Maybe I was a little harsh with my last review. I've since looked into the inability of manga artists, creators in general really, to be able to directly state that their characters were trans without risking the chopping block. Having people repeatedly state that Kurako is merely a crossdresser, not trans, or even a practitioner of drag, could have been a deliberate choice to not only keep the manga alive but could also be a creative tool to reflect Kurako's own personal queerphobia. And he is queerphobic, absolutely. One can be on the spectrum, can be closeted, and still be absolutely discriminatory in that way. I've come to accept that the cast is not without their flaws, it certainly makes them deeper and more compelling characters. Does it still make me uncomfortable when certain tropes are used, like in the case of the sexual predator uncle? Absolutely. I can continue to write it off as something of the times, but this series has problems that persist even today, so, well, c'est la vie. I'll simply drop the work if it happens to get to be to ick for me, as is within my prower.
All of that aside, ridiculous jokes about the older brother's virginity included, I do genuinely like this story. I love Tsukimi, and don't believe that either Shu or Kurako deserve her one bit. Kurako's discomfort with liking someone like Tsukimi is something he's started to recognize but that's not enough; without a personal apology for being an uptight snob on the matter I fear I'll never fully accept his relationship with her, should it develop, and I'm not sure if that will ever come.
As for the representation of autism, I think that's where the series really shines. From the driver obsessed with Bentz cars to the Amars themselves, the series is really consistent with showing their love for their specific hyperfixations, not to mention how it has all made it difficult to connect with more neurotypical people. My favorite thing is, and this is obvious, how their different traits and even their personalities have been used to help them excel in different ways in their approaching line of jellyfish themed apparel. I'd like to see them all have more of their own personal time in the manga to grow in general.