful men? Confident body language - no words needed with women, just attitude they will be successful again. Women are incredibly drawn to a guy who owns the space without apology. Meeting women and making them fall for you is a skill, not luck; anyone can improve if they want it enough.
HIGH STATUS BEHAVIOR. Don’t “pretend” to be a leader - be one. Alpha guys have a strong sense of self-belief, powerful physical presence, willingness to make decisions, a calm and collected attitude under pressure, and sharp social intelligence. If you want to become high status, copy how high-value men act - don’t fake it, embody it. Your core beliefs about yourself shape how people treat you, and confidence about what you want is magnetic.
STRONG SELF-BELIEF. Like yourself, trust yourself, and know what you want. Have clear standards for how others should treat you, and don’t act like an outsider or think you’re unattractive. Your own certainty about wanting a future with someone is a big draw for women. Make your affirmations about your best self, and get into a “zone” (music, snapping fingers, whatever it takes) so you link the feeling to the ritual. It’s rapid, dramatic change if you use it. Your “affirmation kit” should have your playlist, positive statements, and a trigger like finger snapping.
BODY LANGUAGE & PHYSICAL PRESENCE. High status shows in your body: stand with feet apart, sturdy like a tree; slow, deliberate movements (no nervous shuffling or twitchy arms); relaxed hands with fingers loosely touching; never look at the floor, keep soft eye contact and glance sideways if you need to break it. Take up space - own the room, sit spread out, use big gestures. High status guys get more personal space automatically.
DECISIVENESS & LEADING. Alphas make decisions for themselves and the group - where to eat, what to do. Whoever is most certain wins, and others follow that strength. Just act as if everyone will go along, and they usually do. Don’t ask “is this okay?” or “do you want Italian?” but say, “Let’s get Italian.” Never seek approval. Practice certainty in small decisions and build up. The more beautiful the woman, the more she’s used to being the decision-maker - shift that dynamic by confidently leading.
ENVIRONMENT & DESENSITIZATION. Comfort is a three-part game: first, get comfortable in any environment (clubs, bars) by acting like you own the space - chat with staff, explore the layout, treat it like your living room, feel at home. Second, learn to act normal around beautiful women - guys who work with hotties aren’t fazed and get laid more because women sense they aren’t put on a pedestal. Hang out where there are lots of attractive women and desensitize yourself. Third, get comfortable in your own skin - when a woman “tests” you (“why are you wearing that?”); stay calm, hold your space, and respond physically and confidently.
SOCIAL ROLES: SOCIABLE, COMFORT, SEDUCER. You need all three. First, Mr. Sociable (think Van Wilder) - open, animated, high-energy, makes groups laugh, keeps conversation rolling, and is expressive and positive. Hold eye contact, split groups, use gestures, and show enthusiasm - people are drawn to fun. But don’t stay here too long; too much “sociable” gets shallow and tiring. Switch to Mr. Comfort (Ross from “Friends”) when someone’s focused on you - now it’s about listening, building rapport, showing genuine interest, and connecting on shared interests. Humanize yourself, show your imperfections, and act like you’ve known them forever. Just don’t linger too long, or you’ll get friend-zoned. Mr. Seducer (“Cruel Intentions” guy) never apologizes for wanting women. He doesn’t bluntly say “I want you,” but makes it clear he desires her as a whole person, not just for her looks. This mode is all about subtle hints and escalating intimacy when you sense the time is right - after real rapport is established. Slow down your talking (think of the movie “Drive”), hold eye contact, and use pauses - with more frequent, escalating touches.
THE APPROACH. “Opening warm” (after eye contact or a smile) is so much easier and more effective than “opening cold.” If you want the superhot girl’s attention, don’t zero in on her - be sociable with everyone. In groups, get on their level - sit down or match their posture, don’t loom over them. When you get eye contact: don’t look away nervously. If you wonder whether she wanted you to approach, the answer is 90% yes - she wants you to make a move. GO - don’t hesitate or overthink. Make approaching part of your nature, so you act instantly on a signal.
APPROACH TACTICS. Don’t invade personal space too quickly. Don’t point your feet directly at her; keep your posture open but not crowding. Even when touching, keep it casual and light, especially if you turn your head away slightly to signal comfort.
DIRECT VS INDIRECT APPROACH. Direct pickup is straight-up: escalate touches, get quickly to intentions, and you’ll find out fast if she’s interested - but it requires big confidence and risk tolerance. Indirect is more under-the-radar: just get her comfortable, cut down on anxiety, and you’re less likely to get shut down harshly. For most beginners, indirect is safer and builds your skills. Use direct only when you’re sure she’s into it (from clear signals).
WARM-UP & SOCIAL HACKS. Warm up in the bar by short, casual openers with lots of groups - build connections, make people aware of you, and later you can revisit groups as if you’re an old friend (huge rapport hack). Remember people’s names and use them; it’s pure gold for reopening. Get used to rejection by making a game of opening - do 20 a day, don’t chase closings, just rack up the approaches. Focus on your own reps, not the outcomes at first. Go out not to “close” but just to be the fun, social guy.
OPENERS & CONVERSATION. The first minute is everything. A simple “Hey” - with a silent or smiling pre-opener - is often the best opener. Break the group’s flow, grab attention, and don’t over-explain yourself. Remember, the transition after your opener matters more than the opener itself. The first minute is all on you - lead, don’t interview! Once she’s engaged, you can start balancing the conversation.
LINKING & DEPTH. Use whatever she gives you - an accent, a detail, a weird earring - as a “link” for your next question or comment. Keep the flow positive, build up her unique qualities, and connect dots in real-time. Don’t get stuck in a loop talking about yourself; that just builds distance. Look for beauty in her answers and compliment what’s unique.
HOOK POINT & STORYTELLING. When she starts asking you things, opening up with body language, real interest is there - look for signals like open posture, laughing, watching your mouth, head tilts, or a lot of direct eye contact.
EMOTIONAL ENERGY. Talk passionately about what matters to you - energy is magnetic. Avoid negative topics at all costs, always keep the mood light, curious, and fun. Don’t be afraid to disagree - when you don’t like unimportant things, your compliments on what matters feel more genuine.
QUALIFY & CHALLENGE. Show her that you’re choosing her, not just chasing women. Challenge her playfully - “Can you cook?”. Make a detailed list of the traits you want in a woman - this shifts your focus from surface looks to deep qualities and makes women feel like they have to qualify themselves to you. It’s a natural pull - women love when they feel chosen, not just chased. If a wingman brags about your status, it’s cool - bragging yourself isn’t. Bring your wing into or out of conversations smartly.
ISOLATION & RAPPORT. Isolate her from the group if you can. Build emotional connection - talk about passion, joy, and memorable life moments, and listen with empathy to why she cares about these things. Use her memories and stories to echo back connection. In conversation, give a lot more statements than ask questions (90/10 rule): lead with confident statements, use questions only to dig deeper or follow up. Don’t rapid-fire questions like an interview; let the chat breathe and build.
TOUCH & BODY LANGUAGE. Touch quickly and confidently - don’t stare at the spot you’re touching or make deep eye contact during the moment. Keep handshakes or touches a couple seconds longer than normal.
RELATIONSHIP & SEX. Author recommends not delaying sex - if you’re looking for a real relationship, get the sex “out of the way” so it’s not a barrier. When you meet, treat her like a girlfriend with a hug - she wouldn’t be there if she wasn’t interested.
TEXTING & FOLLOW-UP. Don’t reply to texts faster than she replies to you. Write your message, then let it sit for 10 minutes - improve it. Keep texts short and fun, and don’t be overly eager or answer every question. Call at energetic times - never from a silent house where you sound dull. End on a note that leaves her wanting more, not know when you’ll text next.
May 25, 2018
Not necessarily worth reading, but if you do, take it with a grain of salt. The beginning of the book is the most interesting part, before he digs into specific techniques and pick-up lines. The first couple of chapters handle approaching women. From what I can gather, I think the men who think those chapters are of interest to them are better of reading some general books on self-improvement. Real confidence comes from real achievement. The author is right when he says that you don't need to be a millionaire to approach a woman. You just need the confidence, but the façade of fake confidence can not continuously held up. So sooner or later, a woman will figure you out. The later, and most, part of the book talks about what to do or say to get going with women. But to be honest, if I saw a guy act like some of the techniques proposed in this book, I know he would come off as either the most desperate or the most cocky in the club.
So in a nutshell, if you want real confidence to impress women, read a book by for example Brené Brown. Anything short of genuine interest/attraction/kindness/confidence women will see right through. Start by holding the door open for anyone and everyone, whatever gender/color/race/age and the impromptu conversations that the author is aiming for so desperately will come by themselves.
So in a nutshell, if you want real confidence to impress women, read a book by for example Brené Brown. Anything short of genuine interest/attraction/kindness/confidence women will see right through. Start by holding the door open for anyone and everyone, whatever gender/color/race/age and the impromptu conversations that the author is aiming for so desperately will come by themselves.
February 2, 2019
Tired of watching beautiful women passing by and not knowing what to do about it?
How to approach, how to open a conversation, how to make her want you.
This book just about covers the whole game from *selecting a target* to sleeping with her. It does not contain that many examples, but rather goes into detail of what you should do in each step.
For someone new to the PUA community, or for a so-called "AFC", I would suggest reading Neil Strauss's "The Game" to start with, and then follow up with this one. The Game contains almost 500 pages full of examples and pretty much covers Neil's, or even better, Style's journey to becoming the world's greatest PUA. Richard La Ruina, the author himself, has The Game atop of his should-read book list for PUAs.
All 200+ pages of this book are totally worth the money. You will have to read it more than once, though, to get the most out of it. The detail is exceptional. I have also read The Game and I can assure you, this book contains enough stuff you won't find there.
-5 STARS for Richard!
John
How to approach, how to open a conversation, how to make her want you.
This book just about covers the whole game from *selecting a target* to sleeping with her. It does not contain that many examples, but rather goes into detail of what you should do in each step.
For someone new to the PUA community, or for a so-called "AFC", I would suggest reading Neil Strauss's "The Game" to start with, and then follow up with this one. The Game contains almost 500 pages full of examples and pretty much covers Neil's, or even better, Style's journey to becoming the world's greatest PUA. Richard La Ruina, the author himself, has The Game atop of his should-read book list for PUAs.
All 200+ pages of this book are totally worth the money. You will have to read it more than once, though, to get the most out of it. The detail is exceptional. I have also read The Game and I can assure you, this book contains enough stuff you won't find there.
-5 STARS for Richard!
John
May 5, 2020
3/5
I wanted to dislike this book. But, whatever the character profile of the author and the intended target audience, the content is not half bad. A middle-brow treatment of the themes here can be found in Robert Greene's Secrets of Seduction; an author who doesn't get slagged nearly as much, at least partly because he elevates the genre by bringing literature, history, and legends to bear on the topic with a light touch.
Some of the bad rap the ideas here get can be explained by the fact that people don't notice successful seducers acting out strategies spelled out here, and the attempts of unsuccessful seducers to replicate these strategies look obviously phoned in. Framing seduction as an adversarial transaction, which is inevitable when thinking out courtship rituals in terms of dos and don'ts, unfortunately poisons the well from which many an incel could otherwise drink and thirst no more.
I wanted to dislike this book. But, whatever the character profile of the author and the intended target audience, the content is not half bad. A middle-brow treatment of the themes here can be found in Robert Greene's Secrets of Seduction; an author who doesn't get slagged nearly as much, at least partly because he elevates the genre by bringing literature, history, and legends to bear on the topic with a light touch.
Some of the bad rap the ideas here get can be explained by the fact that people don't notice successful seducers acting out strategies spelled out here, and the attempts of unsuccessful seducers to replicate these strategies look obviously phoned in. Framing seduction as an adversarial transaction, which is inevitable when thinking out courtship rituals in terms of dos and don'ts, unfortunately poisons the well from which many an incel could otherwise drink and thirst no more.
August 21, 2021
I was intrigued by the pick up artist subculture, had only recently became single after a lengthy relationship and wanted to see a true lothario in action. Richard might be a top pick up artist with serious game, he may have bedded many women but his book is littered with crappy pick-up lines and instructions that will quickly see a man accused of sexual molestation and possibly arrested. I would give him a miss!
February 21, 2022
This has some good core principles without the ‘routines’ of Neil Strauss books. There’s helpful information for a range of situations depending on your morals to a degree. I liked that he mentioned consent but possibly could have made that clearer/more stand out.
I think there are better books out there on this but it’s good as part of wider reading.
I think there are better books out there on this but it’s good as part of wider reading.
June 6, 2022
#24 of 100 self help books
Good
you want to understand people not just women, and how to improve your approach to it all with real positive results then know this book takes you on a quantum leap in that direction. Just buy it. You know you want to.
Good
you want to understand people not just women, and how to improve your approach to it all with real positive results then know this book takes you on a quantum leap in that direction. Just buy it. You know you want to.
July 23, 2018
very useful and knowledgeable.
good book that young men should not miss. Read and practise, it will help your life. Thanks to the author
good book that young men should not miss. Read and practise, it will help your life. Thanks to the author
February 13, 2019
A life changing book.
April 9, 2019
Incredible Book
I'd recommend this book to anyone who is unsure of themselves when practicing daygame or night game anywhere in the world. Connorswatchesandmore.com
I'd recommend this book to anyone who is unsure of themselves when practicing daygame or night game anywhere in the world. Connorswatchesandmore.com
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July 27, 2022lol
January 2, 2023
Awesome book on sexual confidence!
January 30, 2023
Basically just copied Mystery but toned it down a little so it is more reasonable
March 17, 2023
Good book
Had some valuable information in it. Always fun reading these kind of books some times. Would recommend to someone to have a read
Had some valuable information in it. Always fun reading these kind of books some times. Would recommend to someone to have a read
May 22, 2018
Обществото на "свалячите" най-често се свързва с разни мижитурки, които си въобразяват, че ако кажат правилните думички по правилния начин, всяка жена ще падне в ръцете (и леглото) им.
Тоя образ е доста пресилен, но наистина много от хората, които обсъждат свалянето на жени, се засилват по пътеката на точно каква реплика да кажат, какви истории да разказват и т.н. което изобщо не е целта на цялото упражнение, а само една малка част от него.
Именно затова книгата на Ричард Руина се върти около идеята за "г-н Естествения" - онзи тип мъж, който без да се опитва специално и без да мисли за това, по естествен начин се държи така, че жените го харесват - и как да бъдем като него.
Книгата не е лоша, но както много от този тип, съдържа прекалено много общи приказки и мъгляви напътствия и по-малко конкретика.
Тоя образ е доста пресилен, но наистина много от хората, които обсъждат свалянето на жени, се засилват по пътеката на точно каква реплика да кажат, какви истории да разказват и т.н. което изобщо не е целта на цялото упражнение, а само една малка част от него.
Именно затова книгата на Ричард Руина се върти около идеята за "г-н Естествения" - онзи тип мъж, който без да се опитва специално и без да мисли за това, по естествен начин се държи така, че жените го харесват - и как да бъдем като него.
Книгата не е лоша, но както много от този тип, съдържа прекалено много общи приказки и мъгляви напътствия и по-малко конкретика.
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