In Help for a Hungry Heart, Kristen seeks to help the reader identify what a hunger for God’s word feels like and then seeks to encourage you to go to the only place that can satisfy that longing. The book is set up in a format that would be great for a ladies book club or a study group. There are 8 chapters and an introduction which fits nicely into a semester reading plan. Each chapter is followed by a question and answer and a personal testimony from a believer.
My personal opinions— firstly, I’m honestly not sure who the intended audience is here. Is it everyone? Seasoned Christians? Young in the faith Christians? Women alone? Moms? New moms? Veteran mamas? This message might have packed more of a punch to everyone if we zeroed in on who exactly is the intended audience. For instance, the testimonies were from all over the spectrum, men, women, young, old, etc. and there isn’t a thing in the world wrong with that, but she references new motherhood several times and talks about parenting littles— and the challenges facing mothers of littles getting into the word are a bit different than a middle aged deacon. If the book was written to mothers specifically, I don’t think the message would have been lost to all anymore than Paul’s message to the Ephesians is not lost on us even though that letter was very specific to that congregation.
The section on privilege missed the mark for me. “Because we are privileged, we ought to or we should do more of…”
I don’t disagree that we are privileged with accesses to the Bible and learning more than in times past, but this argument doesn’t encourage, the net result inspires guilt. And for a sleep deprived new mom, this would have sent me deeper into a depression because I ought to and yet I couldn’t. In seasons of plenty when we recognize we have plenty, it’s good to reflect on that privilege, but when you’re in the pits in deep need of encouragement, telling someone they have it better than someone else so they should be grateful is not at all helpful.
I was encouraged how she spoke of the church as a place where we can sing God’s word and hear it being preached and recite it. This chapter was one of the most encouraging in my opinion. It really helps a sleep deprived mama to know that it all counts. It’s encouraging when you’re in the trenches to know that we are not forsaken in that season even if we don’t have time to devote to much more than caring for our physical needs… But on the note about singing, it cautions the reader that not all songs are about God and we should make every effort to be aware- in the very next section she talks very lovingly of the pastor working diligently and faithfully to prepare the message (and as a pastors wife, I understand she has a first hand view of this), but unfortunately, not even all pastors make the message about God, they, like the songs she cautions us away from make the message about themselves and building their kingdoms. There was no footnote cautioning believers into being aware of their pastors messages. The truth is, we need God’s word to be able to help us discern truth from lies in song, in teaching, in preaching, and in every aspect of life.
I appreciated the section about creatively feeding on the word of God- many of those tips felt more practical to help growing an appetite.
I can see the intentions in the book and I applaud them. Identifying what spiritual hunger is so that you can recognize and feed it with the word of God is a needed skillset. Ultimately though, this book missed the mark for me.
I’d like to thank Crossway and NetGalley for the eARC in exchange for my honest review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.