Breaking Her Fall

by Stephen Goodwin

Losing his temper when he hears allegations about his daughter and a group of boys at a party, Tucker Jones inadvertently assaults one of the boys and is targeted in a legal battle that threatens his home, career, freedom, and relationship with his daughter. 25,000 first printing.

Genres: Fiction, Book Club, Adult, Contemporary, Literary Fiction, Adult Fiction, Family Drama

416 pages, Unknown Binding

First published August 1, 2003

Reviews

[Lori Anaple · Rating 2 out of 5]

I give it two stars because I finished it. Painfully. I thought it was going to be so good too! I was excited to hear a story about a father/daughter instead of the usual mother/daughter dynamic.

This dude just never stops talking...blah blah blah blah. The entire book could have been over with as a short story.

It irritated me more than anything. Here this dude is, going through a law suit and more worried about schtupping the friend who happens to be married to his best friend. I hate that.

Trite. Boring. Mess.

[Carmen · Rating 4 out of 5]

I highly enjoyed this book. This book is about a single father named Tucker. One night he gets a call from another man saying that his daughter (14) is not at the movies with her friends, but instead at a party where she is giving sexual favors to a lot of boys. Tucker drives there in a rage, and in the following moments, a teenage boy loses an eye and lands in the hospital. This book really dives into how people's actions have consequences. This realistic story explores what happens when you let your emotions get the better of you and make some stupid choices. Not only does this affect your life, but the lives of all your loved ones - and even people who you don't know. Now Tucker is facing jail - his children are scared and confused - his ex-wife wants full custody - he's responsible for a 16-year-old being half-blind AND many, many other complications that rise out of his actions on that one night. I thought the characters were very realistic and well-written. I thought the book was very intelligent. Tucker thinks he's got a handle on things, and he always thinks he can clear it up - but it's obviously out of his control, and spinning more and more wildly with every page. Very gripping. I like how he writes children, as well. He doesn't simplify them. They are very realistic. I highly recommend this book.

[Adrian Stumpp · Rating 1 out of 5]

This book embodies everything I detest about contemporary literature. Goodwin's sensibilities are thoroughly middle-class, and I mean that in the worst possible way. Instead of explaining what I mean by that, I'll just tell you about this book. The main character is a middle class divorcee who receives a phone call one Saturday evening from a stranger who tells him his daughter is at a pool party giving everyone head. He rushes to the scene of the crime only to find his daughter has left. He gets into a fight with one of the teenaged boys still at the house and accidentally puts out his eye. He spends the next three-hundred pages having sex with his best friend's wife while his lawyers maneuver to keep him out of prison for putting out a fifteen year old boy's eye, and trying to bring himself to somehow find it in the deepest part of his heart to maybe forgive his daughter for f@#$ing six guys at the same time. Good christ, it's enough to make me want to watch TV.

[Ali · Rating 4 out of 5]

A book all parents can relate to on some level - more so if you are currently raising teenagers and if you've been touched by divorced, it will be even more relevant. I know from personal experience what goes through a parent's mind when you get a call about your teenager that was not expected nor wanted. The main character of this book shares, almost in too much detail, his thought process while helping his 14-year-old daughter navigate the aftermath of her poor decision -and makes his own stupid mistake. This gives him a boost of compassion and humility that helps bring him down to the same level as his child so he can support her better. It's a touching story about parenthood, especially the father/daughter relationship. The moral... we are all on a tough journey through life, we are all human, be kind to each other as we work out our own problems and try to help others with theirs.

[Holly Robinson · Rating 3 out of 5]

Breaking Her Fall is an older novel, one heralded by no less a writer than Richard Ford as “passionate.” It falls loosely in that category of family dramas by men, the sorts of books that have enough mystery in them to keep you wanting to follow the plot to the end, if only to find out what the characters will do after they have been thrust into this or that crisis by the action of one family member that reverberates throughout the rest of the family. In this case, there is a single dad raising two children, and his daughter goes to a party and, well, let's just say she gets into trouble with the boys at the party because of bad judgment that leads her to be taken advantage of in ways you can probably guess. The problem is that, because this book was published in 2003, long before the #MeToo movement, the plot line feels dated when it comes to the outcome of the book, and I finished it feeling so furious that I wanted to toss the book against the wall. (This might have had something to do with the fact that I read it during the Kavanaugh hearings.) Too bad, because Stephen Goodwin is a fine writer. I'd say the main reason to read this book is to use it as a history lesson and cheer how far we've come in hearing women's voices and believing their stories.

[Jayci · Rating 5 out of 5]

Simply incredible. There were times when I honestly forgot that this story was a work of fiction. I felt intrusive. As if I had stumbled upon an open journal and indulged in the secret thoughts and feelings of a friend. Regardless of how anyone may feel about this story, Stephen Goodwin is a master with the pen. There was nothing cheesy or fake in the dialogue and the rest of the writing was raw and real. Tucker(the narrator)spoke candidly about emotions we have all felt, and never want to admit. He takes moments in life that leave the rest of us speechless, and puts words to them. I can't wait to get my hands on another one of Goodwin's books.

[Rebecca · Rating 3 out of 5]

Very hard to read about this father dealing with the information he receives about his 14-year-old daughter. The aftermath made me think of Map of the World, in which a single very unfortunate event follows a mom. Interesting to read a novel set in DC. Loved the landscaping info. Kids making choices about their sexuality without much information to go on makes we wish everyone could have Our Whole lives (OWL) training. Interesting to see what the psychologist says. I especially like the joke he tells about how you get what you order in a Chinese restaurant (you reap what you sow).

Loved seeing Eva Cassidy's music appear as important part of a novel.

[Christianne · Rating 4 out of 5]

Wow. Warning to all my friends on Goodreads who are parents--this one is heartbreaking. I feel sort of lucky that I can read these types of stories without worrying about my own children. BUT--though heartbreaking, it has a good, solid ending, which I always like because I need closure with novels. It's well-written, moving, and overall pretty amazing. Highly recommended as long as you moms keep the tissues handy while reading.

[Janine M · Rating 2 out of 5]

This was probably my least favorite book this year. It started out with potential; a father finding out that his 14-year-old daughter has gotten into some trouble at a party. However, the story goes nowhere. The author attempted to show a family healing but I didn't feel anything for anyone. Bored.

Also, I hate reading dialogue that NO one would say. It bugged me in Juno, but in the opposite way. In this book, everyone's a talker and overly so.

[Danielle · Rating 2 out of 5]

You shouldn't really call this book "Breaking Her Fall" when so little of the book revolved around the daughter. This book is more about his trials. And also I don't know a father in his right mind who would have an affair with his neighbor in the midst of a lawsuit.

[Scott · Rating 4 out of 5]

I liked this book because it's all about being a parent. I'm a dad to two beautiful little girls (and one little boy on the way). Since I only have a few short years before the teen years - the book was particularly eye-opening to me about the transformation I am about to witness. Even though I don't share the protagonist's (Tucker Jones) role as a single father - I found the story and the point of view beautifully REAL. The truth is - one event can really transform a family - as this story clearly demonstrates. Yet life is about how we all relate to the events that happen. The characters were complex, exhibiting real emotions - and doing stupid things -just like all of us. I really enjoyed the brutal honesty that was portrayed with Tucker's thoughts on being a parent.

There were some events in the story that I had a bit of trouble believing - for example - I don't think there are very many teenage boys that would have said "I'm sorry" to an answering machine. Yet that bit of information formed a crucial part of Tucker's understanding of that fateful night.

All together a great read - and I'd like to remember to read it again when my oldest daughter is 14.

[Cathy · Rating 5 out of 5]

I loved this book. I had goosebumps when I finished and wanted to read it again. I found the relationships between father and daughter, father and son very real. I was rooting for this family and felt the story which takes place in 1998 could certainly happen today. Relationships are so complex and this story shows a father trying to save his daughter and keep his family safe through some very difficult times. Lily, the neighbor and her daughter Abby are also an integral part of this story and just add to the complexity of relationships between family and friends. Read this book my friends!

[Lil' Jenny Graff · Rating 2 out of 5]

i thought i was really, really going to like this book. it's about a divorced man raising his 2 teen-age kids. he gets a call late @ night regarding his daughter and all the 'bad stuff' (don't want to give it away) she has been doing. anyway, the dad kind of loses it a bit, like any parent would after receiving this phone call. anyways, i guess the book did a great job detailing the relationships between fathers and teenage daughters. but i wasn't really into all that. it was eh, at best.

[Mike OConnor · Rating 2 out of 5]

The book jacket got me: A daughter named Kat and her actions which put a family in turmoil. The crisis leads the father overreact (Not in my estimation) and to cause injury to a teenage boy. Too many words for so shallow a story. Only the lack of another book on a four day trip, kept me reading this one. When will I learn.

[Hubert · Rating 4 out of 5]

An excellent story, though it needs to be further edited down to about 100 fewer pages.

Father and owner of a lawn and landscaping company Tucker Jones receives a phone call from another parent, telling him that his daughter is not at the movies, where she has agreed to be. When Jones finds out purportedly what she has been up to, Jones decides to take matter into his own hands, precipitating a series of actions which alter his, his family's, and his friends' lives forever.

What's cool about the book is that the more gripping action-packed events happen at the beginning of the novel, then settles down in the middle, before coming to something of a resolution (albeit too quick) at the end. Though the focus is on the delicate nature of parenting teens in late 20th century America, the readers gets to learn about his other mostly difficult relationships as well.

Jones is a particularly unsympathetic character; he seems not able to communicate properly with anyone around him, primarily the children, but also the ex-wife and early on in the story, the on-and-off lover. From a structural POV having an unlikable character permeate the book so thoroughly is an intriguing prospect: the reader definitely encountered times when his behavior was so infuriating that one almost wanted to put the book down. The author deserves credit for creating a flawed, somewhat sad, character that annoys, always seemingly at the wrong place at the wrong time, and possibly incapable of doling out real love.

Throughout the book the reader gets to experience class and gender difference and attitudes. As it's written in the late 90s, I think some of the issues that came up would have been framed differently now, but for the most part it still deals with issues that are still relevant to contemporary society.

The exploration into the role of religious faith in the lives of father and daughter seemed contrite; I would have edited these sections out.

This is recommended reading.

[Dawn · Rating 3 out of 5]

It started so promising. A gripping tale of a father wanting to save his teenage daughter from the consequences of the sexual assault she experienced and to protect her from the consequences of his rage the night she was assaulted.

As the book progressed, it became less about the relationship and more about his self absorption. No character growth whatsoever.

[Mel · Rating 3 out of 5]

3.2***
Twill Landscaping keeps Tucker Jones pretty busy, as does raising his two nearly teen-age kids Will and Kat. When he gets a phone call insinuating that Kat is at a party and in trouble he rushes to her rescue and an unfortunate accident occurs that permeates each of their lives for years to come. The helpless feeling when one is caught up in a burgeoning lawsuit was difficult to get through, so I felt pretty victorious when I finished this one.

[Linda C · Rating 2 out of 5]

Brats. What a bunch of brats. Upper middle class, well-off, well-educated, spoiled brats. The teenagers were obnoxious and the adults not much better. This book suffered from the curse of contemporary fiction-- set in 1998, it's not old enough to be considered historical, but too old to feel contemporary. Instead it just felt stale and dated.

During that time frame, there was a slew of "research" (mostly discredited now, I hope) that claimed that we were "failing" our teenage daughters. Girls were unhappy; girls were depressed; girls were suicidal; girls were starving, binging, purging, cutting. While all of that was probably true of some girls, from the vantage point of 2012, it's clear that it was exaggerated and most of our girls are doing fine. Unfortunately, that theme permeated the book.

The story centered loosely on 14 year old Kat and 15 year old Abby and the events of a particular night, when Kat drank herself senseless and performed oral sex on a parade of boys, while her BFF, Abby, was upstairs having sex with another boy. The narrator of the book, Kat's father, receives a call about his daughter, goes to look for her, and inadvertently injures Abby's boyfriend during a scuffle.

The 400 page book covered the lives of the primary characters over the next six months, while the father, Tucker, is awaiting trial on assault charges stemming from the incident.

The teenagers, Kat, Abby, and the boyfriend, Jed, were just so obnoxious that it was difficult to feel any kind of sympathy for them. Kat never once apologized to her father for what she did; nor was she ever punished. The only consequence was that she was expelled from the elite private school that she attended. Instead, Tucker continually beat himself up over how he had "failed" his daughter. Kat continually locked herself in her room and refused to go to the new school (which she was also mad about because she was never "asked" if she wanted to attend).

Uh, she was 14... why did she feel like she had a choice? That door should have been taken off her room and her butt should have been hauled into school. A door on a teenagers room is a privilege, not a right. He told her not to lock it, she continued to do so, but there were no consequences. Instead, everything was about Kat-- Kat was sad, Kat didn't want people to be talking about her, it was her business what she did and where she went, and Tucker seemed unable to grasp the fact that he was the FATHER. He was NOT A FRIEND.

In one scene, while Tucker was trying to find a school that would take Kat on short notice (she couldn't possibly go to public school, could she?), one school administrator suggested a boarding school in Colorado where she could go on nature hikes. If she were my kid, she would have been on the first plane with a one way ticket until there was some improvement in her attitude.

There were also no consequences to the boys that gave Kat the alcohol. Although charges were threatened, if the case went to trial, that also made the book feel dated. In today's hyper sensitive environment, the boys involved would have undoubtedly been charged with statutory rape; they were 16 and 17 and she was only 14. Instead only Kat was expelled from school.

One reviewer said that this book should be required reading for every parent of a young teenager. Don't believe that. This is NOT how healthy teenagers act or think. I see young teenagers all the time-- my daughter, her friends, my girl scouts, the kids at church, role models for how you want your kids to be, not the self-absorbed brats in this book.

These were characters who had everything and understood nothing. This book was a disappointment.

[Melissa · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book had so much promise!! The first half of this book was so engrossing, I could not put it down. As a mother of an almost teenage daughter and a teenage son, the events of that night are a parents worst nightmare. But then there were so many things that started to bother me. Mainly - why did neither Tucker or Trish press charges or seek retribution for what those boys had done to their daughter??? No wonder the poor girl became so depressed - by not doing anything to support her they let her shoulder all of that unnecessary shame. Neither of them did anything to help her reconcile that night, and by doing so they placed blame on her as well. She got expelled from school!! Those boys got away without taking any responsibility for what happened to Kat that night. Unbelievable.
Abby is a spoiled brat, all the kids were, actually. And Trish just might be the worst, most selfish mother on earth. It became way too wordy, and I could have done without Tucker and Lily's complicated relationship, and their weird mid life crisis band....the plot line started to wander all over the place and it started to become like an episode of Desperate Housewives.

[Gail Jeidy · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book isn't particularly literary. It doesn't contain poetic language, but it is a page-turner because the stakes are so high. It deals with a topic of timely importance to parents, for starters, in the aftermath of the Clinton/Lewinsky scandal. It shows how bad things can happen to good kids in our society and how one family got through it, and in particular how one father and his daughter got through it. Goodwin includes lots of characters and keeps all the threads going, and at 400 pages, it is a quick read, even for a slow reader, like me. We guess at the outcome, but we want to know HOW, HOW did this family survive this. It is an entertaining and a worthy read.

[Melissa Torres · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book really caught my attention once i read the summary on the back cover. It's a life lesson book where you can relate to it. Most books are mother and daughter relationships, but this one is a father daughter relationship. How a father dealt with a divorce and has to raise his two teenage children by himself. His oldest child is named Kat and is going through her hardest and toughest time in her young adult life. Her father looses control of himself when he hears on the bad news his daughter has been doing unsupervised. He has to learn that Kat will make mistakes and he will have to learn how to deal with it and how to go through with it as well.

[Anne · Rating 4 out of 5]

A great summer beach read - a single father gets a phone call that his young teen daughter is at a party where she has, shall we say, performed various indicretions with various boys, and he goes to find her, and a boy gets hurt. Therapy, legal wrangles, and custody issues ensue - and the story feels always like it could develop in any direction, with tension and intrigue that kept me hooked to the mystery, compassion and human interest that kept me engaged with the characters, and enough trash to satisfy the gossip in me.

[Hannah · Rating 2 out of 5]

This book is very much in the same vein as Jodi Picoult's works although with more focus on the relationships between characters than a court case and for her fans this would be an engaging read although for younger readers (ie. those in their late-teens) the generation gap regarding attitudes to sex etc can become a bit of a grating point.

In short, while this book was engaging and the conversations between father/daughter were suitably awkward, the book often suffered from a lack of direction and the ending was a compete anti-climax.

[Live the · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book was about a single father raising his two teenage children. One night, he get a phone call that he daughter Kat is "in trouble." When Tucker goes to rescue his daughter, he winds up seriously injuring one of the boys at the scene. I like the premise of this book a lot. But to be honest, I found the character of Kat to be extremely annoying and ungrateful. I also found Tucker to be a bit of a jerk at times. But by the end of the book, I really wanted to finish it to see what would happen.

[Susan · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book brought up some really intense issues and made me definitely question what I would do as a mother if I was put in the situation this father was put in when he acted out.
In the beginning I liked the father and as the book went on I found myself wanting to shake him as he took on the victim role. He needed to take responsibility for what he did!!
A pretty good book that will leave you frustrated and also shatter some of the ideas you have of what you think will happen with the reality of what truly happens.

[Carolyn Wolfe · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is fantastic and is set in Georgetown so if you live in the DC area you will recognize some of the locations that the author describes. I found this book to be a very touching account of a father watching his daughter struggle through adolescence. What makes this story unique is a significant event that greatly affected both of them and which they both must work through in order to find eachother in the end.

[Anna Hardesty · Rating 5 out of 5]

This was one of the most amazing, captivating novels I have read in a very long time. Every page of this kept me on my toes and I was instantly addicted to it. I love how it was from a single father's point of view. I'm so used to seeing things about a female and how she's single and can't handle life. Men have these situations too. And that was one of the many reasons I loved this book. You will fall in love with every character, regardless of the part they play. Beautifully written!

[Jennifer Randolph · Rating 1 out of 5]

I could not read this book. Within the first 30 pages there are at least two accounts of this father describing his daughter or her friend with rather sexualized imagery, it’s just weird and uncomfortable. Who wants to hear any father describe his 14-year old daughter by talking about her delicate lips shaped like a rosebud or the friend’s breasts? No thanks. I don’t quit on books often, but there are some that I just can’t bring myself to finish. This is one of them.

[Andrea Carl · Rating 2 out of 5]

I enjoyed moments of this book mostly due to how well the awkward conversations between teenage daughter and father were depicted -- it felt very real and tuned into keen insights in that regard. As the story progressed though, I found the characters more and more insufferable. The ending felt slapped together.

[Julia · Rating 4 out of 5]

I couldn't decide on stars for this book. I did enjoy the story line and could so easily see how a dad might end up in such a terrible situation. The focus on the relationships was intriguing, but I found myself speeding through the end because I knew what was going to happen and I just wanted to finish. For all the times one wonders how a situation turns bad, just read this book.