Sex Up Your Texts! How To Text Your Way To A Date Or A Hookup

by Michael Alvear

Make Him Obsess About You! The techniques in this texting guide • Turn his ambivalence into an obsession.• Help you develop a sense of texting humor that makes guys want to get with you.• Get that distant guy to pay more attention.• Provide common texting scenarios and solutions to keep his attention on you.• Avoid being friend-zoned.• Use “multiple threads” to avoid conversational dead-ends.• Dip into a catalog of 300+ witty pre-written texts when you can’t think of something yourself.The Art Of Flirty How To Make Guys Obsess Over You.Step 1: USE WILDLY CLEVER WAYS TO GET SHY GUYS TO ASK FOR YOUR NUMBER Here’s a great example… Let me see your phone a sec.Him: Why? I want to take a picture of you so you can send it to me. (take pic) Cool. What’s your number? Step 2: IS HE DISTANT? SPARK HIS INTEREST.Do it with fun, quirky texts that make him look forward to hearing the phone ding. “Do you think naming two puppies Daft and Punk is a little over the top?" Learn the 9 Must-Know Tactics To Texting Guys Who Aren’t Showing Much Interest. You’ll have him panting for your next text and wanting to hang out with you in no time. It’s all on p. 25-36.Step 3: GET GUYS TO CHASE YOU.See dozens of “dialogues” showing you ways to ramp up the romantic tension. Comes with my “Text Timing Chart” –showing you how to time your texts, and how long to wait to respond to his.Step 4: TEXT SOMETHING WITTY.Learn the 7 Biggest Texting Mistakes Most Girls Make (And how to avoid them). Try my catalog of 300+ irresistible, witty texts. They’ll capture his attention, peak his curiosity and set the stage for a strong attraction. Step 5: TURN HIM ON.The word-for-word suggestions in this guide to texting are GUARANTEED to make him look at you and think, “Tonight just got more interesting.” These flirty text message tips are all on Pages 47-85.Step 6: TURN HIS TEXTS INTO CALLS.Don’t let him ‘texturbate!” That’s when he spends more time texting than talking. You’re worth a phone call. Find out the 5 ways you can get him to call if he doesn’t do it on his own. What are they? Check it out on P. 31-36.Step 7: HOW TO HANDLE THAT FIRST PHONE CALL.Prevent “conversation stalling” and awkward silences by using the “Multiple Threads” concept. Rephrase boring questions into interesting comments. “How many brothers and sisters do you have?” “I bet you’re the youngest in your family.” You’ll also learn an amazing body language trick that projects warmth, confidence and sexiness over the phone. It’s all on P. 37-60.Step 8: POST-DATE TEXTING TO KEEP THE MOMENTUM GOING. He asked you out. Great. Date go well? Then use the charming text threads in this book.

140 pages, Kindle Edition

First published August 12, 2013

About the author

Health writer Michael Alvear has written for WebMD, Newsweek, salon.com, The Washington Post, Reader’s Digest, The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times and The Huffington Post.

He’s been a frequent contributor to National Public Radio’s All Things Considered and co-hosted a health and fitness show on HBO and England’s Channel 4.