Only football fans (especially 49er fans) probably will read this book. And that's too bad because it has something to say for all of us. Actually, it didn't hit me--the book's several messages about life in general--until a quote from Steve Young on page 222:
"I've been jumping through hoops for years. They keep putting 'em up there, and I keep jumping through 'em. It's tough, trying to keep track of what you're trying to validate."
Steve Young worked incredibly hard, on the sidelines, in Joe Montana's shadow, trying to fulfill HIS dream by being what everyone wanted him to be. It wasn't until, after months and years of jumping through hoops, and finally blowing his stack at the coach that Young really began to be who he was, instead of everyone's idea of Steve Young.
That's when it hit me how often we do the same thing, in our own personal world, jumping through hoops, losing sight of what it really is we're trying to validate because it changes so often, even we can't keep up. And how often in life do we do the work and expect the reward? It's a simple equation. If we're deserving (and aren't we always?) then the reward should be ours.
The two men in this story did "the work," beyond the realm of human possibility most of the time. We think of them and remember them as sports heroes, in their victorious moments. But that misses a big part of the story: the many times they lost and lost their way--Steve Young, especially, at least in this telling of their story. (The book seems more sympathetic to Joe Montana.)
They did not always make the right choices. They did not always get what they deserved. They did not always stay true to themselves. They did not always have the right attitudes. What they both DID do was take the cards they were dealt and do the best they could at the time. At any juncture, they could have made other choices, often for more immediate gratification.
Joe Montana and Steve Young are both champions, larger than life in football legend. But in life itself, they are two worthy protagonists with lessons to teach us, if we are willing to see their exhausting, spirit-numbing and body-crumbling struggle as well as the Super Bowl result.