Polarization and the Healthier Church: Applying Bowen Family Systems Theory to Conflict and Change in Society and Congregational Life

by Ronald W. Richardson

Polarization is endemic in North American society today. We can see its effects in nearly every political, cultural, theological, and social issue.The kinds of polarized issues that exist today are not new. They have existed for ages and some may never be resolved. What is different today is the intensity of anger, hatred, and the emotionality expressed. Society (at both governmental and the church community levels) seems unable to move ahead and deal with the problems at hand. We are stuck. The approach Ronald Richardson describes in this book for resolving them is unrelated to a specific political agenda on either the left or the right.The church can be a victim of the polarizing process and see its community life severely damaged by it. Some church members want to heighten this process. However, most people in the church and society want to handle their divisive issues more maturely and reduce the polarization in order to move ahead on solving the social/political problems that keep society stuck. This book is for them. The book offers practical and specific advice on dealing with polarized situations based on Richardson's own personal experience in a number of settings.Church leaders who want to be a positive force for change within polarized situations in their church or community will benefit immensely from this book. Both clergy and lay members can learn from the book, and their congregational life will improve as a result. Adult education groups will also find it a useful tool for discussion.

171 pages, Kindle Edition

First published April 1, 2012

Reviews

[Carla · Rating 4 out of 5]

For people who are well versed in Bowen systems theory, this is probably not such big news, but it was a good solid read. I struggled and disagreed with some of how the author handled and described things, but I appreciated his reminders about the keys to health and maturity (self-differentiation, managing our own anxiety and agendas, etc). All of this stuff is so useful when working with complex systems like families and churches.

[MyPlantsLoveAudiobooks · Rating 1 out of 5]

What a colossal waste of time! This is nothing more than a deeply problematic, naval-gazing "leadership memoir" of an incredibly out of touch privileged white man. There are no tools or techniques given; it's just stories about what he has done and how he sees Bowen Family Systems at work in people and society. There is a reason this book is self-published! No self-respecting publisher would accept such nonsense.

[Ken · Rating 5 out of 5]

Polarization unmasked

Richardson does a very good job of responding and explaining the “polarization and conflict” we face in many situations in families, church, and public society. Pastors of churches would do well to read these observations about Bowen family systems.

[Debra · Rating 3 out of 5]

I found myself lost by Richardson's logic from time to time; however there are enough Bowen gems in the book make it well worth one's while - e.g. sample questions one can use to focus on the one-to-one authentic relationship rather than engaging in polarizing debate or triangles.

[Jessica Stenz · Rating 4 out of 5]

If you want to be helpful in fractional, polarized relationships or society, read this book.