Interestingly enough, Elin Hilderbrand managed to make me dislike just about every single character I was supposed to like and sympathize with, while also managing get me to really enjoy this book (which I listened to via Audible). How she did this is beyond me. I chock it up to her impressive writing skills and entertaining, witty, and lighthearted story-crafting. This really was a fun story, and it was perfect because I'm newly engaged and planning a wedding myself - so this story line centered around a Nantucket wedding was really fun.
The story is about Jenna Carmichael's upcoming wedding with Stewart Graham. Both families will, naturally, be joining the couple for an extravagant, over-the-top wedding on Nantucket (costing around $170,000 - omg). Jenna and Stewart actually play very minor roles in the story, however. The book is mainly focused on the families themselves, and the drama, scandal, and heartache that surrounds them as they come together for this happy weekend.
The MAIN character, it could be argued, is "the notebook" - left behind by Jenna's deceased mother, Beth, who wrote down her own thoughts and plans for her youngest daughter's wedding (mind you - Beth died before Jenna was even dating Stewart, but for some reason Beth decided this event would be something she needed to provide guidance on, whenever that may be). ANYWAY, this "notebook" seems, at first, to be a really cute, sentimental thing (and I think it's SUPPOSED to be). But it doesn't take long before it takes on a somewhat manipulative tone. Beth outlines EVERY DETAIL of Jenna's wedding, and provides her guidance on every single thing. It's often phrased in a way that would, without a doubt, make Jenna feel TERRIBLE for disagreeing... so what is she supposed to do? This is no longer Jenna's wedding - it's a tribute to Beth. This just felt bizarre to me. The girl couldn't make a single choice for herself, because GUILT.
Anyway, "the notebook" aside, we see a lot of family drama here. Beth's husband, Doug, is remarried to a woman named Pauline, who just CANNOT live up to Beth's memory. In all honesty, Doug should never have gotten remarried because he's still so hopelessly in love with Beth that poor Pauline just can't win. She's made to feel terrible, and left out, during wedding planning - and while I think we're supposed to dislike her, I felt awful for her! I actually really couldn't stand Doug. But while their marital strife plays out on one side, Stewart's family has their own issues...
Stewart's parents, Jim and Anne Graham, are remarried after an affair between Jim and Helen Oppenheimer, which tore him and Anne apart. They divorced years ago, Helen gave birth to a son (Chance), and then they divorced - leading to a second wedding for Jim and Anne. This is complicated and messy, and Anne (while starting out as a halfway-likable woman) is consumed by SO MUCH BITTERNESS AND SPITE that it took all I had to yell at my Audiobook, "GET OVER IT ALREADY! YOU TOOK THE MAN BACK (YOU IDIOT). YOU FORGAVE EVERYTHING HE DID. GET OVER HELEN. SHE IS NO THREAT TO YOU. SHE DOESN'T GIVE TWO SH*TS ABOUT YOU." (Chance is in the wedding, so of course, Anne makes the questionable decision to invite Helen - uh oh).
Ugh. She was nothing but an insecure, petty woman who has no room in her life for anything but bitterness -- and yet AGAIN, I think we're supposed to sympathize with her. I think she's supposed to be likable, and her emotions realistic and relatable. But I honestly liked Helen better. At least that woman had some self-confidence and swag.
Then there are the siblings - mainly, Jenna's MOH and older sister, Margo. This girl's all over the place, and (without giving anything away), I lost ALL respect for her when she - a 40-year old woman - went crying to "Daddy" to solve her romantic problems for her. Yikes. GROW A PAIR.
So, this is getting to be a long review, and all I've really done is complain about the characters... but weirdly enough, I still enjoyed the story. Somehow I cared enough about what happened to these people - whether I liked them or not. Elin pulled me in, and I felt like I was on Nantucket for this wedding, watching all this petty drama play out before my eyes. I was actually really sucked in, and I feel like I understand these complicated family trees almost as well as my own. That's saying something.
Overall, a really fun, light summer read. Exactly what I was looking for, and while it's no stellar piece of literature with any terribly deep morals or lessons, I recommend it.