In this book Kerk tells his story growing up through some difficult times and having dogs there to comfort him which leads him to eventually start an organization to help care for abused animals. The proceeds of the book go to that foundation. I also talked with him prior to reading the book and he seems like a great guy.
I looked at other reviews for this book and I don’t even want to try to tell the virtues of this short book. I especially liked the review from Sarah (SaraAnneReadsBooks) who said almost everything I wanted to say but said it better than I could hope to. So instead I will just give some random thoughts and put in a few excerpts from the book that are my favorite.
First, I just want to say wow which is my reaction to how much he bared his soul. One part was about being bullied and I still remember similar experiences. You wish Parents could help their kids both prevent their children being bullies, and learn how to deal with bullying appropriately. His very serious difficulty that affected his life for years, (I won’t give it away what is is) is one of those things as a parent you wish your child would share with you, and then hopefully you would help steer them through to avoid the rocks of drugs and alcohol. When bad and painful things happen, they are hard to share and talk about. You hope reading/talking about other people’s hard-to-share stuff, can help others open up and deal with their tough stuff.
This book is primarily about him and his path to redemption and less of a ‘dog book.’ But it strongly as I alluded to earlier, shows that having someone to share the tough stuff with, and that a good dog goes a long way to help in that regard. This one passage speaks to that:
“Lexi became more than just a dog to me that summer. She was my confidant, a lantern in the darkness, an angel undercover. Whenever I think of her today, I realize just how fortunate I was to have her as a friend – to have known Lexi was to have known love.”
It was also nice to hear of the trials he experienced with a rescue dog. He said, “Spartacus’s confidence in himself was slowly restored, along with his capacity to trust, all because we chose to love him relentlessly.” I think people who rescue dogs are saints, especially when it requires ‘relentless’ love (patient hard work done in love) to turn a dog around. I would think this would give people hope how have to deal with a similar challenge with a dog.
Kerk also likes to include a lot of quotes. Some I had already in my list of favorites that I keep in excel. With quotes I think people fall into two camps that these other quotes illustrate:
"He presents me with what is always an acceptable gift who brings me news of a great thought before unknown. He enriches me without impoverishing himself." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
I hate quotations. Tell me what you know. - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Lastly, he mentions he had a Viper. I got to drive one for a short while but was more afraid of breaking it then putting all that horsepower to work. Cool car, but narrow dashboard window to view out of and not much room to bring a dog with you. Wish everyone had a chance to drive one once, but wouldn’t want to have one.
Getting back to the book, quick and powerful book.