I love this book. The title makes it sound depressing and serious, but I promise it's not one an overcoming adversity story. This book really dissects what being disabled in mainstream society is like; something that all of us will have to deal with as we get older and sicker. Hopefully this won't happen for a long time, but I think this is a book that everyone should read, as it makes disability less scary and gives you a great glimpse into what it's like to have a chronic condition physically, emotionally, and socially.
Irving Zola is considered the "father" of disability studies, and was a professor at Brandeis until his death in the mid-nineties. He developed polio as a child, and wrote this narrative after visiting Het Dorp, a completely accessible village that the Netherlands developed for its disabled citizens. The premise sounds academic and somewhat boring, but it's really an insightful narrative about living with a disability in a mainstream, Western world.