A comforting read- even from a sceptic’s P.O.V...
My granda died very unexpectedly in December of last year and just over six months later I’ve still not come to terms with what happened. Ever since he died though, I have had incredibly vivid dreams about him and my nanna, who died almost three years prior to him. In my dreams they are reunited and happy (and healthy), and not surprisingly, that has given me some modicum of comfort in sorting out my feelings and trying to reach some kind of closure about the whole, sad situation. If they are somewhere ‘else’, then *wherever* they are, they are no longer in pain and I would like to believe that they are together again.
I’m personally not a believer in spirits or ghosts and as to what happens after we die, I’m genuinely not sure, though I desperately would like to think that there is something ‘more’ out there. I’m also an atheist, which means dealing with things like death and whatever comes next is a bit of a grey area for me, personally. Some of my relatives however, are strong believers in spirits, ghosts, whatever they like to call them. My aunty (who is a pretty sensible soul) witnessed my great grandma (who died when I was seven or eight), having what she was convinced was a death-bed vision of her late husband and that has always powerfully resonated with me. Lately I’ve read books in dealing with the more practical side of death (books about autopsies, pathology, forensics etc), but I was drawn to this book, perhaps because again, I felt the need in seeking that comfort and in knowing that whatever comes next for our departing loved ones can only be a positive experience.
In a way, this book did provide that comfort I had been looking for. The accounts of people witnessing other’s death bed visions and their insistence that they *did* happen seems unequivocal and are for the majority, all positive experiences for both the soon-to-be deceased and the eyewitness. Not all of the eyewitness accounts are from religious people either, which is something I had been expecting, though given that Irish are pretty religious people, there was a tad more references to Jesus and the saints than even I had been anticipating. After a while, some of the accounts grew a little bit repetitive too, though I suppose there’s only so many ways one can experience this sort of vision, isn’t there?
Nonetheless, it makes me feel happy that the people who have witnessed such experiences, as recounted in this book are so convinced by what they saw, that they themselves no longer fear the unknown factors that death entails as they are now convinced that their own loved ones will come and meet them when it is the end.
The rational side of me however was alert all through this book and was looking to see if there were logical explanations and arguments offered for the more sceptical folk out there, as to how such visions can perhaps come about. Though a chapter on this was included, it was admittedly a tad glossed over for my tastes.
There were accounts of near death experiences included in the book too, and a bit of history about them and how they date back in written accounts to almost 2500 years ago. I found this historical aspect particularly interesting and it was useful to see some references to the solid research that the author has carried out into his subject, one he is clearly passionate about.
However, though I have not read any of Keane’s other books before, he does seem to have replicated some of his stories from his previous publications in this one. This doesn’t bother me personally, though it may bother people who have read his other works and will see some duplicated information here.
Death Bed Visions is well-written and was certainly an eye opening book for me and is one that I’m glad I read. It’s not the sort of book I would usually read and admittedly has left me with more questions than answers, but given events recently, the more sceptical part of me is perhaps less reluctant to be more of a disbeliever than I usually am.