Burn Your Sh*t: The Life-Changing Magic of Rituals

by Lori Dyan

Burn Your Sh*t has descriptive copy which is not yet available from the Publisher.

Genres: Nonfiction, Spirituality, Ebooks

320 pages, Paperback

Published May 28, 2024

Reviews

[Tracy Z]

I have 3 shout outs and 1 recommendation:
ALINA-thank you for the gift of this book, you truly ARE such a generous human being.
RINA-thank you for shining a light on Lori Dyan and all of her stylish, funky, sassy, passionate and magically delicious ways.
LORI-thank you for writing this book specifically for me! For everyone else —- here is why I say this—-Page 120 she uses Scorpio as an example-Hello! That’s me! Then on page 128 she uses the example of July 2024, when I was literally reading it ON July 1st! And page 134 has my name! 🥹 #ILoveTarotLori
RECOMMENDATION-read this book and take from it pieces that feel are a fit for you. This book is like a deep cleansing breath, with knowledge and information in. Release and fears out.

[Clover]

3.5/5
A new twist on the spellbook.

This was interesting. This is basically your typical occult book but with reference to science to prove the importance of ritual, although there's no bibliography so you're left looking up "2020 National Library of Medicine study" and other vague terms. There's not a lot of studies referenced other than in passing, so I guess there's no need for a bibliography but it would be nice.

Dyan's voice is casual and simple, this isn't going to sound like a scholarly article or be stuffed full of jargon. It did take me a bit to be comfortable with it, I'm not sure why the tone bothered me so much in the beginning.

She mentions other cultures and rituals around the world. It includes most things you'll find in any New Age or Witchcraft book: crystals, incense, moon phases, seasons, intention, rituals/spells. Dyan is just packaging is differently for it to be more easily consumed by the general public who shy away from the occult. I appreciate the twist, it's a true breath of fresh air into this genre.

It's best for people who are interested in rituals and ways you can incorporate them into daily life. You can benefit from simple or complex rituals without feeling uncomfortable or ashamed or whatever negative connotations you associate typical witchy books with. Try it out. Read some of the studies she mentions. I hope it brings you validation, confidence, and happiness.

[Chloe Lloyd]

This book would be best for someone who has zero to very little knowledge on witchcraft and ritual. As someone who is a practicing witch I found it a redundant read (personally)

If I had discovered this 10 years ago it may have been more engaging and illuminating at the very start or as an introduction to more magical practices and ritual.

Lori approaches her rituals from a very real world grounded place and has made ritual an integrated part of her life. Her real world examples would be inspiring to those who seek more meaning and ritual in their lives but need a broad sweep and a primer education on elements of a ritual and tools and ways we can integrate sacred teachings in a real world setting.

It is very beginner focused and I should have gathered as such. It breaks down ritual in a way that one can slowly incorporate and is a great book for those who want to dip their toes in and see if its for them.

As someone who has already integrated my own rituals in my life and has read many books on the topics of Paganism, sabbats, ancient ceremony and ritual, working with one's hormones and moon cycles, magic of moon rituals and phases, crystals, herbs, candle magic, tea rituals and has been divining for over a decade with tarot and oracle the contents of this book felt like a very basic primer to the type of study I have done.

My rating is not because I expect this book to be something it isn't (thats my bad for not realizing the beginner primer overview nature of it) my 3 stars is because her writing style that combines personal stories and antecdotes with step by step instructions is not my favorite way to absorb and learn something. Its a very personal read that for some would be really fun but isnt the style I look for.

That being said, if you are looking for a no fluff broad overview into a more spiritually leaning lifestyle and you are completely new to manifestation, meditation, ritual, crystals, tarot cards and the like and want to learn more ? This book would be a 4 star for you, especially if you like a laid back conversational style of writer.

[Eloisa]

I first came across Lori’s Instagram page by total accident. You know when you click on an Instagram add and the algorithm starts suggesting similar accounts? That is how I “met” Lori. And the timing could not be better. I haven’t touched my tarot cards in 20 years. I haven’t done a lot of me time in… well, 20 years. This book is a great introduction to rituals and manifesting, to simply find time for yourself and take care of loose ends from past and present experiences. It complements therapy so, so well!

I totally suggest getting into Lori’s mailing list too, she sends a bunch of suggestions and follow her online. This woman’s energy says it all. If she offered courses on tarot reading, I would be the first one signing up for it!

[Jina]

Super SASS witch (or as the author calls it "woo woo without the cuckoo) friendly take on rituals. Full of ideas to help you add a little more magic to your life. From simple Moon Mapping to how you start or end your day. I really enjoyed the author's voice and sense of humor.

Personally, I'm not a huge fan of releasing on the Full Moon - I prefer to use its celebratory energy and use the waning moon for letting go, but I'm a big fan of burning your shit.

[Kashish Kaur]

Note to future self: Putting this on hold because the only attempt of this book was done once in 2025 first quarter– a very bad time for me to have picking this book. The second attempt was made to read this book because I wanted to finish a book readathon challenge prompt with my coven. Bad idea, don't pick books for the sake of challenges that are not your cup of tea. Read at your pace, and only the books that you genuinely want to read for your own pleasure.

[Kelly Jackson]

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. It has a ritual for every occasion. what I love most about this book was that you didn’t need elaborate pieces for your altar or a crystal for this or a crystal for that like other books have. I loved how she made the ritual simple and gave examples. Highly recommend

[Abi R]

Got bored. Like with many other religions, this stuff simply has too much work and structure put into it for me. Lots of interesting facts, but unfortunately pushed a little too far for my tastes.

I do like Lori's writing though. I'm glad I tried the subject out, even if it turned out to not really be a fit for me.

[Georgia Reynolds]

Obsessed is an understatement.

[Lisa]

What a great read. Very informative, accessible - whether you do rituals or don’t know where to start- and just plain fun. I’ve been giving this as gifts to friends because I’ve enjoyed it so much.

[Shreya Mistry]

Practical! No BS approach. Great if you want to embrace your inner witchy side!

[Cruz Zamora]

cute and whimsy, with practical applications. yet, still wanted more

[Glennie Mercer]

It’s woo woo and I like it - Dyan makes the woo woo make sense - there are some practical strategies and ideas worth considering.

[Elle]

It is an awesome read - especially if you’re a newbie to all of it. She has loads of suggestions that I’m anxious to try.

[Hilary]

Great Introduction to Rituals 101. Dyan is very approachable in her writing and her suggestions for practices. The instructions are very open ended because, as it turned out, you make the meaning in your routines. I learned some things and got some validation for some stuff I was already doing. Now, if you'll excuse me, I have to go buy some more crystals.