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The INTP: Personality, Careers, Relationships, & the Quest for Truth and Meaning
INTPs love to think and philosophize. They see themselves as questing for truth and meaning. Not only do they seek to know the truth about reality, but to cultivate an abundant and meaningful life. Unfortunately, getting a firm hold on truth and meaning often proves trickier than they anticipate.
Complicating matters further is INTPs’ concern for finding and securing their rightful place in the world. This typically involves searching for two things: the right career and the right relationship. Because INTPs envision their optimal career as encapsulating, or at least incorporating, their quest for truth and meaning, it too can prove slippery and elusive.
While often taking a back seat to the INTP’s work, relationships can be another point of frustration and difficulty for this type. At times, being such independent souls, INTPs may even consider whether a romantic partner is integral to their quest for happiness.
The primary purpose of this book is to help INTPs better understand themselves through the lens of personality typology. This, in turn, can aid and abet their quest for truth, meaning, and purpose. This book also strives to help INTPs develop a clearer sense of direction, as well as increased satisfaction, in their careers and relationships.
Chapter 1 contains a general overview, as well as a function-by-function analysis, of the INTP personality type, including a look at the tug-of-war between the INTP’s dominant (Ti) and inferior (Fe) function.
Chapter 2 examines INTPs’ typical course of growth and development across the lifespan.
Chapter 3 explores the “negative potentials” of the INTP personality type. This includes a careful look at the INTP’s “dark side,” as well as the degree to which INTPs are prone to various psychological problems such as depression, ADD, autism/Asperger’s, narcissism, etc.
Chapter 4 tackles one of the INTP’s most poignant and recurrent concerns—their quest for truth and meaning.
Chapter 5 examines INTPs’ political, religious, and philosophical propensities. This includes analyses of the relative contributions of each of the INTP’s four functions to the ways in which they see and understand the world.
Chapter 6 dives deeply into some of INTPs’ most pressing career concerns. This includes addressing issues such as the degree to which they should focus on the intrinsic versus extrinsic value of their work, the pluses and minuses of working independently, the potential merits of a day job, creative versus analytical careers, etc. This chapter also enumerates the INTP’s most common career strengths and interest areas, drawing on the six “RIASEC” interest themes developed by John Holland. Furthermore, it examines the relative merits of specific careers and majors—the hard sciences, social/moral sciences, computers/IT, freelancing, scholarship, medicine, psychology, etc.—in light of the INTP’s personality, skills, values, and interests.
Chapter 7 explores the ways INTPs think and function with respect to relationships, including their unconscious motivations. It also discusses relationships as a forum for learning and experimentation, the danger of concealing negative thoughts and assumptions, INTP communication issues, Ti-Fe identity issues, and INTP attitudes toward family and parenting.
Chapter 8 might be viewed as an extension of Chapter 7. It explores, on a type-by-type basis, how INTPs may fare when paired with various personality types.
Chapter 9 compares and contrasts INTPs with related personality types—INTJs, ENTPs, ISTPs, and INFPs.
Complicating matters further is INTPs’ concern for finding and securing their rightful place in the world. This typically involves searching for two things: the right career and the right relationship. Because INTPs envision their optimal career as encapsulating, or at least incorporating, their quest for truth and meaning, it too can prove slippery and elusive.
While often taking a back seat to the INTP’s work, relationships can be another point of frustration and difficulty for this type. At times, being such independent souls, INTPs may even consider whether a romantic partner is integral to their quest for happiness.
The primary purpose of this book is to help INTPs better understand themselves through the lens of personality typology. This, in turn, can aid and abet their quest for truth, meaning, and purpose. This book also strives to help INTPs develop a clearer sense of direction, as well as increased satisfaction, in their careers and relationships.
Chapter 1 contains a general overview, as well as a function-by-function analysis, of the INTP personality type, including a look at the tug-of-war between the INTP’s dominant (Ti) and inferior (Fe) function.
Chapter 2 examines INTPs’ typical course of growth and development across the lifespan.
Chapter 3 explores the “negative potentials” of the INTP personality type. This includes a careful look at the INTP’s “dark side,” as well as the degree to which INTPs are prone to various psychological problems such as depression, ADD, autism/Asperger’s, narcissism, etc.
Chapter 4 tackles one of the INTP’s most poignant and recurrent concerns—their quest for truth and meaning.
Chapter 5 examines INTPs’ political, religious, and philosophical propensities. This includes analyses of the relative contributions of each of the INTP’s four functions to the ways in which they see and understand the world.
Chapter 6 dives deeply into some of INTPs’ most pressing career concerns. This includes addressing issues such as the degree to which they should focus on the intrinsic versus extrinsic value of their work, the pluses and minuses of working independently, the potential merits of a day job, creative versus analytical careers, etc. This chapter also enumerates the INTP’s most common career strengths and interest areas, drawing on the six “RIASEC” interest themes developed by John Holland. Furthermore, it examines the relative merits of specific careers and majors—the hard sciences, social/moral sciences, computers/IT, freelancing, scholarship, medicine, psychology, etc.—in light of the INTP’s personality, skills, values, and interests.
Chapter 7 explores the ways INTPs think and function with respect to relationships, including their unconscious motivations. It also discusses relationships as a forum for learning and experimentation, the danger of concealing negative thoughts and assumptions, INTP communication issues, Ti-Fe identity issues, and INTP attitudes toward family and parenting.
Chapter 8 might be viewed as an extension of Chapter 7. It explores, on a type-by-type basis, how INTPs may fare when paired with various personality types.
Chapter 9 compares and contrasts INTPs with related personality types—INTJs, ENTPs, ISTPs, and INFPs.
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March 5, 2014
This is by far the most accurate and most helpful resource for the INTP personalty type that I have ever encountered. It discusses all of the most meaningful topics for an INTP, and answers a lot of questions with sound arguments. I can relate so much to what is in here regarding careers, relationships, social interaction, life in general. It also addressed the development issues that INTPs find challenging, and some flaws that INTPs may not want to admit to. And it does so from the voice of someone who really understands that type, so all the criticisms are welcome.
I blazed through this book, since I found the insights so spot on and helpful. I found myself highlighting such large chunks of text so frequently that I've decided that this will be simply have to be a book that I come back to throughout my life as I learn and grow. One of the most beneficial sections for me discusses the differences in Phase II and Phase III of an INTP's development. I'm currently in Phase II, and believe the insights and advice will help me transition into Phase III in a healthier way.
I wish there was a resource like this for all personality types: someone of the same type who has been through the development stages and more importantly has actually studied his or her own development in addition to others of the same type. This is precisely the kind of wisdom we could all use to navigate life. Unlike other self help resources, this is near 100% applicable to me because it is type-specific, catered to the essence of who I am.
I encourage any INTP of any age, or anyone interested in understanding the INTP, to consider this book a valuable resource.
I blazed through this book, since I found the insights so spot on and helpful. I found myself highlighting such large chunks of text so frequently that I've decided that this will be simply have to be a book that I come back to throughout my life as I learn and grow. One of the most beneficial sections for me discusses the differences in Phase II and Phase III of an INTP's development. I'm currently in Phase II, and believe the insights and advice will help me transition into Phase III in a healthier way.
I wish there was a resource like this for all personality types: someone of the same type who has been through the development stages and more importantly has actually studied his or her own development in addition to others of the same type. This is precisely the kind of wisdom we could all use to navigate life. Unlike other self help resources, this is near 100% applicable to me because it is type-specific, catered to the essence of who I am.
I encourage any INTP of any age, or anyone interested in understanding the INTP, to consider this book a valuable resource.
March 18, 2014
Short read, but gives a lot of insight into the INTP personality type and how our inferior functions wreak havoc in our life. I could identify with a lot of it (all but the secret romanticism, yet I suspect if I'm honest with myself, that's true too) -- so much so that I underlined about a zillion passages. A smart, sincere read that highlights the pros and cons of the type.
April 30, 2022
The curse of being an INTP, when 'Undecided' might as well be our middle name. Existing in endless questions, wanting to find that universal truth but also uncertain there was ever one, afraid of actually finding it.
This book worth the read on the account of it didn't simply spewing out stereotypes or instant-package generalization of personality types, but instead focused right to the functional stack and the relationship between these functions in type's consciousness and emotional process, and how it manifested in the physical world. In that way, it helped in providing more understanding into other types beside INTP. Aligning with my experience, I think this book was mostly accurate and very insightful. Personally though, as I have been getting much of the content discussed from a youtuber (Nathan Glass), it didn't add that much value to me.
This book worth the read on the account of it didn't simply spewing out stereotypes or instant-package generalization of personality types, but instead focused right to the functional stack and the relationship between these functions in type's consciousness and emotional process, and how it manifested in the physical world. In that way, it helped in providing more understanding into other types beside INTP. Aligning with my experience, I think this book was mostly accurate and very insightful. Personally though, as I have been getting much of the content discussed from a youtuber (Nathan Glass), it didn't add that much value to me.
September 27, 2021
This excellent primer on the INTP personality goes beyond the typical "cartoon hero" image that all MBTI types have, unfortunately, had attached to them by various internet platforms and MBTI itself (and are just about as accurate as industrial fortune cookies).
"The INTP" explores different facets of the personality from various standpoints, offering both theoretical and practical insights. This places it somewhere between a serious discourse and a self-help book.
Topics include:
* an in-depth discussion of the top 4 functions and the axes in the INTP function stack (Ti - Fe, Ne - Si).
* what the goal of the personality is, namely "the search for meaning and truth" (the role of the eternal "seeker"), and how the INTP can both be facilitated in this goal as well as where the stumbling blocks could occur. (Practical tips given....such as to avoid basing opinions on emotional impression or mood, something INTPs with runaway Fe are likely to do.)
* how INTPs tend to approach politics, religion, society and philosophy through the lens of their function stack and why individual variations occur. (Some pushing hard on Ti individuality, while others are addicted to Fe's 'one world' concept, for example, would explain the difference between an atheist INTP and a Unitarian INTP.)
*What jobs and relationship styles are beneficial for the type.
Since INTPs don't like being told what to do -- screw your authority -- and want to develop their own patterns, Drenth recommends a hands-on, part-time day job to pay the bills, but which leaves plenty of off-time for personal investigation and exploration....Starbucks, I give you your INTP!)
and a few more.
Drenth's writing does at times veer into academic speech and he includes a number of 'high-brow' concepts that readers without a Master's degree in philosophy or psychology might feel out of their depth with. These are momentary, however. A good majority of the book is written in an understandable and helpful fashion.
For non-INTPs:
I'm not an INTP, but I am a student of personality typology and know a few INTPs.
I'd highly recommend this book to other"outsiders" who are interested in deepening their knowledge of typology and its practical, real world manifestations, as well as those who know or are related to an INTP and want to understand them better.
Well worth the money, this!
"The INTP" explores different facets of the personality from various standpoints, offering both theoretical and practical insights. This places it somewhere between a serious discourse and a self-help book.
Topics include:
* an in-depth discussion of the top 4 functions and the axes in the INTP function stack (Ti - Fe, Ne - Si).
* what the goal of the personality is, namely "the search for meaning and truth" (the role of the eternal "seeker"), and how the INTP can both be facilitated in this goal as well as where the stumbling blocks could occur. (Practical tips given....such as to avoid basing opinions on emotional impression or mood, something INTPs with runaway Fe are likely to do.)
* how INTPs tend to approach politics, religion, society and philosophy through the lens of their function stack and why individual variations occur. (Some pushing hard on Ti individuality, while others are addicted to Fe's 'one world' concept, for example, would explain the difference between an atheist INTP and a Unitarian INTP.)
*What jobs and relationship styles are beneficial for the type.
Since INTPs don't like being told what to do -- screw your authority -- and want to develop their own patterns, Drenth recommends a hands-on, part-time day job to pay the bills, but which leaves plenty of off-time for personal investigation and exploration....Starbucks, I give you your INTP!)
and a few more.
Drenth's writing does at times veer into academic speech and he includes a number of 'high-brow' concepts that readers without a Master's degree in philosophy or psychology might feel out of their depth with. These are momentary, however. A good majority of the book is written in an understandable and helpful fashion.
For non-INTPs:
I'm not an INTP, but I am a student of personality typology and know a few INTPs.
I'd highly recommend this book to other"outsiders" who are interested in deepening their knowledge of typology and its practical, real world manifestations, as well as those who know or are related to an INTP and want to understand them better.
Well worth the money, this!
November 13, 2018
The high rating is not because the book is well-written (although the writing is fine). It is just creepy to read your profile that has pegged you so completely.
February 25, 2016
Relationship dynamics are always more complicated than a book can contain but this is a must-read for anyone who is an INTP or who is in a relationship with one. Establishing the basis of how INTPs think and interpret, their (very important to them) needs and wants beforehand can avoid a lot of unpleasant and tense situations in relationships. A lot of people put little faith in the Myers Briggs typologies but, so far, I can definitely identify with a lot of the mental processes in my specific type. Categories of personalities definitely exist, with bigger of smaller percentages in the different functions assigned in this particular system and it helps to have at least a general idea of what to expect.
INTPs are not easy to be with and their behaviors might appear confusing and contradictory to other personality types but it all makes sense inside the INTP's head, sometimes on an unconscious level. It's good to know why these behaviors occur so as to not misinterpret and mislabel them for something they're not. An INTP aspires to a higher purpose (reaching it is a different matter) and their search for knowledge in areas that interest them is a crucial part of one's existence. This happens in detriment of earthly things such as household chores, environmental cleanliness, fashion, small talk and, most problematic of all, feelings. Feelings are something INTPs have huge issues with and they navigate inside their brains in a peculiar way, often times exhibiting behaviors inappropriate for what the situations call for. Logic is the dominant trait and an INTP will prefer it over emotion, a lot of times setting aside emotions altogether in favor of a logical debate even with a loved one over very personal and typically emotional matters. This is a problem for non-INTPs as they can't understand how a person can be so "cold" and detached from such a personal matter. This is where the main difference occurs between INTPs and non-such personalities. We can take the role of an objective bystander in matters that are deeply personal, but this leads to a deeper connection in the end and a non-INTP needs to know how this happens and the expected outcome.
In the end, the book is a very valuable resource for anyone who is involved with an INTP-type personality and it can be used as a tool to cement any relationship and often completely avoid pitfalls.
INTPs are not easy to be with and their behaviors might appear confusing and contradictory to other personality types but it all makes sense inside the INTP's head, sometimes on an unconscious level. It's good to know why these behaviors occur so as to not misinterpret and mislabel them for something they're not. An INTP aspires to a higher purpose (reaching it is a different matter) and their search for knowledge in areas that interest them is a crucial part of one's existence. This happens in detriment of earthly things such as household chores, environmental cleanliness, fashion, small talk and, most problematic of all, feelings. Feelings are something INTPs have huge issues with and they navigate inside their brains in a peculiar way, often times exhibiting behaviors inappropriate for what the situations call for. Logic is the dominant trait and an INTP will prefer it over emotion, a lot of times setting aside emotions altogether in favor of a logical debate even with a loved one over very personal and typically emotional matters. This is a problem for non-INTPs as they can't understand how a person can be so "cold" and detached from such a personal matter. This is where the main difference occurs between INTPs and non-such personalities. We can take the role of an objective bystander in matters that are deeply personal, but this leads to a deeper connection in the end and a non-INTP needs to know how this happens and the expected outcome.
In the end, the book is a very valuable resource for anyone who is involved with an INTP-type personality and it can be used as a tool to cement any relationship and often completely avoid pitfalls.
May 21, 2014
I have been misclassified as ISTP and INTJ. When I read those personality types I couldn't see myself in them. Finally in college when I was getting my Master's degree, I had the most accurate test yet. I was classified as INTP. Now over a decade later I have a book that tells me what it means. Plus it was like Dr. Drenth was reading my mind. It was the first time I thought that the Meyer's Briggs test was something more than a load of hooey.
Good read and the section on an inferior feeling (Fe) gave me insight to many problems I do have in emotional areas.
Good read and the section on an inferior feeling (Fe) gave me insight to many problems I do have in emotional areas.
February 21, 2021
When I first encountered MBTI, I was very excited to find a type to relate to, as I've always felt that I am different—not in a egoistic way—than others. This led me to a rabbit hole of online articles and discussion threads on forums, but as it is usual with INTPs, I became kind of bored with it. Especially because they all started to sound simtilar to me, and rather stereotypical. Also, as I started exploring and experiencing existential and philosophical questions in my own life, I was starting to believe that I am very different from a typical INTP. MBTI can not really pin down someone's personality at a comprehensive level.
That's when I read this book.
This book doesn't linger on the stereotypical description of the INTP. Instead, it quickly takes a deep dive into what our ambition in life is, how we're in a constant struggle to find meaning // truth in our work, and so on. Even the political, philosophical and spiritual tendencies of the INTP is laid out in this book, something which I didn't think can be attributed to typology, but it seems like I was wrong! I could entirely relate to everything the author had to say about INTP types.
The book helped me understand that these struggles that I've been having, aren't really non-INTPish, rather they are as INTPish as it could get. I gained a lot of perspective which I contemplated before, but couldn't be sure about. Especially about how should I approach my career.
Overall, I must say this book is a must read for all INTPs, especially the ones in the "phase II of their growth", i.e. young adulthood to thirties.
That's when I read this book.
This book doesn't linger on the stereotypical description of the INTP. Instead, it quickly takes a deep dive into what our ambition in life is, how we're in a constant struggle to find meaning // truth in our work, and so on. Even the political, philosophical and spiritual tendencies of the INTP is laid out in this book, something which I didn't think can be attributed to typology, but it seems like I was wrong! I could entirely relate to everything the author had to say about INTP types.
The book helped me understand that these struggles that I've been having, aren't really non-INTPish, rather they are as INTPish as it could get. I gained a lot of perspective which I contemplated before, but couldn't be sure about. Especially about how should I approach my career.
Overall, I must say this book is a must read for all INTPs, especially the ones in the "phase II of their growth", i.e. young adulthood to thirties.
August 21, 2021
An invaluable resource and one to which I ought to return to often, although I wouldn’t say that everything perfectly applies to my life 100% (more like 90%). I do have an obsession with truth and meaning, struggle with anxiety when I feel like life is meaningless, am pretty adamant about personal freedom (especially when it comes to what it is I want to read and study), require a relationship to be a forum of mutual learning and exploration, possess a dual personality of ‘Lone Wolf’ vs ‘Mr Nice Guy’, and frequently doubt many aspects of myself. Altogether great read and I’m sure I’d get along well with the author.
May 28, 2014
I really enjoyed this little book about the INTP personality type. I would say I fit 90% of what the author described were the strengths and weaknesses of the "Architects". It was like I was reading my autobiography! It's worthy of a second reading.
June 5, 2015
This is super effin creepy. I expect many nuances because typology tends to be generalization but damn, this book describes me to a T! I gotta share this book with some people who are baffled by how I think.
May 25, 2024
Quotations:
- They see themselves as questing for truth and meaning. Not only do they seek to know the truth about reality, but to cultivate an abundant and meaningful life.
- Complicating matters further is INTPs’ concern for finding and securing their rightful place in the world. This typically involves searching for two things: the right career and the right relationship.
- INTPs see it necessary to understand themselves—their personality, interests, abilities, and values—before they can act in the world with any degree of confidence or conviction.
- INTPs might envision their lives unfolding in the following way: 1) acquire adequate self-knowledge; 2) apply that self-knowledge to procure a fulfilling work life; 3) find someone to share that life with.
- Indeed, if we were to liken INTPs to a coin, we might put truth on one side and meaning on the other. Acutely aware of the brevity of life, INTPs strive to ensure that their lives and work are as authentic and meaningful as possible.
- Perhaps the best way of sampling INTPs’ inner world is through their work, such as by reading something they have written. This may explain why INTPs often take interest in writing, which provides a forum for more robust and precise self- expression.
- This is especially common in the workplace, where their lack of enthusiasm for organizational life, combined with their quirky outward demeanor, may be mistaken for incompetence.
- If we apply these findings to INTPs, male INTPs may exhibit a greater disconnect between their Thinking and Feeling, creating an even larger gulf between their dominant Ti and inferior Fe functions. If this is the case, it would further support the notion that INTP females are apt to be somewhat more “F-like" than INTP males.
- In fact, the vast majority of INTPs’ judgments go unsaid, leaving others with little clue as to what they are thinking.
- Because INTPs like to work independently and uninterruptedly, they can get frustrated when others interrupt or make demands of them. This is especially true when their thoughts are flowing and they don’t want to lose their momentum. In such instances, INTPs may think (although will rarely ever say) something along these lines: “I wish people would just leave me alone so I can get on with my work.”
- INTPs may be spontaneous (or impulsive) when they are at the helms, but when it comes to spontaneously responding to the outside world, they tend to drag their heels.
- INTPs can quickly locate inconsistencies or logical shortcomings in a given theory or argument. They excel in pinpointing exceptions or imagining scenarios in which a proposed explanation might breakdown. Due to their acute sensitivity to theoretical exceptions, they can be quick (sometimes too quick) to discard entire theories, throwing out the proverbial baby with the bathwater.
- Hence, writing (as well as other creative arts) can serve as helpful tools of discovery for INTPs. Rarely can INTPs know in advance what will emerge from the creative act, which is one reason creative work is so interesting and enjoyable for them.
- This associative propensity of Ne can make it difficult for INTPs (or other NP types) to cogently express themselves in a streamlined fashion. They may struggle to narrow all the verbal and ideational possibilities into a single linear expression. Even ideas that seem inwardly logical and sensible to INTPs may become muddled or incoherent when conveyed through Ne. This is why INTPs often feel more confident expressing themselves in writing, which affords them more time to arrange their ideas in a logical fashion.
- "eating to live" rather than "living to eat." They are also conservative with regard to their resources, tending toward saving over spending.
- INTPs may abstain from expressing their judgments in order to avoid unsettling others.
- If burdened by too many external pressures or demands, INTPs' willingness to help others is one of the first things to go.
- INTPs don’t want to get it wrong, to deal with the aftermath of being wrong, or to make decisions that involve or affect other people.
- Moreover, after restraining their feelings for some time, INTPs may display sudden outbursts of anger and frustration. They may also resort to more passive-aggressive forms of resistance, such as intentionally staying late at the office to protest their domestic dissatisfaction.
- INTPs can also become impatient with those who are slow to understand or embrace their ideas. They often expect others to learn as quickly and independently as they do.
- Indeed, others may be surprised how quickly INTPs can seemingly resume "business as usual" after what most would consider tragic or traumatic circumstances.
- INTPs feel it safer and easier to be responsible only for themselves.
- Since INTPs’ typical style is to simply avoid interpersonal contact and thereby avoid conflict, they can feel clueless and paralyzed when it comes to handling external conflict.
- INTPs also struggle with strong displays of negative emotions or perceived “neediness” from their romantic partners. When their partners, especially those with strong Fe expressiveness, come to them with an urgent need for support or reassurance, INTPs may find themselves feeling angry or spiteful rather than compassionate.
- As long as feelings of love and romance are confined to the imagination, INTPs really aren’t at war with themselves. With relative ease, they can toggle between their Ti pursuits and their Fe fantasies.
- Because INTPs are relatively ill-equipped to navigate emotionally-difficult situations, their inferior Fe is inclined to do all it can to defend itself. Hence, in emotionally intense or chaotic situations, INTPs may suddenly be overwhelmed with feelings of rage and anger, which, left unmitigated, may quickly transport them to the dark side.
- INTPs may also become depressed when they feel they have nothing important to contribute to the world or that the world doesn’t really need them (Fe). Repeated “failures” or a persistent sense of hopelessness or dissatisfaction in their careers or relationships may prove especially difficult for INTPs to navigate.
- Excessive anxiety can be mentally, physically, and emotionally draining, even debilitating. It can prove a real impediment to INTPs’ work and relationships, not to mention their overall happiness and well-being.
- If INTPs truly believe they have the skills and inner resources to be okay no matter what, life’s trivial worries will lose their power over them.
- “If I can train my mind and body to be a perfect vessel for satisfying experience, then I will be protected against the vicissitudes of life that might otherwise threaten me.”
- They may assume that the world has no use for their questions, their skepticism, or their Ne creativity. But these assumptions are merely projections of their inferior function. The truth is that the world needs them to ask probing questions, to poke holes in existing theories, and to provide creative or explorative “food for thought.” Indeed, the INTP’s role, especially early in life, more closely resembles that of the artist, skeptic, critic, or provocateur than that of the sage or prophet.
- INTPs are bothered by perceived wastefulness or squandering of natural resources (especially non-renewable ones).
- their Ti distrust in the efficacy of collective programs, their Ti preference for individual-driven solutions, their Si fiscal conservatism.
- For instance, INTPs may question the value of democracy in a society where people assume a “herd mentality” and fail to think for themselves. They may come to see both top- down authoritarian rule, as well as bottom-up democratic processes, as inherently flawed.
- many INTPs fall into a state of political cynicism or apathy, opting to go about their business without much hope in collective solutions.
- They may fear that making the wrong choice may doom them to a life of misery performing uninspiring work.
- Like Einstein, many INTPs prefer to use their own methods and “thought experiments” for discerning truth, rather than functioning as “professional” scientists.
- they are typically better off selecting careers that heavily utilize Ti and Ne and don’t require too much in the way of direct Fe engagement.
- Shaping their work into a marketable product or service can be a frustrating affair for INTPs, since doing so can make them feel they are compromising the purity of their work. At the same time, INTPs don’t want their work going forever unnoticed or unrecognized, which may compel them to find a channel for bringing it to the world.
- Indeed, when forced to devote time and energy to too many things at once, INTPs can get weary and lose sight of their primary interest.
- INTPs are typically happier when they partake in a variety of activities each day, thereby satisfying all their functional needs—T, N, S, and F. Granted, there is a pecking order for these functions, but as P-types, INTPs need variety to remain happy, stimulated, and balanced.
- As Introverts, they are repelled by shoddy work whose primary purpose is to make money.
- INTPs prefer the idea of producing something of lasting worth, rooted in mastery (or at least competence) in a given discipline.
- Another way of framing the subjectivity-objectivity issue is recognizing that the good life is comprised of the good, the true, and the beautiful. So rather than focusing exclusively on objective truth, INTPs might think of their work in terms of its subjective truth, beauty, or goodness.
- They see themselves as questing for truth and meaning. Not only do they seek to know the truth about reality, but to cultivate an abundant and meaningful life.
- Complicating matters further is INTPs’ concern for finding and securing their rightful place in the world. This typically involves searching for two things: the right career and the right relationship.
- INTPs see it necessary to understand themselves—their personality, interests, abilities, and values—before they can act in the world with any degree of confidence or conviction.
- INTPs might envision their lives unfolding in the following way: 1) acquire adequate self-knowledge; 2) apply that self-knowledge to procure a fulfilling work life; 3) find someone to share that life with.
- Indeed, if we were to liken INTPs to a coin, we might put truth on one side and meaning on the other. Acutely aware of the brevity of life, INTPs strive to ensure that their lives and work are as authentic and meaningful as possible.
- Perhaps the best way of sampling INTPs’ inner world is through their work, such as by reading something they have written. This may explain why INTPs often take interest in writing, which provides a forum for more robust and precise self- expression.
- This is especially common in the workplace, where their lack of enthusiasm for organizational life, combined with their quirky outward demeanor, may be mistaken for incompetence.
- If we apply these findings to INTPs, male INTPs may exhibit a greater disconnect between their Thinking and Feeling, creating an even larger gulf between their dominant Ti and inferior Fe functions. If this is the case, it would further support the notion that INTP females are apt to be somewhat more “F-like" than INTP males.
- In fact, the vast majority of INTPs’ judgments go unsaid, leaving others with little clue as to what they are thinking.
- Because INTPs like to work independently and uninterruptedly, they can get frustrated when others interrupt or make demands of them. This is especially true when their thoughts are flowing and they don’t want to lose their momentum. In such instances, INTPs may think (although will rarely ever say) something along these lines: “I wish people would just leave me alone so I can get on with my work.”
- INTPs may be spontaneous (or impulsive) when they are at the helms, but when it comes to spontaneously responding to the outside world, they tend to drag their heels.
- INTPs can quickly locate inconsistencies or logical shortcomings in a given theory or argument. They excel in pinpointing exceptions or imagining scenarios in which a proposed explanation might breakdown. Due to their acute sensitivity to theoretical exceptions, they can be quick (sometimes too quick) to discard entire theories, throwing out the proverbial baby with the bathwater.
- Hence, writing (as well as other creative arts) can serve as helpful tools of discovery for INTPs. Rarely can INTPs know in advance what will emerge from the creative act, which is one reason creative work is so interesting and enjoyable for them.
- This associative propensity of Ne can make it difficult for INTPs (or other NP types) to cogently express themselves in a streamlined fashion. They may struggle to narrow all the verbal and ideational possibilities into a single linear expression. Even ideas that seem inwardly logical and sensible to INTPs may become muddled or incoherent when conveyed through Ne. This is why INTPs often feel more confident expressing themselves in writing, which affords them more time to arrange their ideas in a logical fashion.
- "eating to live" rather than "living to eat." They are also conservative with regard to their resources, tending toward saving over spending.
- INTPs may abstain from expressing their judgments in order to avoid unsettling others.
- If burdened by too many external pressures or demands, INTPs' willingness to help others is one of the first things to go.
- INTPs don’t want to get it wrong, to deal with the aftermath of being wrong, or to make decisions that involve or affect other people.
- Moreover, after restraining their feelings for some time, INTPs may display sudden outbursts of anger and frustration. They may also resort to more passive-aggressive forms of resistance, such as intentionally staying late at the office to protest their domestic dissatisfaction.
- INTPs can also become impatient with those who are slow to understand or embrace their ideas. They often expect others to learn as quickly and independently as they do.
- Indeed, others may be surprised how quickly INTPs can seemingly resume "business as usual" after what most would consider tragic or traumatic circumstances.
- INTPs feel it safer and easier to be responsible only for themselves.
- Since INTPs’ typical style is to simply avoid interpersonal contact and thereby avoid conflict, they can feel clueless and paralyzed when it comes to handling external conflict.
- INTPs also struggle with strong displays of negative emotions or perceived “neediness” from their romantic partners. When their partners, especially those with strong Fe expressiveness, come to them with an urgent need for support or reassurance, INTPs may find themselves feeling angry or spiteful rather than compassionate.
- As long as feelings of love and romance are confined to the imagination, INTPs really aren’t at war with themselves. With relative ease, they can toggle between their Ti pursuits and their Fe fantasies.
- Because INTPs are relatively ill-equipped to navigate emotionally-difficult situations, their inferior Fe is inclined to do all it can to defend itself. Hence, in emotionally intense or chaotic situations, INTPs may suddenly be overwhelmed with feelings of rage and anger, which, left unmitigated, may quickly transport them to the dark side.
- INTPs may also become depressed when they feel they have nothing important to contribute to the world or that the world doesn’t really need them (Fe). Repeated “failures” or a persistent sense of hopelessness or dissatisfaction in their careers or relationships may prove especially difficult for INTPs to navigate.
- Excessive anxiety can be mentally, physically, and emotionally draining, even debilitating. It can prove a real impediment to INTPs’ work and relationships, not to mention their overall happiness and well-being.
- If INTPs truly believe they have the skills and inner resources to be okay no matter what, life’s trivial worries will lose their power over them.
- “If I can train my mind and body to be a perfect vessel for satisfying experience, then I will be protected against the vicissitudes of life that might otherwise threaten me.”
- They may assume that the world has no use for their questions, their skepticism, or their Ne creativity. But these assumptions are merely projections of their inferior function. The truth is that the world needs them to ask probing questions, to poke holes in existing theories, and to provide creative or explorative “food for thought.” Indeed, the INTP’s role, especially early in life, more closely resembles that of the artist, skeptic, critic, or provocateur than that of the sage or prophet.
- INTPs are bothered by perceived wastefulness or squandering of natural resources (especially non-renewable ones).
- their Ti distrust in the efficacy of collective programs, their Ti preference for individual-driven solutions, their Si fiscal conservatism.
- For instance, INTPs may question the value of democracy in a society where people assume a “herd mentality” and fail to think for themselves. They may come to see both top- down authoritarian rule, as well as bottom-up democratic processes, as inherently flawed.
- many INTPs fall into a state of political cynicism or apathy, opting to go about their business without much hope in collective solutions.
- They may fear that making the wrong choice may doom them to a life of misery performing uninspiring work.
- Like Einstein, many INTPs prefer to use their own methods and “thought experiments” for discerning truth, rather than functioning as “professional” scientists.
- they are typically better off selecting careers that heavily utilize Ti and Ne and don’t require too much in the way of direct Fe engagement.
- Shaping their work into a marketable product or service can be a frustrating affair for INTPs, since doing so can make them feel they are compromising the purity of their work. At the same time, INTPs don’t want their work going forever unnoticed or unrecognized, which may compel them to find a channel for bringing it to the world.
- Indeed, when forced to devote time and energy to too many things at once, INTPs can get weary and lose sight of their primary interest.
- INTPs are typically happier when they partake in a variety of activities each day, thereby satisfying all their functional needs—T, N, S, and F. Granted, there is a pecking order for these functions, but as P-types, INTPs need variety to remain happy, stimulated, and balanced.
- As Introverts, they are repelled by shoddy work whose primary purpose is to make money.
- INTPs prefer the idea of producing something of lasting worth, rooted in mastery (or at least competence) in a given discipline.
- Another way of framing the subjectivity-objectivity issue is recognizing that the good life is comprised of the good, the true, and the beautiful. So rather than focusing exclusively on objective truth, INTPs might think of their work in terms of its subjective truth, beauty, or goodness.
September 20, 2021
我以为intp不会结婚。也不会考虑这种事。原来生殖焦虑intp男也不会幸免。我以为会看到怎么过好单身生活。怎么享受单身生活。结果还是婚婚婚。回忆整本书，发现没有学到什么。还是陈词滥调。
January 19, 2023
I'm an INTP and I absolutely resonated with this book, also Drenth has a great way of communicating his ideas (really INTP of him) and i overall found this very informative, well written and interesting. I'll def read more of his work.
February 1, 2020
I once complained that I didn’t like this book because, after having spent money on it and reading it, I figured it could have been free, as I didn’t learn much, as an “INTP” myself.
A few years ago I thought I’d make a joke. Things used to be more mysterious back then to everyone, but in the span of 3-4 years, humanity has made much scientific, and philosophical, progress.
When I was starting out, I related to this type as a “black sheep”. I thought I would seek the “extraverted” counterpart out, ENTP, for companionship and to relate to someone.
After facing racial discrimination in America, the joke I made was that I finally figured out a way to identify the ENTPs. They were like ENFPs, but different.
Upon announcing my discovery, after many hours in the field, I noted on an online discussion forum that ENTPs were like INTPs except “bigger” in almost every way, as a reference to a known member of that forum who was ENTP and once threatened everyone with self defense. While muscular, he was also short.
I thought it was funny because it meant they’re usually fatter, dumber, and bigger unoriginal people. But some thought it in their best interest to interpret it purposefully positively, meaning that somehow they’re also bigger geniuses et cetera. As an axiom, they also push the use of unconscious intuition excessively, and may not also be “conscious” of the effect they have on other things. By contrast either type could be the bigger comedian, because we know how important being funny is when choosing a mate. It’s said the ENTP could provide more entertainment, but it’s really a fight over scarce resources.
A few years ago I thought I’d make a joke. Things used to be more mysterious back then to everyone, but in the span of 3-4 years, humanity has made much scientific, and philosophical, progress.
When I was starting out, I related to this type as a “black sheep”. I thought I would seek the “extraverted” counterpart out, ENTP, for companionship and to relate to someone.
After facing racial discrimination in America, the joke I made was that I finally figured out a way to identify the ENTPs. They were like ENFPs, but different.
Upon announcing my discovery, after many hours in the field, I noted on an online discussion forum that ENTPs were like INTPs except “bigger” in almost every way, as a reference to a known member of that forum who was ENTP and once threatened everyone with self defense. While muscular, he was also short.
I thought it was funny because it meant they’re usually fatter, dumber, and bigger unoriginal people. But some thought it in their best interest to interpret it purposefully positively, meaning that somehow they’re also bigger geniuses et cetera. As an axiom, they also push the use of unconscious intuition excessively, and may not also be “conscious” of the effect they have on other things. By contrast either type could be the bigger comedian, because we know how important being funny is when choosing a mate. It’s said the ENTP could provide more entertainment, but it’s really a fight over scarce resources.
June 6, 2021
After reading a variety of books on the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) written by various levels of authors it is a pleasure reading The INTP by Dr. A. J. Drenth. It is apparent that this isn’t any geek of the street, but someone how has earned their keep in the field of MBTI.
Takeaways:
• If you are an INTP you are not alone, and this book can help you navigate through life.
• Find people who understand you, and do not worry about being misunderstood.
• Regardless of what happens you as an INTP has the intellectual capacity to be okay.
• Selecting the right kind of trajectory will make your life easier.
• Know your limitations as an INTP.
Sometimes The INTP gets a bit too caught up in the implicitness of the abbreviations and typology. It makes the writing style unnecessarily cumbersome for the reader. This book could easily dial down the complexity and up the readability.
The INTP is a great book that will help you understand how this personality type perceives the world. It is written by an INTP for INTPs. Although it is unnecessarily complex there are many useful observations and building blocks for strategies.
As an INTP I learned a lot from reading The INTP. In many ways it provided moments of clarity and a checklist for how I was doing in life. I read it quite fast but didn’t like that some sections came across as if I was reading a mix of a dens philosophical text and a physics textbook.
Takeaways:
• If you are an INTP you are not alone, and this book can help you navigate through life.
• Find people who understand you, and do not worry about being misunderstood.
• Regardless of what happens you as an INTP has the intellectual capacity to be okay.
• Selecting the right kind of trajectory will make your life easier.
• Know your limitations as an INTP.
Sometimes The INTP gets a bit too caught up in the implicitness of the abbreviations and typology. It makes the writing style unnecessarily cumbersome for the reader. This book could easily dial down the complexity and up the readability.
The INTP is a great book that will help you understand how this personality type perceives the world. It is written by an INTP for INTPs. Although it is unnecessarily complex there are many useful observations and building blocks for strategies.
As an INTP I learned a lot from reading The INTP. In many ways it provided moments of clarity and a checklist for how I was doing in life. I read it quite fast but didn’t like that some sections came across as if I was reading a mix of a dens philosophical text and a physics textbook.
January 17, 2021
For those who already have an understanding of MBTI and are interested in this overview-cum-handbook for the INTP type (almost certainly just INTPs and those who love them), this is a useful read. The use of the functional stack (Ti, Ne, Si, Fe) helped give a different perspective than most analyzes.
My sense was that the author focused on the stacks in the order of Fe-Ne-Ti-Si; this was a little surprising, but as the analytic side of the INTP is well covered elsewhere, the focus on the Fe in particular provides a useful insight. I'm not sure any other analysis I've read has covered INTP emotions so thoroughly, or made such a strong case for how emotional needs are a major driver of INTP social behavior, including the need to be needed and the impulse to work in social roles.
An insight gleaned from the book was that the Ti drives the search for convergent truth and the Ne drives the search for enduring meaning. I had not previously considered that Ne, and meaning, could be considered fundamentally emotional rather than rational.
Some chapters were more engaging than others. The chapter on mental disordered wasn't particularly interesting, though that may reflect personal preference: as the author predicts, I typically find abnormal psychology the least interesting branch of social psychology (as the author predicts. The chapters on career choices and other-type romantic relationships felt like they had less useful ideas. The chapters on truth and meaning, politics and religion, and relationships however offered more. The chapter on Growth and the three life phases of INTP development was perhaps the most novel.
The book occasionally gave the impression of being autobiographical, and I did find myself wondering what evidence the author had to back up his theories beyond his own experiences. Almost no other articles or books are mentioned, and the additional resources at the end are all the author's own works. Even taken as simply his own unscientific thoughts, though, it was a useful read.
"regardless of what happens, I'll be okay."
My sense was that the author focused on the stacks in the order of Fe-Ne-Ti-Si; this was a little surprising, but as the analytic side of the INTP is well covered elsewhere, the focus on the Fe in particular provides a useful insight. I'm not sure any other analysis I've read has covered INTP emotions so thoroughly, or made such a strong case for how emotional needs are a major driver of INTP social behavior, including the need to be needed and the impulse to work in social roles.
An insight gleaned from the book was that the Ti drives the search for convergent truth and the Ne drives the search for enduring meaning. I had not previously considered that Ne, and meaning, could be considered fundamentally emotional rather than rational.
Some chapters were more engaging than others. The chapter on mental disordered wasn't particularly interesting, though that may reflect personal preference: as the author predicts, I typically find abnormal psychology the least interesting branch of social psychology (as the author predicts. The chapters on career choices and other-type romantic relationships felt like they had less useful ideas. The chapters on truth and meaning, politics and religion, and relationships however offered more. The chapter on Growth and the three life phases of INTP development was perhaps the most novel.
The book occasionally gave the impression of being autobiographical, and I did find myself wondering what evidence the author had to back up his theories beyond his own experiences. Almost no other articles or books are mentioned, and the additional resources at the end are all the author's own works. Even taken as simply his own unscientific thoughts, though, it was a useful read.
"regardless of what happens, I'll be okay."
June 19, 2020
It was life changing experiences, I knew there was a book for me, to unlock my potential.
December 23, 2018
I felt that the book eerily described me. I also liked the fact that the author suggested guidelines rather than clear cut solutions in order to overcome common INTP challenges. I mean, what would an INTP do with easy answers after all..haha. More than half the fun lies in the journey! I must say though that I did benefit from a lot of things mentioned in the book. A lot of the advice or insights helped explain behaviours that I have often found difficult to explain to myself. They will also thankfully serve as future guideposts when I might have to navigate difficult situations in areas of life such as careers, relationships etc. I would suggest this book to anyone who is an INTP and wants to understand oneself better - like most INTP's do.
May 7, 2016
I have followed Personality Junkie website for a couple of years and reading this book has given me a whole new perspective. As an INTP there are plenty of questions in my mind, majority of which made more sense after reading this book.
From the inner restlessness to careers and relations, this book covers all the important aspects of INTPs life and how they deal with them. It doesn't treat everything in black and white, rather provide facts and some opinions (especially in Relationship section) that help in understanding thought process better.
All in all an excellent read for an INTP or someone who wants to understand INTPs better.
From the inner restlessness to careers and relations, this book covers all the important aspects of INTPs life and how they deal with them. It doesn't treat everything in black and white, rather provide facts and some opinions (especially in Relationship section) that help in understanding thought process better.
All in all an excellent read for an INTP or someone who wants to understand INTPs better.
April 20, 2018
Going into reading this book, I totally thought I was an INTP...and I definitely resonated with a lot of the characteristics discussed in this book. However, the last chapter, discussing common types INTP's mistake themselves for, made me wonder if I may need to take a second look at my type.
Other than that, Drenth does a masterful job of making complex personality theory very digestible by the layman. I did find his perspective to be a little more "you can't change who you are" than I'd like - the development of character can mitigate a lot of inherent weakness in all personality types - but I believe that stems from Drenth having a different worldview than my own.
Other than that, Drenth does a masterful job of making complex personality theory very digestible by the layman. I did find his perspective to be a little more "you can't change who you are" than I'd like - the development of character can mitigate a lot of inherent weakness in all personality types - but I believe that stems from Drenth having a different worldview than my own.
August 4, 2018
This is one of the most useful guides to the INTP Myers-Briggs type currently available. Drenth's work struck me as at times almost oracular in terms of insights and "how did it *know* that about me?" revelations, and for that reason alone would be a useful read for INTPs and those seeking to know more about them. The breadth of the book is also remarkable, covering the theory behind the INTP, then showing how it applies in a wide variety of life areas, including relationships and careers.
February 21, 2018
Being very INTP, I find psychology typology is an absolutely amazing tool to explore yourself and maximise your potentials. Most of the book is accurate in explaining many of my tendencies and the underlying drivers behind them, and also gives very good advices. Some parts of the book though I find is quite biased - but understandable considering it’s impossible to generalise human being’s complex nature.
October 4, 2018
So far the most accurate description of an INTP, i would say that 80-90% applies.
I liked how it addresses our inferior function (extroverted feeling) since it's often neglected.
Many ugly and bitter truths that might be difficult to handle.
I liked how it addresses our inferior function (extroverted feeling) since it's often neglected.
Many ugly and bitter truths that might be difficult to handle.
December 5, 2017
Highly recommended reading for INTPs and people who interact closely with them. Scary how closely it matches my own experiences.
March 29, 2019
Interesting in the way a horoscope is interesting. Broad generalizations, some unhelpful insights.
November 22, 2020
Since most chapters in this book are taken from the website Personality Junkie (run by the author), I’ve already read 90% of this book beforehand so it’s not really new or useful for me.
August 13, 2019
All throughout adolescence, I've always struggled with social relationships. I felt tremendously isolated and misconstrued. I've ruled out AVPD and social anxiety disorder since both are extremes that don't seem to fit in the puzzle. (And according to my counselor, I didn't have them). I started knowing about MBTI when I was eighteen. I wrongly tested as INFP at first. Lover of words, arts and harmony with honed writing skills. But I've always felt like I'm not as incredibly gifted at relating to others like what comes naturally to infps. So I did the mbti test for the second time about four years later and was typed as INTP. Reading about INTP hits much closer to home. Finally I can convince myself that there's no flaw in my chemical balance or anything. It's just how I function as a person. I'm dominantly introverted in thinking. I keep a lot of things to myself. Prolonged social contacts are exhausting. I don't like crowds and it makes me physically nauseous. I've never liked being the center of attention. I dress to blend in, making sure I never get noticed. I'm a wallflower to a fault. My auxiliary function is extraverted intuition. I am always in a state of indecision. Things could be staring at me from under my nose and I would still have doubts. I feel like I'm running but my destination is unclear. There's a summit that I want to climb on top of but right now it's hidden under an amazon of forests. It gets darker and there are many choices and I want to keep postoponing decisions for as long as I can handle. I am not interested in material things. Brands, luxuries, stuff of airy fairy exist only in fantasies. I am miser when it comes to money. I'm a cheapskate and proud. I don't like womenly chores. I'm not as demure as other women. I don't have the charm, poise and attractiveness. I'm always thinking. I get lost in my train of thoughts so easily. I even blank out when someone's talking to me. It's not like I'm not paying attention, but when bits of pieces of what they're saying attract me, I'd mull it over in my head. And suddenly I'm connecting two with two. Suddenly I lost what they're saying because I've reached somewhere else. I'm an analyzer without anyone asking. This one time I went to a food festival with my friends and while we were sitting and eating and casually talking, I suddenly asked them about the food tents, whether they are a form of investment property or lease, suddenly remembering about a lecture months ago. And they told me I was random. I didn't even know where it came from. Sometimes I hated being boring. As an accounting major, I cannot simply memorise debit and credit before first knowing the rationale behind the principles. I sometimes forgo lengthy textbook explanations to derive at my own conclusions. I love how the summation of these tiny but complex data adds up to the bigger picture of financial statements. I love how they can be misleading but still represented as truth. Anyway, I'm rambling. On the other side, namely social cues, I can hardly pick up on. What do you say as pleasantries? How do you hold eye contact? Is it appropriate to talk about the weather? Is it sufficient to not reply and just smile at them? Is everyone born with an internal dictionary for Small Talks which I apparently don't have? I'm not good at fitting in. I blend in, sure, but when inside an organization I stick out like a sore thumb because I'm always the one who abandons customs. I hate the idea of an appointed leader. I hate the fact that I'm answerable to someone. I dislike it when I'm not allowed to do things my way. When formalities are in place and sets of procedures need to be followed, it suffocates me. I'm not very good at feelings. But that does not make me robotic or heartless. It makes me suppress them. And the feelings always get out at unfortunate moments, a moment too late. My Fe function is apparently the least developed in the INTP stack and that explains the bouts of irritability. That explains why most of the times my feelings get the best of me. Why I latch on to ideals. Why I seek some sort of external validation. Your most inferior function can break you when you don't learn enough to keep it under control. This book has finally shown me why I am the way I am. Every passage is like enlightenment. I am relieved from the torrential questions of "What is bloody wrong with me?" and swept into a temporary relief of typology. But knowing why you are the way you are is not the end of self-knowledge. I admit the book sheds a lot of criticisms about the INTP personality. Those criticisms did strike a chord to me as well. The next step is to do what it takes, under these given knowledge, to better myself as a human. And it's going to take beyond reading and me actually doing the practical side of things so that I can live this one life the best I can. Making the best mistakes and the best corrections. This book is a blessing. I hope there's a book for every personality type. You are not alone.
November 11, 2022
I was quite sceptical of this book and MBTI in general, but being in my early 30s (Phase II), I have been struggling with understanding who I am and what I want from my life, and thought I would explore whether an MBTI type analysis can shed any light on how to break the cycle I'm in.
It's interesting that the author decides to start the book by briefly talking about finding truth and meaning in the modern world (which he expands upon later in the book), almost knowing that this is a topic many INTPs spend a great deal of their time thinking about and is likely to catch the reader's attention. Well, it did catch my attention, and I read the book in a single sitting. Throughout the book, the author goes on several short philosophical tangents (which are enjoyable), where he references Nietzsche, Kant and Kierkegaard. For me, this was a welcome surprise in a book on MBTI types.
One of the most useful bits of advice I found in this book was to be aware of the negatives that come with the trait, most notably their lack of emotional maturity. This is memorably summarised with the following quote,
In multiple places throughout the book, Drenth refers to the childlike romanticism that INTPs can experience (think of love-at-first-sight) and how this makes INTPs fantasise about new careers or new relationships, while not being grounded in reality at all. He advises that INTPs use their thinking and intuition (the things they're strongest at) before trusting their emotions.
Overall, I think this book describes my personality very well. The biggest surprise to me was the short section on computer simulations. Computer simulations take up a huge amount of my time, both in work (I write computer simulations for work) and recreation (I love playing with simulation engines). Considering where I want to go next in my career, I will say that Drenth described my perfect worklife: part-time 'wagie' work while pursuing my own interests on the side, noting that the pursuit of meaning come well before money and materialism for INTPs.
It's a short book that is worth the read.
It's interesting that the author decides to start the book by briefly talking about finding truth and meaning in the modern world (which he expands upon later in the book), almost knowing that this is a topic many INTPs spend a great deal of their time thinking about and is likely to catch the reader's attention. Well, it did catch my attention, and I read the book in a single sitting. Throughout the book, the author goes on several short philosophical tangents (which are enjoyable), where he references Nietzsche, Kant and Kierkegaard. For me, this was a welcome surprise in a book on MBTI types.
One of the most useful bits of advice I found in this book was to be aware of the negatives that come with the trait, most notably their lack of emotional maturity. This is memorably summarised with the following quote,
... in many ways, an INTP listening to his emotions is akin to taking advice from a naïve or angry child.
In multiple places throughout the book, Drenth refers to the childlike romanticism that INTPs can experience (think of love-at-first-sight) and how this makes INTPs fantasise about new careers or new relationships, while not being grounded in reality at all. He advises that INTPs use their thinking and intuition (the things they're strongest at) before trusting their emotions.
Overall, I think this book describes my personality very well. The biggest surprise to me was the short section on computer simulations. Computer simulations take up a huge amount of my time, both in work (I write computer simulations for work) and recreation (I love playing with simulation engines). Considering where I want to go next in my career, I will say that Drenth described my perfect worklife: part-time 'wagie' work while pursuing my own interests on the side, noting that the pursuit of meaning come well before money and materialism for INTPs.
It's a short book that is worth the read.
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