A Man Worth Waiting For: How to Avoid a Bozo

by Jackie Kendall

Bestselling author Jackie Kendall believes that when you find the right man, you'll be incredibly glad you didn't settle for any of the Bozos you met along the way. Drawing on real-life stories that will have women laughing and crying in commiseration, Jackie explains how to avoid common dating pitfalls and find A Man Worth Fighting For .

Genres: Christian, Nonfiction, Relationships, Christianity

240 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2008

Reviews

[Deborah · Rating 4 out of 5]

Very good book. Reminds you to think about who you are and not settle for Mr. Wrong. Funny, but deep at times. Favorite quote from this book:
"Make him climb a tree. . . The top of the tree is where the best fruit is; the rotten fruit drops to the ground . . . A Bozo guy is content with what is on the bottom branches and even what has dropped rotten to the ground, but only a Boaz has the calf muscles-character-to climb to the top of a tree for the best fruit (you)." Didn't give 5 stars because it sometimes sounds like there is a "perfect" man out there and I know that nobody is perfect.

[Ayamel · Rating 5 out of 5]

I absolutely love this book! there are no words to describe how amazing this book is. I recommend this book not only to SINGLE girls but also to girls who are in a relationship. My girlfriend past this wonderful book to me and Im so glad she did because, it changed my point of view on some things and it made me become more aware of Bozos. Once you read this book, you'll have a good eye for Bozos. It is such an amazing book, A MUST READ BOOK! (If I WERE A GUY i'd so read this as well, to see who I identify myself with, wether a Bozo or a Boaz)

[Lisa Faircloth · Rating 3 out of 5]

I would give this book 3.5 stars if I could. There are plenty of great principles shared here but I have 2 key issues:

1) The book opened with what I felt to be a misrepresentation of the kinsman redeemer details which painted all the characters in Ruth in a light that created a Boaz of the author’s own making and cheapened other characters somewhat unfairly. I feel like she overly exalted Boaz. I was left confused and wondering if I was misunderstanding something from the scriptures.
2) I felt like this book is overly harsh toward developing young men and labeling “Bozos” with a broad brush does not feel like Christian charity at all. In fact, the expectations and name-calling seemed a little on the man-eatish side to me, like its own brand of purity culture feminism. Let’s try to be gentle with our growing young men while shepherding our daughters, ladies.

This book does hail from the purity culture era, but I prefer not to throw the baby out with the bath water. It is worth reading and discussing WITH your daughter and I appreciate much of the wisdom and perspectives shared. One thing I appreciated was the insight she gleaned from older men in high-profile secular careers/athletic positions who are striving to live faithfully.

[Shantelle · Rating 4 out of 5]

A Man Worth Waiting For: How to Avoid a Bozo... very important thing to know. ;) :) Jackie Kendall mainly uses Ruth and Boaz from the Bible to demonstrate a God-written love story, and to compare a "Boaz's" actions to a "Bozo's" actions.

Be careful... is the man you're falling for a godly Boaz, or a worldly Bozo? This isn't just about your happiness in a future marriage, it's also about your walk with God, your mission to the world around you, even your future children's souls! A selfish, ungodly Bozo is not going to help you in any way.

So listen up to Jackie Kendall's words... wait for "Mr. Right", not "Mr. Right Now"! Let God write your love story. Avoid the men who will steal away your happiness, purity, faith. Wait for the man who will enhance your walk with God and be your best friend through life's journey! :)

A Man Worth Waiting For: How to Avoid a Bozo, did get a little long at points. Some of the sections seemed to be about the same thing almost. It didn't always hold my attention. But, all in all, it had some superb points about waiting for God's best! The overall message was wonderful. I would encourage women to read this book and reexamine their dating and love life. Is your boyfriend/crush drawing you to Christ, or away from Christ? Is he a Boaz, or a Bozo? Be careful. Marriage is sacred, marriage is for the rest of your life!

A poignant book.

[Lindsay · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book absolutely blew me away. It re-addressed the very important qualities that is essential in a man of God that us as God's daughters should wait for. It helped open my eyes to exactly WHY I have chosen to wait on God's perfect timing. I don't want to end up with a bozo after all! Just like in the book of Ruth, whoever God has for me (like Boaz to Ruth) will seek me out and be the initiator. I highly recommend this book to all the women out there who are single and those who are in relationships currently that are questioning the relationship itself. Your heart is a gem - do not give it to just anyone.

[Amanda · Rating 5 out of 5]

A MUST-READ for any single women 20-35!!

[Lou · Rating 4 out of 5]

Here is a book I never would have thought to read, yet something told me to read it... and was I impressed. The author took a Bible story (Ruth & Boaz) and used it But being a man I gleamed so much out of her message. I wish I would have know these things when I was younger. A compact read with lots of Bible scriptures and personal stories. An eye opener and a fantastic way to keep God in the forefront of all your relationships.

[Jessy · Rating 5 out of 5]

Woww, I was impressed and blessed! Really good reads. I have learned a lots. If you want to attract a man worth waiting for, you need to be a woman worth waiting for. A man worth waiting for will be found only by a woman who waits! God bless♡

[Olivia · Rating 3 out of 5]

Slightly repetitive, but also insightful. It gave me some nuggets to mull over and I think it would be helpful for many young ladies. I found the pages talking about "waiting" more helpful than signs of a Bozo ☺

[Hannah · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a great sequel to the book 'Lady in Waiting', by the book's co-author, Jackie Kendall. This second book follows-up on the question, how will you know him when he comes?

[Gina Larusso · Rating 5 out of 5]

A must read if you have been in bad relationships and can't seem to avoid them. I learned a lot on self respect and how I deserve to wait for a Boaz and NOT a Bozo.

[Carrie · Rating 3 out of 5]

interesting thougthful things to say. i like that it seemed to be written for older than JUST teenagers

[Lee Cook · Rating 4 out of 5]

An interesting read. Not "revolutionary", yet the writer does a good job of bringing the reader back to a proper frame of mind in regard to relationships.

[Rachel Hamilton · Rating 5 out of 5]

One of my all time favourite books!! I would encourage every young woman to read this book!! Eye opening and encouraging!

[Jocelyn Cuevas · Rating 5 out of 5]

Loved it..

[Lisa Sparks · Rating 3 out of 5]

Pretty good. Tough to read during normal circumstances. This book got me through a tough breakup, though.

[Halle O'Shaughnessy · Rating 4 out of 5]

I'm giving it 4 stars because the writing was subpar. Other than that, the book was fantastic. Every single girl should read this.

[Alicia · Rating 5 out of 5]

I am probably going to reread this with my bible at hand and take lots of notes. This is also going to be a requirement for my daughters (future) before they start dating! Its humorous, light, but to the point, and really highlights why we have to wait for our Boaz!

[Denise Reed · Rating 5 out of 5]

Follow up to “lady in waiting” book. Encourages godly standards for dating. Confirmed my dating history consisted of all bozos, it was really eye opening to see their characteristics throughout the book. Liked the single pledge of allegiance in last chapter

[Logan Wilemon]

DNF @ page 107

[Taylor Wood · Rating 3 out of 5]

to be honest it great book. for someone who clueless on how men show should be . it defines the difference on the good and evil to men and how they act toward wemon .