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Help Me Be Good About Throwing Tantrums

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Ages 4–7

As an educator, human developmentalist, and the “Inventor of Living Skills Books for Kids,” Joy Berry knows kids. Her books teach children about taking responsibility for themselves and their actions. With sales of over 85 million books, Joy has helped millions of parents and their children.

Help Me Be Good About Throwing Tantrums helps children replace “Misbehavior” (throwing tantrums) with a good behavior in an inviting format that includes text and cartoons.

Each book in the Help Me Be Good Series defines a misbehavior, explains the cause of the misbehavior and its negative effects, and offers children and parents practical advice for tuning the misbehavior into acceptable behavior.

The complete Help Me Be Good series includes:
Being a Bad Sport
Being Bossy
Being Bullied
Being Careless
Cheating
Complaining
Being Destructive
Disobeying
Fighting
Being Forgetful
Gossiping
Being Greedy
Interrupting
Being Lazy
Lying
Being Mean
Overdoing It
Breaking Promises
Being Rude
Being Selfish
Showing Off
Snooping
Stealing
Throwing Tantrums
Tattling
Teasing
Being Wasteful
Whining

32 pages, Kindle Edition

First published April 1, 1984

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Joy Berry

540 books58 followers
With over 85 million copies of her books sold, Joy Berry’s message has helped children around the world lead more responsible lives.

Joy Berry, pioneering educator, trusted child-development and parenting specialist, is the bestselling author of Joy Berry Classics for children with more than 250 titles and 85 million copies of her books sold. Joy Berry’s lifelong mission is to help kids help themselves by providing the information and motivation children need to lead responsible lives. Simply put, Joy Berry knows and understands children.

“Children should be 100% responsible for all of their choices and decisions by the time they are 12 years of age,” Joy Berry says. “In order for this to happen, parents need to encourage their children to make as many choices and decisions as possible as early in their lives as possible.”


Joy’s understanding of children and her pragmatic approach to educating and empowering children, has given rise to one of the most extensive juvenile product lines in the world.

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416 reviews30 followers
October 17, 2024
She's as angry as a turtle on his back. 🤣 This made me laugh
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954 reviews30 followers
April 5, 2019
I grew up on these books and absolutely love them! The Help Me Be Good books are great for young children. My children also loved them when they were young.
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267 reviews6 followers
August 11, 2020
Read this to my girls today, let's see if it is of any help.
Profile Image for Kylie Abecca.
Author 9 books42 followers
June 8, 2021
Certainly some great points and advice on avenues to direct anger and frustration. Really best used as a conversation starter than an all-round self-help style book.
368 reviews12 followers
July 31, 2024
This was a really nice concept for a book, but the execution was not quite there.
Note: gave book to Drek
Profile Image for Kim.
446 reviews
August 31, 2013
I love all the Help me Be Good Books by Joy Berry. I had a couple handed down to me from my mom and I found a bunch of the series at a used book store and bought them all! My kids love reading them just for story night, but I also find them very helpful to read when we are having a problem with a certain trait.

Each book focuses on defining what the action is, how it makes people feel and what to do about it. It gives alternate ways to get attention. It's simple and quick and my kids love the little mouse or bunny character that pops up. The beginning shows what can happen when you do certain things, and in the end shows a much happier outcome if you try something different.

A Book About throwing tantrums helps explain to kids how to communicate needs and feelings effectively.
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798 reviews21 followers
June 8, 2012
This book begins by explaining (to a child) what a tantrum is, and lists some different feelings and situations that may make you want to throw a tantrum. Next, the author talks about why it's not a good idea to throw a tantrum, but is clear that these feelings are normal, and offers suggestions for dealing with anger and frustration when it happens. Some reasonable solutions for avoiding anger-inducing situations and people are illustrated, and it's all wrapped up by reiterating that angry feelings are normal and should be expressed, just in a less disruptive way.
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2,640 reviews175 followers
May 23, 2013
Such a great book for kids and adults to read together!! Joy Berry has a wonderful way of bringing things to a kids level to help them understand things better. Sometimes as an adult we forget kids see and process the world differently than us.

This series is wonderful for any home or classroom! I want them for he community center where I work!!
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584 reviews14 followers
September 6, 2016
I love these little Help Me Be Good books. I think they make very valid points on important topics. To be honest I know some adults who could probably benefit from these books!.
This one touched on anger and reacting to it pretty well I thought....I didn't like the way everything was worded....but I think it was an age gap in readers more then anything.
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Author 6 books88 followers
March 25, 2016
Throwing Tantrums is a cut little book that is part of the 'Help me by Good' Series for children. It first shows what children do when they have a tantrum and what they do. The last part gives children advise how to deal with being angry, which is a normal feeling and ways to redirect anger and avoid situations that cause anger.
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8,267 reviews134 followers
September 18, 2013
a great resource for parents and teachers to explain and evaluate behavior and expectation
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November 15, 2015
Great Way to teach a lesson.

This was an excellent book to help my daughter understand how other people feel when she is throwing a tantrum. She and I both loved it.
28 reviews
August 16, 2022
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Good read for children in the tantrum stage. Helpful for explaining how
To handle feelings. Recommend for primary age children
Profile Image for Kylie Abecca.
Author 9 books42 followers
June 8, 2021
Certainly some great points and advice on avenues to direct anger and frustration. Really best used as a conversation starter than an all-round self-help style book.
Profile Image for Kylie Abecca.
Author 9 books42 followers
June 8, 2021
Certainly some great points and advice on avenues to direct anger and frustration. Really best used as a conversation starter than an all-round self-help style book.
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