This is a review of Netgalley copy that I received in advance of the publishing date - that I paid for by being a part of the author's "pre-launch team."
Until January, I'd never heard of Jamie Kern Lima. On New Year's Day, I watched an all-day motivational online program from Brandon Burchard, ONLY because Mel Robbins was on it, and I like Mel Robbins. The program line-up included Jamie Kern Lima, founder of IT cosmetics. At the time, I was like, "Cool. Successful female entrepreneur" and moved on. Then I started seeing Facebook ads for her "launch team" for her book. What pulled me in was the activity book/journal to use with the book and a program from her. I'm a sucker for activity books/journals and online personal development programs if they have some validity. In this case, she was a successful entrepreneur who hadn't inherited a business or wealth.
After looking at the launch team goodies, I decided to spend the money on the Kindle version, which would give me access to a Netgalley copy.
Here's the review:
It's an easy read, and she, or her ghostwriter, is a good writer.
Yes, there's some God talk, and a lot of it. I suspected as much when I saw that she had Victoria Osteen as a speaker on her free all-day online "pump you up" presentation on February 22, 2021, the day before the book was available. (It became available today.) There's a whole chapter devoted to her definition of her faith. It's light on Jesus, no mention of Christ, and all God light. Just putting that out there for those who want to know. By praising Osteen, I knew what kind of mentality I was dealing with.
My takeaway is this: She's worked very hard for a long time to be where she is. She also probably couldn't have done it without her husband, Paulo, whom she met when they were both at an elite business graduate school. Over at least a decade, they put so many hours in that they didn't spend time with family, they didn't spend time together as a married couple, and their physical health was in tatters for years. You may be a business success, but what does that say about your life? That's not my definition of a successful life. She may have the time and money now to live life, but there was no guarantee that this would happen, and that after 40, she could finally start truly living.
Also, she does touch on her and her husband's addiction to work. That's definitely something that they need to work on. Addiction in any form isn't healthy. I'm curious to know what they were both running from by being workaholics. Typically, if you have one addiction, it will transfer to something else if not dealt with.
If you're looking for a "how to be a business success," from this book, let me save you some time and money. These are the book's takeaways on that topic: learn business, develop and protect a product, develop a good story about the product, have a partner who's willing to work for free, and be willing to dedicate your life's energy and time so that your business might be a success.
While she does spend a lot of time talking about "raise up the women in your life," which is inspiring, it's a bit light on that, and I'm probably going to read the Sallie Krawcheck book.
It's also a memoir, with a lot about her struggle to deal with being "given up" at birth, even though she was adopted into a loving family that could take care of her. I really hope that she's sought counseling from a licensed clinical counselor and not just a "pastor" to deal with her issues related to being "given up." She doesn't have issues with being adopted, she has issues with being "given up" by an 18-year-old girl who became pregnant after a one-time sexual act back in the 1970s. Her lack of compassion and understanding for a girl who found herself pregnant and scared in the 1970s was appalling to me. Her wanting to be held like a baby (as an adult woman in her 30s or 40s) by her birth mother was troubling.
Her chat room on Facebook tends to be adoring fans who are familiar with her as a product - not her cosmetic line, which is baffling to me.
Do I regret spending the money for access to the Netgally copy? No. It definitely shows that hard work and many sacrifices are probably necessary for a start-up to be successful. I'm looking forward to seeing this 5-lesson program she created because the one thing that comes across is "You must believe in yourself, even when no one else does," even though in her case, she also had an incredibly dedicated husband who she definitely gives credit to for her success.
Who is this book for? I'm not sure. I read it because I'm looking at starting a business, and I wanted to be inspired by a successful female entrepreneur who wasn't born with a silver spoon in her mouth.