Chatting or Cheating: How to Detect Infidelity, Rebuild Love, and Affair-Proof Your Relationship

by Sheri Meyers

Whether you're the one who suspects your partner of cheating, or you're the one who's been engaging in a secret affair, Chatting or Cheating, is designed to take you step-by-step through the process of discovery, confrontation, confession, and healing.
In CHATTING OR CHEATING you'll learn how to...
· Become "affair aware," and stop denying what's really going on.
· Identify the most common INFIDELITY warning signs, breeding grounds, and relationship vulnerabilities.
· Gather the proper evidence and recognize the often subtle clues that your partner is cheating, so you can confront them in the right way and get to the truth as quickly as possible.
· Confess the truth without breaking your partner's heart.
· End the Affair, break the addiction, and stop the obsessing--specific, proven tips and strategies for eliminating unwanted thoughts, moving on, forgiving yourself and embarking on reconciliation with your primary partner.
· Survive the betrayal, heal your heart, and restore the trust, no matter how betrayed and angry you feel, or how impossible it may seem right now.
Repair your relationship, revitalize your romance, create genuine intimacy, and safely love again.

YOU CAN SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND MAKE IT EVEN BETTER THAN BEFORE!
The good news is that it doesn't have to be the disaster you imagine. Emotional Sex or physical infidelity doesn't need to lead to a break-up or divorce. When handled the right way, the aftermath of cheating can actually strengthen your primary relationship and bring you closer than ever before. Chatting or Cheating, takes you by the hand and guides you through each step required to save your relationship and make it even better than before. You can turn it around and fall in love again. Dr. Sheri Meyers shows you how.

Genres: Self Help

306 pages, Kindle Edition

First published February 28, 2012

Reviews

[Lisa Despain · Rating 5 out of 5]

Will give you a totally different perspective on what cheating is - and how damaging an emotional affair can be. With social media, it's easier than ever to make connections that can threaten your primary relationship. This is a great book for recognizing inappropriate connections and - most importantly - repairing any damage that's been done.

[Derek Roberts · Rating 5 out of 5]

Packed full of great info

This was an amazing book. I read the entire thing in less than 24 hours and took 24 pages of hand written notes from the book in order to strengthen my relationship after an episode where I was the unfaithful person. This book taunt me how to forgive myself and be able to move on, and hopefully win back my partner's love and trust.
I highly recommend this book for anyone who finds themselves in a situation of unfaithfulness, no matter which side you're on. You'll be glad you read it.

[Brian Hight · Rating 3 out of 5]

Good content

The material presented in this book is worth 4 stars, but the layout and font consistency is 2 stars, hence the average rating of 3 stars.

[Kai Kline · Rating 5 out of 5]

I just finished "Chatting or Cheating", and the words that come to mind are "Wow, that was incredibly well done!" It's a totally comprehensive book, taking you from the stage of just suspecting, all the way through to healing on the other end. It shows you how to gather the evidence, how to confront your partner, how to deal with the after effects of discovery, how to get over it, and how to heal your relationship and make it even stronger than before. It even has information for the one who cheated, telling them what they need to do to get over it, and the role they play in the healing process. I read books for a living, and I can tell you that this one was just done perfectly. It's easy to read - from the friendly informality of the text to the pleasing and accessible layout, and it covers everything you need to know. As far as recommendations go, if you're in the market for a book about anything having to do with infidelity, this is the book for you.

[Kai Kline · Rating 5 out of 5]

Chatting or Cheating impressed me on a number of levels. It covered very deep subjects in a way that was both accessible and easy to read. I’ve read quite a bit on the subject of infidelity, yet I found plenty of information in Chatting or Cheating that was new, and ideas that were interesting and fresh. And I really appreciated all the practical tools and exercises that were given; things people could do immediately to help whatever situation they are in. However what I appreciated most, and what eventually drove me to write this review, was how expertly Dr. Meyers covered every necessary aspect of dealing with infidelity, and did with such great insight and depth. When I first read the summary on the back cover, my thought was “she promises the world!” and now my thought on completion of the book is “she delivers!”

[Sophronia · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book is really good! :) It is easy to read, easy to understand. It helps whether you are the cheater, the cheated, or just want to improve your relationship. This book explains the chemistry of the brain and what is happening when you think you are falling in LOVE. It also explains why one might cheat. But more importantly, it can help you understand yourself, your partner, and help the both of you to love each other.