“It is hard to have true courage unless we take the time to shed the boxes that this world puts us in and arise as what we are. From what I understand, this is done by reviewing our lives and rejecting all the ways our childhoods and lives taught us something wrong about ourselves. And that is something each and every person has to address within themselves. It’s a microcosm of the larger phenomenon of intergenerational trauma. And it is through that healing of the self that we see through the lies and have deep courage and trust in the goodness of our being. I am not there yet, but this is what I have seen some others do.
Lyla June Johnston (Diné [Navajo], Tsétsêhéstâhese [Cheyenne])
The Kogi people of highland Colombia constantly remind all people to really think, to think about all of it, to use the mind in its largest sense. They repeatedly admonish to “Think, think, think of the Great Mother,” which they call the Mind inside of Nature. “At night, before you sleep … think what you’re going to do the next day. What things need to be done and how you’re going to do them. Think it through.”
“‘Why are you doing this [telling the old stories in classrooms, writing, speaking, recording stories, and teaching]?’ And he said, ‘Because it’s the right thing to do.’ This is an alien twist that our contemporary society doesn’t understand, where there is a hierarchy. There has to be a winner and a loser, and a large part of our Native societies aren’t concerned with any of that.”
Gregg Castro (Salinan/Ohlone)
There are mountains and planets and eons and infinities of wisdom in here, written beautifully in an interview pattern with some of the authors’ reaction to what they hear and experience in holiness with the people who are being interviewed. I feel eternity and gratitude as I read these, and they are definitely to be re-read again and again. And again. And then again. And shared. And thought about. And acted upon.
Mohawk leader Jake Swamp-Tekaronianeken said that people had lost the ability to listen because of the grief felt at the pain from what had happened. He said people had lost their voices from the grief and pain, so they could not come to agreement. The abilities to see, to listen, and to speak are the foundations of how to communicate and thereby find a future together. He said the people needed to take the stricken ones by the hand, and help them to “raise their eyes to Creation” and find “the purest cloud to wipe away the tears,” for vision to be restored.
Then they should look to Creation again and find “the softest feather for opening the ears,” so they could “hear the wind, the birds, and all the things that make sound in the world.” Then they should reach to Creation still again and “find the purest water to wash away the lump in the throat,” so they could speak again. To see, to listen, and to speak clearly are the essentials that brought agreement to his people a thousand years ago, and now we need this again. This is his message.
“During my first year as president, I was invited, during a television interview, to come up with a myth and a truth. One that came to mind through prayer was the myth that the Europeans believed upon first contact that we were primitive and we were savages. But then there is the truth that if you look at scholars and scientists and people like Abraham Maslow and the hierarchy of maturity, at the very base are selfish people, then as you climb up you get to the independent people, then finally the interdependent people.” President Sharp went on to point out how someone who is self-confident becomes independent, but only when they go on to care for other people have they arrived at the point at which they are considered to be a highly mature individual.
This is the truth she went on to share in contrast to the myth. “I relate this to how we as a people [Native Americans] were not only interdependent relative to our fellow humanity, but we were interdependent relative to the natural world … to the animals, to the trees, to our Creator, to the Great Spirit that lives in everything,” she explained. “That is what Chief Seattle referred to, that all things are connected. What we do to the Earth, we do to ourselves. We are just one strand in this intricately woven fabric.”
—President Fawn Sharp (Quinault)
“All this intolerance of others is a reflection of the intolerance for the planet. Look at this, look out your window,” she said. “We are in paradise. We are in Eden. We didn’t get kicked out. Our minds got kicked out. The mind became the all-powerful thing. I am not depressed or scared or have a lack of faith. Because for me, there’s been enough to show me, this isn’t permanent, this state, this condition isn’t permanent. It will get better in some areas, and maybe worse in others before it can get better. It’s cyclical. It’s a cycle. It’s a circle. It’s a spiral. It’s never ending, ever changing.”
Marita Hacker (Hunkpapa, Norwegian)
Melissa mentioned the movie Wiping the Tears of Seven Generations, and believes we need to “wipe the tears of the seven generations since Columbus arrived in North America,” and this needs to be done regularly. She cited the ancient Hawaiian practice for forgiveness and reconciliation, Ho’oponopono, as a perfect example of doing so. She sees this as starting at a personal level, then to be done locally, then at larger levels to promote the alchemical change. “And it is alchemical, literally. The chemicals in our bodies change when we are in that ‘fight or flight,’ or freeze, and in trauma and fear, and all the cortisol that goes with that. Then we break through, and the dopamine and serotonin and other chemicals flow through.”
“To be in that river and flow of meaning and wisdom and teachings that we’ve been in here,” she said softly, “I’m just humbled and blessed to have a little slice of this on our journey. That’s what you’ll be offering with this whole collection. It’ll be beautiful. It’ll be a waterfall. It’ll be a gushing water well.”
—Melissa K. Nelson, PhD (Anishinaabe/ Métis [Turtle Mountain Chippewa])
“As Indigenous people, we are the only group that has to validate who we are ‘legitimately.’ How many times have you ever heard someone say, ‘Oh yeah, my mother is Asian and so I’m Asian American.’ ‘Oh? How much Asian are you?’ It’s quite frustrating that this is a mentality we navigate in both social and historical contexts, because if we acknowledge how we got here, we would start pointing out what we should prioritize in regards to teaching the next generation, but we don’t.
I’m in a lot of conversations where the ‘White’ Western settler perspective is very prevalent, and they say, ‘I didn’t do anything. I am a later immigrant. Why am I being blamed for the actions the colonists?’ I’m not asking you to bear the weight of all the history of what happened. What I am asking is that you advocate for those truths to be brought to the surface, and for you to share that we recognize that these occurrences have happened.”
Kanyon Sayers-Roods (Mutsun Ohlone/Chumash)
“When colonization happened, it didn’t just happen to the Earth. This happened to me, to women, and it happened to men as well. The sacred responsibilities were taken away from men. There was the idea of heteropatriarchy and misogyny, and all of these things thrown in that everyone had to follow in order to survive, and it has been a great devastation to our tribal people and our families. And now it’s time to bring that balance back.
You’re going to lose a lot of sleep, and you’re going to cause yourself a lot of stress if you think that you’re going to fix everything. We want to be in that place of fixing it all, but we need to remember to become interdependent with each other again, that we have to live in reciprocity with each other and this Earth again. “And what does that mean? That means doing it at home. That means learning how to take care of plants so that they can take care of you. It means having a relationship with even the smallest little beings.
Human beings think that they rule the Earth and forget things like that with bees and pollinators: if we don’t have them we’re all going somewhere else. We need them in order to survive. That means planting flowers and making your life beautiful. It means planting food enough to share with your neighbor, and learning those relationships with neighbors again. We forgot that skill of knowing who lives next door and checking up on each other, making sure that everybody has enough. It means creating community gardens and sharing food with people.
Corrina Gould (Confederated Villages of Lisjan)
“I hear people talking about ‘the environment,’ like it’s a separate thing, and it’s not. We are the environment. We are the sum total of everything that’s on Mother Earth and there’s no way around it. We drink the water, we eat the food, we breathe the air. Whatever we are is the environment. If you treat ‘the environment’ negatively, obviously you treat yourself negatively, but you just don’t realize it because you have been taught that it’s a separate thing. So it really is about the ability, from what you’re taught, to be in the wilderness, which to us was never wild. That was just home. Anonymous Elder to Dahr Jamail,Stan Rushworth