Dom's Guide To Submissive Training Vol. 2: 25 Things You Must Know About Your New Sub Before Doing Anything Else. A Must Read For Any Dom/Master In A BDSM Relationship

by Elizabeth Cramer

There are two foundational pillars of a BDSM relationship between a Dom and a consent and trust. Everything else in the relationship – the fun, the love, the discipline, the eroticism, the tears and the journey – are all built on those standards. Both consent and trust require honest communication in order to thrive. The vast majority of that communication begins long before the training begins.In "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training Vol. 2," I listed 25 things you must know about your new sub if you want to create a satisfying relationship with a devoted submissive. It's not enough to just ask “What do you like?” or “Would you like to be my sub?” You need to know things about your sub that are deeper, more practical and helpful. Without the knowledge of these 25 things, you may be able to create momentarily excitement but it will surly turn into a frustrating short-term relationship headed for drama, disaster and end.Following this guide allows your sub to communicate freely and provides a mechanism for her to reveal her true self – even if she doesn’t have the words to do so. There are a million things subs want their Doms to know. These questions will help your sub tell you.

Genres: BDSM, Erotica

87 pages, Kindle Edition

First published September 13, 2013

Reviews

[Gene Z · Rating 4 out of 5]

The author posed some good questions. Some are good even for non-kinky relationships. E.g.:

What are you triggers (good and bad)?

and

How do you communicate your needs?

[Yukichidori · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book is much better compared to the first volume.

While the questions​ asked and stated seem obvious, they're often overlooked. With this reading, the author goes more into depth of the questions and how important wording is to get responses that will be useful for the training.

Highly recommend reading for both Doms and subs.

[Joe Barret · Rating 2 out of 5]

Good for the beginner, even for the beginner very slow

[Kel Caffekey · Rating 5 out of 5]

Very insightful and great to take different prospectives into consideration.

[Dameon Launert · Rating 3 out of 5]

Some thoughtful questions and advice for getting to know your potential submissive.

[Rev. Cody Barker, CRMT, CCH · Rating 1 out of 5]

This volume and the third volume were bought for me by a friend so I felt I should at least read them. I am so disappointed in the author’s lack of basic BDSM understanding that I almost didn’t finish this book.

It’s a quick read. This book goes over an extensive list of questions that you should be prepared to discuss with your sub.

The questions are ridiculously basic and available in a better form in 25 online articles. Within the first line of the book, it shows the severe misunderstanding of BDSM that the writer has. A very unrealistic view of BDSM training.

Would I buy this book again? No, it is a waste of money as these questions are poorly written and you can find them better written online. Would I recommend it to others? No because of the severe misunderstanding of BDSM that the writer has.