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It's Okay to Sleep with Him on the First Date: And Every Other Rule of Dating, Debunked
Every Time You Go On a Date, you're faced with 347 "rules" on how to act, what to say, when to call him, when to kiss him, and how to play "the game."These rules do more than just insult your they spread anxiety, breed insecurity, make us all more cynical and, worse, when you follow the rules you might overlook your match.In this empowering he said/she said guide, relationship experts Andrea Syrtash and Jeff Wilser help us take off the rules-colored glasses. The truth is men don't care if you sleep with them on the first date. (If they like you, they'll want to see you again.) How to find success in love? Don't trust the rules; trust yourself.
- GenresRelationshipsNonfiction
277 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 1, 2013
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About the author
Jeff Wilser
13 books79 followersJeff Wilser is the author of Alexander Hamilton's Guide to Life.
He's also the author of four other books, including The Good News About What’s Bad For You… and The Bad News About What’s Good For You, which was named an Amazon Best Book of the Month.
His writing has appeared in print or online in GQ, New York magazine, Time, Glamour, Cosmo, VH1, Esquire, mental_floss, MTV, Los Angeles Times, Chicago Tribune, Comstock’s, The Miami Herald, The Baltimore Sun, Detroit Free Press, and The Huffington Post.
The topics? It varies. He has written about health, relationships, film, travel, the folly of juice cleanses, hashtags, monks, architecture, books, fashion (not that he’s fashionable), sneak attacks of World War II, how to pick champagne, the intersection of math and magic, Finland’s school system, and the shortcomings of General Custer. He also collaborated with Marc Ecko, the fashion designer and founder of Complex media, on the book Unlabel: Selling You Without Selling Out.
Jeff is likely the only person alive to have written for both GQ and The Knot. His TV appearances, where he occasionally pops up as the token male, have ranged from BBC News to The View. Business and marketing stuff? Sure, he does that too, providing customer-segmentation insights to a +$1 billion publishing company. He’s also the founding editor of ThePlunge.com, the primary website for grooms. (Jeff has never been a groom.)
He can’t tan.
He's also the author of four other books, including The Good News About What’s Bad For You… and The Bad News About What’s Good For You, which was named an Amazon Best Book of the Month.
His writing has appeared in print or online in GQ, New York magazine, Time, Glamour, Cosmo, VH1, Esquire, mental_floss, MTV, Los Angeles Times, Chicago Tribune, Comstock’s, The Miami Herald, The Baltimore Sun, Detroit Free Press, and The Huffington Post.
The topics? It varies. He has written about health, relationships, film, travel, the folly of juice cleanses, hashtags, monks, architecture, books, fashion (not that he’s fashionable), sneak attacks of World War II, how to pick champagne, the intersection of math and magic, Finland’s school system, and the shortcomings of General Custer. He also collaborated with Marc Ecko, the fashion designer and founder of Complex media, on the book Unlabel: Selling You Without Selling Out.
Jeff is likely the only person alive to have written for both GQ and The Knot. His TV appearances, where he occasionally pops up as the token male, have ranged from BBC News to The View. Business and marketing stuff? Sure, he does that too, providing customer-segmentation insights to a +$1 billion publishing company. He’s also the founding editor of ThePlunge.com, the primary website for grooms. (Jeff has never been a groom.)
He can’t tan.
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Displaying 1 - 7 of 7 reviews
August 20, 2014
I thought this book was great, provided some good incites with the new age of dating. The book had some laugh out loud moments as well, both Andrea and Jeff were awesome together. If they wrote another book on dating i'm pretty sure I would read it as well. :)
I would recommend reading this book, if you have always thought that there were rules in dating and that everyone should be following these rules when dating.
I would recommend reading this book, if you have always thought that there were rules in dating and that everyone should be following these rules when dating.
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March 11, 2017Category: Relationships
July 4, 2013
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August 17, 2013
Cute, funny, but most of all smart
October 9, 2013
Meh. Pretty much what you'd expect. Nothing real earth shattering in the advice sector.
February 11, 2014
LOL Thank you, friend, for buying this for me as a joke. Couldn't not read it, if it was a present and was lacking in books to read. Was surprised how easy it was to read and entertaining also.
June 10, 2014
Frickin hilarious !
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