Now this is my type of spiritual book!
I came to this book looking not for exceptional physical performance, but to expand my perspectives on how to improve well-being. As it turns out, Ralston delivers this in spades even though the book is, nominally, focused on physical performance.
I consider the teachings and practices in this book to provide one of the best core curriculums I've seen for improving well-being. Ralston has distilled away the dogma and obfuscation of full blown spiritual traditions and the remaining core is predominantly truly conducive for improved relationships with oneself, objects, and other people. And that is what spirituality and well-being should be all about in my opinion.
I believe that much of what Ralston teaches applies broadly to interactions with oneself and with others and should not be limited to physical interactions only. Well-being as a whole including transforming ones relationships to others is entirely possible to cultivate through the teachings in this book.
The book is very much in line with my own perspectives and experiences and complements them beautifully.
Practicing constant body awareness and relaxation has been the central focus of my journey of healing and growth for more than two years now. Self-massage, meditation and Yin Yoga have all been integral parts of this. I've personally experienced how practicing like this can gradually transform ones moment to moment experience from one dominated by anxiety, tension, pain and cold alienation towards an experience dominated by calm, relaxation, harmony and a warm cozy sense of safety. While Ralston's book focuses on performance, I believe that changes such as those I've experienced can be found by practicing what Ralston teaches.
What I have been practicing largely intersects with what Ralston teaches and my intuition, and early experience of practicing them, is that his additions are very helpful indeed, filling out missing pieces in my practice.
Ralston clearly explains core insights required to enable us to transform our mind, body and experience. Here for instance is a quote that clearly explains in a single paragraph what countless spiritual books spend dozens or hundreds of pages of blurry obfuscated text failing to clearly communicate:
"holding our thoughts, feelings, and ideas as if they are the truth is very limiting, and even harmful. Variations in interpretation are endless and complex, but in each case, the results produced by acting from them will match the beliefs and assumptions that shaped the interpretation in the first place. In other words, the same beliefs that influence one’s perception in an encounter will also influence the perception of any resulting feedback. In this way, beliefs have a tendency to reinforce themselves. Allowing yourself to openly investigate—to experiment and question beyond what you believe—opens the door to learning and improvement."
As I read such paragraphs throughout the book I want to give Ralston a high five and shout for joy. I fervently hope that readers understand just how valuable and potentially liberating the insights that he delivers, with little embellishment or fanfare, throughout the book are.
Another paragraph states a vital truth(explanations for how and why this is true are scattered throughout the book):
"Enhancing the depth and sensitivity of our feeling-awareness initiates a natural process that begins the healing of traumas and the relaxing of tension."
I urge you to read that sentence several more times and reflect deeply on the implications. Few single sentences have greater potential for changing ones whole life.
He follows up with this:
"Feeling like a child playing with a nimble, flexible, and relatively pain-free body, full of energy and a ferocious self-confidence, is not something commonly enjoyed by most adults. But perhaps it could be. I’m not suggesting that outlandish possibilities are attainable without commitment, but to whatever degree or depth you are willing to apply yourself, you can make real progress."
Again, my experience testifies to the truth of this. I certainly have a long way to go, but comparing the state of my bodymind experience now to the state two years ago makes me tear up. I fervently wish that many people will read this book, practice what it teaches, and see the same type of transformation of experience and bodily state that I am seeing from my practice.