I found this book on Amazon the other day while looking for books about spiritual abuse. I grew up in an IFB/Hyles influenced church, spent three years at Hyles' "college" , and worked for/attended another IFB church that worshipped at the altar of Jack Hyles. I left that mess ten years ago, but I realized in the last year that there is a lot that I have not yet worked my way through.
I want to read the stories of those who have lived through and escaped the nightmare of Independent Fundamental Baptists. It may help me to process things.
So, this book caught my attention. I do think some of the criticisms other reviews have made about this book are warranted. It could have used some editing and tweaking. However, Mr Kaifetz has some very important things to say, and he pointed out quite a few things that I have never considered. And this is all coming from a man who was close friends with Schaap in the 1980s.
One thing is clear: Hyles, Schaap and other fraudulent cult leaders like them are narcissists who only care about themselves and the power they hold over others. Those of us who were part of their or similar outfits should have recognized this a long time ago. But, who naturally assumes that your pastor and spiritual leader/mentor is an evil, twisted individual? We normally think the beat of religious leaders, educators and others who seen to dedicate their lives to the betterment of humanity. But what do we do when we discover they are wolves. Actually, that does a great disservice to wolves. These people are monsters.
If you attended First Baptist of Hammond, Hyles-Anderson College or any of their associated churches, you may want to read this. If you're curious about the IFB crowd, this will help you to have some more insight.