This is definitely a must read book! It is powerful, gut wrenching and although not a true story, could be a story of too many with ill children.
This is the story of the McConnell family, consisting of dad-James: baseball coach whom gave up baseball in college to have a family, mom-Emily, Aaron, 9, baseball statistics wizard, in remission from cancer and little sister Lizzie,and all that they face as Aaron's cancer returns and all that entails. It is about their dealing with it as a family, as a crisis never effects only the ill one, but the entire family. They work as a team, right down to little LIzzie whom is willing to let her brother win at a game of UNO thinking it will help make him better.
But it is more than just about the family and all they will deal with in regards to the hospital and medical side, as there is real life going on outside the world of this illness and others whom they come in contact with. A deadly disease, or an unsure outcome often leaves people just as with what to say at a funeral, or death. We pull out cliches and we are reminded just how hard it is for those going through the tough situation to deal with this on top of what they are facing.
"James paused, not wanting to get back into it, but his mom's touch on his shoulder opened the flood gates. "It's just...they're all so...I don't know; they were all 'so sorry' and 'we're there for you' and all grief stricken, like they knew this was going to happen." The frustration erupted. "It ticks me off. We don't even know what's happening, or what's going to happen, and they're acting like Aaron just died! It's like they're already treating me like I'm 'the guy who lost his son.' It's how they've always treated me, like they're mourning." pg. 42
You feel the pain and struggle of James and his wanting his son to have a break from all that he has been facing, to have the light at the end of the tunnel so to speak.
"James pulled his hair into a fist, and the pain forced the images from his head. "This child needs a little victory once in a while, Lord," he whispered. "Just for today. Give him a little more strength today."
He laid a hand on Aaron's bald head.
"C'mon, Lord. Just for today."
pg. 73
And while the dad is busy being strong for his son, this amazing little boy, is wishing for something but it's not for him. Talk about going right to the heart!
"I know we can't play catch, Dad, so I though..." Aaron glanced up at Curt.
James stared at his son. Such a little guy. And so much a grown man.
He fought hard against the welling in his eyes and nodded. ..Aaron pumped his fist, and after he and James shimmied through a sequence of high fives, low fives, forearm bumps, and wiggling fingers, the three made their way to the outfield grass, with its perfectly mowed diagonal paths alternately light and dark green."
pg. 106
James, is dealing with fulfilling his son's dying wish, while missing out on his living. Not an easy task for any parent, but he is fully supported, in fact pushed by his wife to do so for his son.
The love, courage, strength, based on their faith and prayer, is an uplifting story for anyone, whether you are into baseball, which of course is the background for this wonderfully written story. You will laugh, you will cry, you will have anxious moments where you will need to read on, and through it all you will live a little of what this family faced. Will it make you think? Will it make you want to go out and do something to help the many children whom are ill with cancer and in need of a donor? I hope so.
Information is provided at the end of the book to do just that with BeTheMatch.org.
Awesome book, one that everyone should read. You can not read it, and not be changed to want to reach out and help others in need.
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