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101 Reasons Why He Won’t Commit To You: The Secret Fears, Doubts, and Insecurities That Prevent Most Men from Getting Married
How to Understand and Influence the Non-Committal Man
The men you know, love, and work with are vastly different creatures than the ones your mother and grandmother had to deal with. The world their fathers and grandfathers grew up in is quite different from the one that exists today. Because of that, their issues and hang-ups when it comes to commitment have evolved, and for a lot of guys, the idea of marriage stirs up A LOT of negative emotions.
Discover the Secret Reasons Why He's Terrified to Get Married
There could be tons of reasons why he won't marry you, and even more reasons why he'd never tell you (if he knew). This book focuses on the most common and most interesting issues that cause men to suffer in silence. These one-hundred and one points will help you to understand the various fears, doubts, and insecurities that hogtie men when it comes to making the leap from boyfriend to husband (or even from casual dater to boyfriend).
Here's what you're going to learn inside:
Find out what men secretly want when it comes to marriage and long-term commitment. How to be a good girlfriend by helping him to overcome his deep-rooted commitment issues. Insights into why men marry and what makes a man go from being a "Commitment Coward" to a "Hopeful Husband." How to make him commit to you and get him to think it was all his idea (Hint: This is the ONLY way to do this smoothly). Discover how to get him to propose to you by helping him conquer his BIGGEST fears when it comes to marriage, especially if he's young. Learn what counterproductive female behaviors cause him to run in the opposite direction or force him to keep you perpetually waiting for a marriage proposal. The ugly truth about why he won't marry you (yet), no matter how much you try to act like his wife. And much, much more... Would You Like to Know More
Get started right away and discover why men marry and how to become the girl that finally gets the ring.
Scroll to the top of the page and select the 'buy button' now.
The men you know, love, and work with are vastly different creatures than the ones your mother and grandmother had to deal with. The world their fathers and grandfathers grew up in is quite different from the one that exists today. Because of that, their issues and hang-ups when it comes to commitment have evolved, and for a lot of guys, the idea of marriage stirs up A LOT of negative emotions.
Discover the Secret Reasons Why He's Terrified to Get Married
There could be tons of reasons why he won't marry you, and even more reasons why he'd never tell you (if he knew). This book focuses on the most common and most interesting issues that cause men to suffer in silence. These one-hundred and one points will help you to understand the various fears, doubts, and insecurities that hogtie men when it comes to making the leap from boyfriend to husband (or even from casual dater to boyfriend).
Here's what you're going to learn inside:
Find out what men secretly want when it comes to marriage and long-term commitment. How to be a good girlfriend by helping him to overcome his deep-rooted commitment issues. Insights into why men marry and what makes a man go from being a "Commitment Coward" to a "Hopeful Husband." How to make him commit to you and get him to think it was all his idea (Hint: This is the ONLY way to do this smoothly). Discover how to get him to propose to you by helping him conquer his BIGGEST fears when it comes to marriage, especially if he's young. Learn what counterproductive female behaviors cause him to run in the opposite direction or force him to keep you perpetually waiting for a marriage proposal. The ugly truth about why he won't marry you (yet), no matter how much you try to act like his wife. And much, much more... Would You Like to Know More
Get started right away and discover why men marry and how to become the girl that finally gets the ring.
Scroll to the top of the page and select the 'buy button' now.
94 pages, Kindle Edition
First published May 5, 2013
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Bruce Bryans
52 books190 followersBruce Bryans writes books for men and women who want to become both irresistible and irreplaceable romantic partners to the opposite sex. This is the focus of all of his books.
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August 17, 2019
I read this book via an Amazon KINDLE Unlimited download.
OKAY. You’re a woman, spectacular figure, marvelous auburn hair, flawless angelic face and voice, beautiful skin tones; you’re a Miss Universe and more. While all this might be true, for some reason the hunk you’re in love [and he’s madly in love with you], is not willing to take your relationship to the next level in committing to you by asking you to marry him. Your totally befuddled and mystified by all this as you begin wonder whether there’s something wrong with you.
You can rest assured that you’ve got nothing wrong with yourself, the problem lies with your guy and everything that’s going in his mind regarding you. However, up until now, you’ve had no way [key] of unlocking the vault of his mind to see his reasons for being committal. But thanks to this book, written by Bruce Bryans, the veil of this unknown realm of reasons, has at long last been lifted and removed.
According to the author, to begin with, your guy has a myriad of fears which are holding him back, such as: the fear of not being ready for the level of responsible necessary in marriage, the fear of losing his dreams, the fear of your marriage to him ending in divorce, and the fear that he’ll turn out to be an inadequate husband for you.
Another thing is the myriad of the self-doubts he has about himself, such as: not knowing what he wants to do with his life, the baggage of previous relationship which went sour, his belief that he won’t be able to make you happy enough. And like any individual, he’s got a lack of confidence which is making him apprehensive which emanates from his not being financially secure enough, hidden family issues which might be problematic and even some serious intimacy issues regarding himself.
And finally, according to the author, women give men reasons not to commit to their relationship with them which include: that they’re only interested in getting that ring on their finger, that they’re not challenge them enough and that they’re not communicating enough in the relationship both are currently sharing.
While practically everyone knows “Everybody Loves Somebody” by Dean Martin, he’s also has a song which I had in my mind as I read this book, and this song is “Somewhere There’s a Someone [check out YouTube to read this song.] So, for lifting the veil for his women readers as to why their guy is not making the commitment, they’d love them to make or wanting to get married, I’ve given Mr. Bryans 5 STARS.
By the way, this reviewer didn’t get married until I was almost 43.
OKAY. You’re a woman, spectacular figure, marvelous auburn hair, flawless angelic face and voice, beautiful skin tones; you’re a Miss Universe and more. While all this might be true, for some reason the hunk you’re in love [and he’s madly in love with you], is not willing to take your relationship to the next level in committing to you by asking you to marry him. Your totally befuddled and mystified by all this as you begin wonder whether there’s something wrong with you.
You can rest assured that you’ve got nothing wrong with yourself, the problem lies with your guy and everything that’s going in his mind regarding you. However, up until now, you’ve had no way [key] of unlocking the vault of his mind to see his reasons for being committal. But thanks to this book, written by Bruce Bryans, the veil of this unknown realm of reasons, has at long last been lifted and removed.
According to the author, to begin with, your guy has a myriad of fears which are holding him back, such as: the fear of not being ready for the level of responsible necessary in marriage, the fear of losing his dreams, the fear of your marriage to him ending in divorce, and the fear that he’ll turn out to be an inadequate husband for you.
Another thing is the myriad of the self-doubts he has about himself, such as: not knowing what he wants to do with his life, the baggage of previous relationship which went sour, his belief that he won’t be able to make you happy enough. And like any individual, he’s got a lack of confidence which is making him apprehensive which emanates from his not being financially secure enough, hidden family issues which might be problematic and even some serious intimacy issues regarding himself.
And finally, according to the author, women give men reasons not to commit to their relationship with them which include: that they’re only interested in getting that ring on their finger, that they’re not challenge them enough and that they’re not communicating enough in the relationship both are currently sharing.
While practically everyone knows “Everybody Loves Somebody” by Dean Martin, he’s also has a song which I had in my mind as I read this book, and this song is “Somewhere There’s a Someone [check out YouTube to read this song.] So, for lifting the veil for his women readers as to why their guy is not making the commitment, they’d love them to make or wanting to get married, I’ve given Mr. Bryans 5 STARS.
By the way, this reviewer didn’t get married until I was almost 43.
March 9, 2023
Good read! Very inciteful!
This is a good book to read if you are trying to figure out why you have been in a relationship with a man who doesn't communicate with you about his feelings. I learned so much about a man's psyche.
This is a good book to read if you are trying to figure out why you have been in a relationship with a man who doesn't communicate with you about his feelings. I learned so much about a man's psyche.
November 4, 2018
Short and sweet I guess...
May 31, 2019
Great book!!
Very detailed book!! One of my favorite books of his so far. This is one I would definitely recommend for women with questions about their men.
Very detailed book!! One of my favorite books of his so far. This is one I would definitely recommend for women with questions about their men.
January 19, 2025
Interesting
Good read. There were s a lot of things that hit home with me and I'm a man resign this. Hopefully I can get my girlfriend to read this.
Good read. There were s a lot of things that hit home with me and I'm a man resign this. Hopefully I can get my girlfriend to read this.
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