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In High Heels on a Ladder: The 7 Power Tools for Designing Your Life
“I love this book, and I promise you will too! ”
— Jack Canfield, co-creator of the Chicken Soup of for the Soul® series and author of The Success Principles™ Why do women so often feel unworthy, even ashamed, of their success? And why do brilliant, talented women hold themselves back from being and achieving their best? The answer to these questions is at the heart of this book. Celebrated interior designer Tonya Comer invites us to join her on a “journey to wholeness.” On this journey, Tonya shares her practical actionable tools to support us in the deep inner work of self-discovery. Through her wise sisterly guidance, she inspires us to be all that we can be by owning our truth, claiming our authentic power, and living life by our own design. Tonya knows firsthand the way through hardship and pain to wholeness. Raised in the projects of Pittsburgh, she climbed the success ladder to work in corporate America, launch an award-winning interior design company, and marry her Prince Charming. But this seemingly perfect life would shatter around her and expose what lay hidden beneath her mask. It took hitting rock bottom for Tonya to confront the shame, self-doubt, and self-limiting beliefs that had sabotaged her life. On the journey to rebuilding her life, she found her truth. And she emerged with a newfound confidence—awakened to her true purpose and passionately empowered to guide and inspire others by teaching what she had learned. Tonya’s desire for us, “I want you to fall madly, deeply, and profoundly in love with yourself. This love will open wide the doors to your personal superpower to rise above shame and self-doubt and ignite your flame to be all that you are meant to be.” And if emboldened by this transformation, Tonya Comer invites us to join her in a mission to redesign the world.
— Jack Canfield, co-creator of the Chicken Soup of for the Soul® series and author of The Success Principles™ Why do women so often feel unworthy, even ashamed, of their success? And why do brilliant, talented women hold themselves back from being and achieving their best? The answer to these questions is at the heart of this book. Celebrated interior designer Tonya Comer invites us to join her on a “journey to wholeness.” On this journey, Tonya shares her practical actionable tools to support us in the deep inner work of self-discovery. Through her wise sisterly guidance, she inspires us to be all that we can be by owning our truth, claiming our authentic power, and living life by our own design. Tonya knows firsthand the way through hardship and pain to wholeness. Raised in the projects of Pittsburgh, she climbed the success ladder to work in corporate America, launch an award-winning interior design company, and marry her Prince Charming. But this seemingly perfect life would shatter around her and expose what lay hidden beneath her mask. It took hitting rock bottom for Tonya to confront the shame, self-doubt, and self-limiting beliefs that had sabotaged her life. On the journey to rebuilding her life, she found her truth. And she emerged with a newfound confidence—awakened to her true purpose and passionately empowered to guide and inspire others by teaching what she had learned. Tonya’s desire for us, “I want you to fall madly, deeply, and profoundly in love with yourself. This love will open wide the doors to your personal superpower to rise above shame and self-doubt and ignite your flame to be all that you are meant to be.” And if emboldened by this transformation, Tonya Comer invites us to join her in a mission to redesign the world.
184 pages, Paperback
Published July 19, 2023
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August 31, 2023
I'll admit that I've read many self-help books, but I can only think of a small handful that has advanced my quality of life. “In High Heels On A Ladder” by Tonya Comer is the first book in this category that I read in 2023. Although I went into the book with little anticipation, it actually grabbed me emotionally before teaching me the practical instructions.
This book offers seven tools that improve one's effectiveness on both a personal and professional level — Owning, choosing, forgiving, dreaming, becoming, loving, and living “it” — These topics were discussed, as we had all heard, but Tonya took a different path, rather a practical track. It felt as if the author and the book exist only for my betterment. It shows that in the end, no one can help me except me; it provides practical exercises after every chapter. They are effortless and work every time for me.
What do we actually know about ourselves? What are the foundations on which our activities are built? The book discusses our most fundamental thought processes and how we might change them for our own personal advantage. The chapter "Forgive it" was my favourite. In all honesty, I needed this.
From her early years up to the present, the author opens up about everything in her personal and professional life that might teach us important lessons. She discusses being raised by her lone mother. I found Tonya's description of her resilience, battle against bullying, and ability to stand her ground to be quite emotional and motivating.
I like and admire real-life data more than research-driven data; the book has both types. Tonya gives examples of how you can create the positive relationships required for a successful life by living a calm, principle-centred life. I discovered something on every page that caused me to pause the book for a few seconds and reflect. This book can be a useful resource for anyone who frequently overlooks the small but crucial chores that need to be completed on a daily basis to increase emotional intelligence.
The author's sincere attempt to persuade readers toward wellness is perhaps what caught my attention the most and kept me reading the book closely. Her beliefs are so strong it astounds me. Her writing is straightforward and highly engaging. It was always direct and to the point. The book's main lesson for me is that "forgiveness is the most potent 'F' word." whatever you are currently lacking to become a better version of yourself, you will find in this book, I can assure you of that.
“In High Hills On A Ladder” is expertly edited and formatted; I didn't come across any grammatical, spelling, or typing errors that would have diminished my reading pleasure. In light of its perspective and insightful advice, this book is highly recommended. A five out of five book that is ideal to begin the year.
This book offers seven tools that improve one's effectiveness on both a personal and professional level — Owning, choosing, forgiving, dreaming, becoming, loving, and living “it” — These topics were discussed, as we had all heard, but Tonya took a different path, rather a practical track. It felt as if the author and the book exist only for my betterment. It shows that in the end, no one can help me except me; it provides practical exercises after every chapter. They are effortless and work every time for me.
What do we actually know about ourselves? What are the foundations on which our activities are built? The book discusses our most fundamental thought processes and how we might change them for our own personal advantage. The chapter "Forgive it" was my favourite. In all honesty, I needed this.
From her early years up to the present, the author opens up about everything in her personal and professional life that might teach us important lessons. She discusses being raised by her lone mother. I found Tonya's description of her resilience, battle against bullying, and ability to stand her ground to be quite emotional and motivating.
I like and admire real-life data more than research-driven data; the book has both types. Tonya gives examples of how you can create the positive relationships required for a successful life by living a calm, principle-centred life. I discovered something on every page that caused me to pause the book for a few seconds and reflect. This book can be a useful resource for anyone who frequently overlooks the small but crucial chores that need to be completed on a daily basis to increase emotional intelligence.
The author's sincere attempt to persuade readers toward wellness is perhaps what caught my attention the most and kept me reading the book closely. Her beliefs are so strong it astounds me. Her writing is straightforward and highly engaging. It was always direct and to the point. The book's main lesson for me is that "forgiveness is the most potent 'F' word." whatever you are currently lacking to become a better version of yourself, you will find in this book, I can assure you of that.
“In High Hills On A Ladder” is expertly edited and formatted; I didn't come across any grammatical, spelling, or typing errors that would have diminished my reading pleasure. In light of its perspective and insightful advice, this book is highly recommended. A five out of five book that is ideal to begin the year.
August 25, 2023
Tonya Comer was an interior designer, weathering stereotypes, male-dominated atmospheres, and ageism when a childish prank caused her mask to slip, and she was forced to change her perspective before her business collapsed. In her book, In High Hells on a Ladder, Comer reflects on the instances and environments that formed her foundational thinking and the steps she had to take to move away from her self-limiting beliefs. She provides her readers with “Seven Power Tools” to help them understand the reason for their negative self-talk and move into a more empowering and caring connection with themselves.
Tonya Comer’s story is inspirational for people who have lived with the pain of self-doubt and limiting talk. The author’s questions and examples motivate others away from self-fulfilling prophesies and guide them to make decisions that may allow them to live more fulfilling lives. Comer uses examples from her life to clarify the tools in your toolbox and show you how to use them. She encourages deep thought and journaling so you may find the root cause of whatever holds you back, embrace the revelation, and make positive choices to move away from negative thought patterns. Her “Seven Power Tools” are part of a well-thought-out approach, and the author encourages her readers to seek therapy, if needed, and to grow from their experiences instead of allowing those experiences to define them. In High Heels on a Ladder is a great selection for readers who want to improve their thinking on their journey to self-actualization.
Tonya Comer’s story is inspirational for people who have lived with the pain of self-doubt and limiting talk. The author’s questions and examples motivate others away from self-fulfilling prophesies and guide them to make decisions that may allow them to live more fulfilling lives. Comer uses examples from her life to clarify the tools in your toolbox and show you how to use them. She encourages deep thought and journaling so you may find the root cause of whatever holds you back, embrace the revelation, and make positive choices to move away from negative thought patterns. Her “Seven Power Tools” are part of a well-thought-out approach, and the author encourages her readers to seek therapy, if needed, and to grow from their experiences instead of allowing those experiences to define them. In High Heels on a Ladder is a great selection for readers who want to improve their thinking on their journey to self-actualization.
August 24, 2023
In High Heels on a Ladder: The 7 Power Tools for Designing Your Life is a transformative self-help book that equips women with an arsenal of seven powerful tools to uncover their intrinsic worth and create a life of purpose and fulfillment. Authored with empathy and insight, this book goes beyond the typical self-help genre by focusing on practical strategies that empower women to navigate life's challenges with confidence and grace.
Tonya Comer skillfully weaves personal anecdotes and actionable advice throughout the book in order to guide her readers on a journey of self-discovery. Each of the seven power tools acts as a stepping stone, addressing different aspects of a woman's life, and showing you how to create the life you deserve along the way.
The real strength of this book lies in its ability to resonate with readers on a profound level. As an early reader of this book before its publication, I can say with confidence that you should definitely have a box of tissues beside you as you read it. And prepare yourself to buy copies for all the women in your life because you'll certainly want to.
Whether you're at a crossroads or simply looking to enhance your journey, this book is a must-read for all women who find themselves on the path to self-discovery and empowerment.
Tonya Comer skillfully weaves personal anecdotes and actionable advice throughout the book in order to guide her readers on a journey of self-discovery. Each of the seven power tools acts as a stepping stone, addressing different aspects of a woman's life, and showing you how to create the life you deserve along the way.
The real strength of this book lies in its ability to resonate with readers on a profound level. As an early reader of this book before its publication, I can say with confidence that you should definitely have a box of tissues beside you as you read it. And prepare yourself to buy copies for all the women in your life because you'll certainly want to.
Whether you're at a crossroads or simply looking to enhance your journey, this book is a must-read for all women who find themselves on the path to self-discovery and empowerment.
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