Tapping, written by Donna Eden and David Feinstein, introduces readers to the concept of energy psychology, particularly focusing on the transformative practice of tapping. This method combines modern therapeutic techniques with ancient healing practices to help individuals heal from trauma, reduce stress, and improve emotional well-being. The book opens with a scenario of someone experiencing a traumatic event, such as a wildfire, and highlights how tapping can help reprogram the brain’s response to such incidents, offering a way to process trauma without becoming overwhelmed by it.
Tapping, as presented in the book, is rooted in energy psychology, a field that views the body as an intricate electromagnetic system. Your nervous system, for example, uses electrical signals to regulate everything from basic functions like breathing to more complex ones like thinking. This electrical nature is fundamental to medical diagnostics such as MRIs and EKGs. The idea behind energy psychology is that by tapping on specific acupuncture points in the body, you can influence your emotional and physical states. These acupuncture points are drawn from ancient Chinese medicine, which identifies at least 361 points along 14 major energy pathways, or meridians, in the body. By tapping these points, practitioners believe they can stimulate electrical charges that travel through the body’s connective tissue, helping to alleviate negative emotions and promote healing.
One of the core ideas behind energy psychology is that we all have internal guiding models that shape our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. These models often form unconsciously, influenced by our temperament, cultural background, and life experiences. Tapping allows us to update these models to better suit our current needs and desires. For example, the book recounts the story of Paul, a manager who used tapping to address his anxiety about work meetings. By focusing on a past experience where he was passed over for a promotion and tapping on that memory, Paul was able to change his perspective on a high-performing team member he had perceived as a threat.
The book stresses that while tapping can be a powerful self-help tool, it’s not a replacement for therapy, particularly for individuals with serious mental health issues or addictions. Nevertheless, tapping offers a unique approach to reducing fears, alleviating stress, and enhancing overall well-being.
To introduce readers to the practice, the authors present simple tapping exercises. One exercise, for instance, is designed to improve breathing. It involves tapping on 12 specific acupuncture points while repeating the phrase, “Even though it's possible to breathe more fully, I accept myself just as I am.” This exercise gives readers a glimpse into the potential benefits of tapping for influencing both physical and emotional states. The book acknowledges that while the scientific understanding of tapping is still developing, many people report significant improvements in their well-being through regular practice.
The basic tapping protocol, described in detail, is a straightforward method for addressing long-standing patterns, elusive goals, and emotional reactions that seem resistant to change. The protocol consists of 12 steps divided into four phases: preparation, the tapping cycle, adjusting the protocol, and testing the results. The preparation phase involves choosing a focus, rating your discomfort on a scale of zero to ten, creating a reminder phrase, and formulating an acceptance statement. The tapping cycle itself involves tapping on 12 acupoints while repeating the reminder phrase. An important part of the process is the integration procedure, which includes physical activities to balance the brain’s energies, helping to reinforce the changes you are working toward.
After completing a round of tapping, readers are encouraged to reassess their distress levels. If the distress hasn’t been entirely alleviated, the protocol can be adjusted. This might involve refining the acceptance statement to better reflect the emotions at play or focusing on specific aspects of the issue, such as underlying beliefs or internal objections. For instance, if a person is struggling with financial difficulties, tapping might reveal childhood memories that contribute to a belief that they don’t deserve to have much money. By addressing these emotions and beliefs, the person can begin to dissolve limiting models and create healthier patterns.
In addition to addressing specific issues, the book explores how tapping can be used to manage everyday concerns, such as worry. Excessive worry, though a common human experience, can lead to rumination and obsession over problems that are beyond our control. Tapping offers a way to manage worry by helping to deactivate the brain’s fear centers and reduce the emotional intensity of concerns. The book guides readers through using tapping for worry, including creating a reminder phrase and an acceptance statement, and repeating the tapping process until the worry diminishes.
The book also touches on psychological reversals, which are subconscious beliefs that conflict with our conscious desires to feel better. For instance, someone might worry that if they stop worrying, they won’t be prepared for potential problems. In such cases, the book recommends tapping while acknowledging this internal conflict and affirming the choice to move forward.
Ultimately, the goal of tapping isn’t to eliminate all worry or distress, but to reduce it to a manageable level so it no longer interferes with daily life. With practice, tapping can become an effective tool for quickly addressing and releasing anxious thoughts, allowing people to approach life’s challenges with greater calm and confidence.
In summary, Tapping by Donna Eden and David Feinstein introduces readers to the powerful practice of energy psychology and tapping. By combining modern therapeutic techniques with ancient healing practices, tapping offers a way to process trauma, reduce stress, and promote overall well-being. The method involves tapping on specific acupuncture points while focusing on particular issues or memories, creating acceptance statements, and adjusting the approach as needed to address core beliefs and internal objections. Regular practice of tapping can help individuals navigate life’s challenges with greater ease and resilience.