4 ⭐
Genre ~ non fiction, memoir
Setting ~ New York & Los Angeles, USA // Busan/Seoul, South Korea // Germany
Publication date ~ April 23, 2024
Est page Count ~ 256 p, chapters
Audio length ~ hours (x1.4 & x1.7 speed)
Narrator ~ the author herself
Featuring ~ domestic violence, kid abuse, harassments, mental health issues, sui**de, war crimes
I was very excited for this book. it is more of a memoir of the author and narrator rather than full study of the kdrama. I did enjoy the part but will agree with other commentators who said this book should have had the description of "the author's life and trauma and the history of kdramas" as it would be more accurate. I did have to stop the audiobook many-many times due to the hard topics that were brought up. I expected this book to be a study of kdrama, but instead it did trigger many of my own memories. I would have prepared better mentally if I knew this from the book's description.
still, it is a good book.
- in 2021 Netflix invested $500 million into kdrama productions. (later from Google: Netflix has been investing in Korean content for years, and in 2023, they announced a further $2.5 billion investment over the next four years);
- the author's mom was not able to go to school in 1970s, when she was 14 years old, as her farmer dad thought that school is a waste, especially for a girl. but with the money she earned and sent home, the dad sent the younger 5 siblings to school. hypocrisy.
the author states that there is always a generational arguments happening at gathering as everyone has trauma and thinks that they are the victim who has to do what they were told;
overachievement is also number #1 reason of South Korean adolescence sui****.
- the author mentions a lot of history that has affected the South Korean TV and later on, kdramas, from WWII to their independence as well as the cast system in the past.
- 1962 is the year when the first kdrama appeared;
- then describes the type of kdrama that is shown on TV during after breakfast hours (Example: Penthouse) which are primarily watched by moms, or people who cannot be as free in their life as they see people be in Kdramas: like throwing kimchi on one enemy's head;
- the screen time placement ads have been used ever since kdramas appeared (Subway, Kopiko, lipstick, candles, cafes) and they prove to very effective seeing how popular places like Subway are in Korea;
- another thing that is advertised a lot is alcohol in kdramas, as the only acceptable drug in Korea. this is a huge issue with Korean society, but everyone ignores it because seeing soju in kdramas makes one wants to buy it and drink while watching it,
- the food culture is huge in Korea, just as shown in kdramas, and
the obsession with obsessive eating is a result of the trauma of starvation. many korean still remember how their families were affected during the Korean war, in addition to North K still experiencing hunger;
- mukbang is also a thing that comes from over archiving;
- (feeling of abandonment has been a big issue in Korea, where parents send one or several kids out of the few they have to grandparents. this pain continues on for later in life, even though the person might not think of this as the cause, it does affect people.
wow, I really did not expect to see the reflection of my life in the Korean history as I am from Eastern Europe... wow...);
- the #MeToo movement has made a huge impact on kdramas. women there hear and experience that for years, and only now they can see the same things on the screen and be able to have strength to speak up;- women liking material items have been judges ever since the war times, as the money women had should have "been given to the government for its success" and women were treated as kids, told what to do. people used to judge others for spending they money on high end coffee cups, but now coffee popularity is something that shows to the world that Korean can work many hours, and that its economy is a flourishing one;
- domestic violence is also often shown in kdramas because this is part of the korean women's and kids' experience;
- toxic relationships are also shown in kdramas;
- the military/army trauma has been affecting older generations and badly affecting the newer generations who got abused by the older generations; while those who go to the army come back home changed for worse frequently;
-the amnesia trop is used in kdramas due to the historical effects of colonialism (when people had to change their names and identity to be more Japanese-like) & wars (like the "comfort women").
- another thing that zombies represent are the fact that USA asked South Korea to send their soldiers to the Vietnam War. a billion dollars from the US that has been used to improve the Korean economy.
chemical weapons are also widely shown in kdramas. but all of this can be "forgotten" by "cultural amnesia"
- Korean rage ("Beef" as an example)