How to be Irresistible to White Men: Interracial Dating Secrets of Asian Women Black Women Who Swirl Should Know

by Lisa Marble

Are you a black woman attracted to White men, but despite how much they may stare from afar or act friendly, you never get asked out on a date? Or perhaps you struggle with meeting White men in the first place? Chances are, you are one of the many Black Women who inadvertently give White men the red light. I used to face the same conundrum, until one day it hit me. It wasn't that White men didn't date outside of their race, after all a large percentage of White men interracially date and marry Asian women. In fact, my very own roommate (an Asian woman) was one of those girls who consistently had droves of White men lined up to date her. It was from observing my roommate and learning the secrets she used to attract White men that I was able to have a date every weekend with different White guys. And you can too. You see, the secrets Asian women know that cause them to win at swirling can be applied to Black women and work just as well. It will take some work on your part, but if you knows who and what you want and are fed up of not getting it, it will all be well worth the effort. In this book, you'll * How to Attract the Men you Actually Want * What you’re NOT doing right now to stop guys in their tracks from asking you out * Why you need to do your homework if you want to attract the right kind of men * How to make yourself instantly more approachable * Where to find the men you want to date * And Much More!

128 pages, Kindle Edition

First published November 21, 2013

Reviews

[WMBW · Rating 4 out of 5]

As a black women want to date a white men, the book name is attracted me. At the same time, I have found a good interracial dating site for black women and white men http://www.whitemenblackwomen.us wish I can meet my white man as soon as possible.

[Rell · Rating 1 out of 5]

Uugh.... I’m still trudging through this book because I paid $19 for it.... so let me start off by saying I don’t discriminate in dating, my first husband was white and my boyfriend now is white although I’ve dated Asian, Black and Puerto Rican and these “tips” in this book apply across the board however as black woman reading this, it’s uncomfortable at times. She’s trashing black women but in a nicety way, maybe she’s pretended so much or altered herself so much that she’s forgotten who she is. “The best reason I can come up with is that Asians do not consider their race to be a disadvantage, con, or crutch, Thusly they don’t try to atone for being Asian. Despite also being minorities and some coming from very humble families, they mostly take responsibility for their actions, work hard, and excel”. Well What is this...... do black
Women not think the same way? This entire book is a slap in the face to black women. I’m still trying to figure out why I wanted to
Read this bc I have no problem gaining attention from other races, I will say nonetheless, I read it. The end

[Perry B · Rating 4 out of 5]

Good book for all women (and men) interested in interracial dating

Good advice from a cultured black lady who compares the experience of both black women and Asian women in dating white men. Timely and well written. If you don't live in NYC your experience may vary. However, I think her points are well taken. A worthwhile read for anyone contemplating interracial dating.

[Laura Philips · Rating 5 out of 5]

Very informative

Clear and easy to understand however the section on giving them the green light so they have no doubt of your inclination to date outside of your race was a bit vague.... eye contact be feminine dress and smell good...

[J]

Quick, easy read. I wanted a light, fun book for a long plane ride and to see if I was missing anything. I didn't feel like it was new information, but then, I've grown up with nothing but non-black people. I think it would be most informative for women who have grown up in the closed-off world of the black community.