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How to Be a Lady Revised and Expanded: A Contemporary Guide to Common Courtesy

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A charming reminder of what it takes to be an exemplary woman—someone who is mindful of the effect she has on others and knows how to breeze through an awkward conversation with poise. Of all the women you know, how many of them would you describe as “a lady”? Naturally, you know women who are kind and intelligent, witty and resourceful; but a lady is an altogether different variety of female. She’s mindful of the effect she has on those around her, and she’s careful not to let her words or appearance betray her true intentions. How to Be a Lady is a charming reminder of what it takes to be an exemplary woman—someone who knows how to breeze through an awkward conversation with poise, or delicately sidestep the beauty salon gossip. Candace Simpson-Giles delivers a delightful refresher course on what it means to be a lady among women.

175 pages, Hardcover

First published January 10, 2012

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July 2, 2014
Stefan gave me this book for my birthday as a joke (I hope) probably thinking he was returning the gesture of me giving him "How to be a man", which is a brilliant book by a totally different author.

Luckily it's short and takes about 2 hours to read.

Has some good reminders about manners. Especially regarding the use and presence of mobile devices during personal interaction and conversations.

Fair enough.

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October 10, 2023
Although I doubt I will ever have occasion to meet the president, Pope, or royalty, and it’s a little late to follow outdated advice about having none of my information on the internet, I still appreciated this little book of etiquette for everyday situations. I was intrigued by the section on reproductive health before I realized the author was gearing up for (paraphrasing) “a lady does not jeopardize her fertility,” but even that, I took in good humor because the point of the book is research anyway. A great refresher course on manners and common courtesy for anyone who wants to be “a lady.”
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March 28, 2025
might be outdated, but some of these tips are timeless. I had a lot of fun reading this. It's a light lecture and i've always wanted to know what to do if i ever meet the queen — Kate Middleton, wait for me.
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January 8, 2025
Very informative

This very informative books is must read for any lady. I highly recommend it, it gives advice on pretty much everything.
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September 16, 2025
ok

I somewhat like her perspective on how to be a lady.
It was good getting an opinion on that. Thank you!
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