While I liked much of the content of A Life Worth Breathing, I also found it somewhat contradictory. While I agree that many of the practices are beneficial, others are simply not for everyone, nor should there be shame in not living as Strom says. I didn’t find many of the exercises inspiring.
I’m speaking specifically about Strom’s putting down of people who work hard and have a lot of money. I don’t think that’s wrong, nor do I think giving their money away makes them better. Some rich people give others jobs or invaluable financial or business advice. That counts. Strom advocates for a simple life, but that’s not everyone’s preferred lifestyle. And for a simple man, his own giant headshot on the cover, along with the self-aggrandizing subtitle confuse me about where he’s coming from. I also disagree that God only gives grace occasionally. I believe it’s us that are only able to occasionally perceive/receive the grace that God radiates constantly.
Strom also makes lots of good points. He advocates for developing Mind, Emotions, and Body, in that order, and points out that they’re all related. The breathing and meditation exercises are easily accessible. His advice to do 40 minutes of yoga 4 times per week is helpful. In fact, the first half of the book is excellent. It’s the second half, about Ethics, that bogs down and lays judgment.
Some of my favorite quotes:
• Nothing happens in the mind that doesn’t happen in the body.
• Whereas information is something you derive from books, experiential knowledge is derived from direct, personal experience.
• So, in our daily life, when we see tragedy, when we see evil, when we see suffering, we have two choices: We can take that suffering into us and become upset, or we can direct our joy and love and send it out into the suffering in order to heal it.
• Your happiness or unhappiness is actually a result of choices you make; often, you are not even aware that you are making them because they are triggered by external things.
• Learn not to define yourself by what you are against; instead, define yourself by expressing with your actions and your words what you are for. It is easy to criticize, but this has little value.
• You are not to judge. Tolerance is at the core of this practice. If someone is not willing to heal today, you must answer with a willingness to wait for him or her forever.
• Don’t presume to know the long-term outcome of your errors, because you don’t really know.
• Forgiveness cannot repair the past, but it can repair your heart and mind, and it can prepare you to make the best choices now.
• Never assume that you know someone’s intention.
• The more we protect ourselves, the less we are seen; the more we reveal ourselves, the more we touch others.