I'm giving this book 3 stars, even though I did not enjoy it, because clearly the writer has skill, talent and experience. But it's a style of writing I don't have experience with, and I felt it was more of a "slice-of-life" experience, rather than a story with twist, turns and surprises. Personally I found Anna's self-absorption tiring, and found myself skipping dozens of pages to see what happens next. She has much to be grateful for: an income that allows her freedom; an immunity to writer's block; a successful career in a highly competitive field; lots of family with a beautiful homestead (complete with a family cemetary, a lake, miles of land and horses). Yet she seems to take those things for granted, as she does her lover's infidelity to his marriage. She's very laissez-faire about her blessings, and I felt the tone was "yeah, I'm self-centered, but I love you all, so you'll deal with it." There's lots of furtive phone calls from her lovers in far-away cities: "Where are you? I must see you now" kind of calls, without a lot of background to how or why these intense emotions developed, other than great sex. Furthermore, she's obsessed with weaving her brother's estranged daughter from a previous marriage into the family dynasty - didn't get that intense motivation. (This is before she gets her cancer diagnosis.) The "new" daughter is 16, visiting the family for the first time, and two days later, Anna is already pressuring her brother to discuss his will with her! I found that jarring. However, I think some readers would enjoy this style of writing, and the journey taken towards accepting one's mortality, and the choices one makes on that journey. But to go on that journey, you will have to feel the sadness. Not for everyone, but some will enjoy the ride.