What They Need To Hear: Sharing Christ with Family and Friends

by Klemet I. Preus

Maybe above all else, we want our family members and friends to rejoice with us in God as our Savior. Yet, those closest to us often present us with the greatest challenges for our witness. This inspirational book is a collection of Rev. Preus’s letters to Lloyd. It is a captivating, real-life story of how one man returned to faith through the witness of his son-in-law. Written over a period of almost two years, Rev. Preus’s letters to Lloyd contain devotional and doctrinal insight, and offer personal anecdotes and practical advice to help readers who are struggling to reach out to friends or family members who have questions about Christianity.

Genres: Theology

210 pages, Kindle Edition

First published November 1, 2013

Reviews

[Luke · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is a jewel. A series of letters written to a family member who had questioned his faith and stopped attending worship, but was now ill and in turmoil. Do you know someone like that among family or friends? Do you wish there were a way to strength their faith and encourage them to know the comfort you have? Very fine evangelical tool to reach others in a winsome, effective way. He points out that much evangelism is built on a relationship of trust, and that objections are only opportunities to start a conversation and a request for more information. People don't have objections to something they don't care about. This is a wonderful book.

[Gary · Rating 5 out of 5]

Devotional, catechetical, apologetic, and inspirational. I hope all of you read it and are called closer to Jesus.

[The other John · Rating 3 out of 5]

A couple months ago there was a meme running on the social networking site Twitter. People were posting the hashtag #FourWordBible, along with a four word statement. Some people took the instructions metaphorically, using their four words to declare a general philosophy: "Be real with me", "Do not trust easily", "Spread love, practice peace." Others treated the meme as a joke, posting things like: "Bears, Beets, Battlestar Galactica", "Chatty snake ruins everything", or "Thou shall not hashtag." Unfortunately, the majority of people took the opportunity to slam Christianity: "Price list for SLAVES", "Most Sold Fiction Novel", "Crowd Control R Us."

sigh... There's a lot of misinformed people out there. Not that there aren't legitimate complaints against us Christians. But I have to wonder if some of those critics have even heard the story of Jesus before. Of course, that just makes me wonder if I'm doing my job in telling the story to those around me. Which, in turn, makes me think of my shortcomings in doing that job. How can I do better?

What They Need to Hear struck me as being a useful tool for that. This book is not a how-to manual for evangelism, but rather a case study in witnessing. In 2006, Pastor Preus thought his father-in-law was on his death bed. A conversation with Lloyd revealed that he had serious doubts and misconceptions about his salvation. Pastor Preus started to answer Lloyd's questions, address his errors, and offer him the comfort and power of the Gospel. Because Lloyd's imminent death took 18 months, Rev. Preus was able to gather a book's worth of letters to share with others.

I found the book to be beneficial on two levels. One is the simple content that Rev. Preus shared with Lloyd, a combination of apologetics and catechesis. The other is the chance to watch the interaction between Rev. Preus and his father-in-law. The thread of witness didn't follow a pre-planned pattern, but rather reacted to Lloyd's questions and events in his life. I think it's a good book to read and tuck away in the back of my brain, to await the day when I encounter a "Lloyd" in my own life.

[K B · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good read - worth the time!

[Angie · Rating 5 out of 5]

Excellent overview of the faith. Apologetic, doctrinal, yet easy to read.