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In this swoon-filled lesbian romcom, two dating show contestants vying for the affection of the leading man fall head over heels—for each other.

Fans of Ashley Herring Blake and Alexandria Bellefleur, and readers who love The Bachelor, will adore this steamy, laugh-out-loud debut romance.


Krystin knows exactly what she a husband, a horse, and a place to hang all her competitive rodeo blue ribbons. But when none of the eligible bachelors in Montana end up being right for her, she turns to reality TV. On Hopelessly Devoted, Krystin will compete against dozens of other women for the heart of this season’s Hopeless Romantic, Josh Rosen. She’s determined to win the perfect life she came here for—if she can just ignore the glossy brunette whose crimson smile gives her goosebumps.

Lauren has never done anything for the right reasons—and she’s definitely not on Hopelessly Devoted to win Josh’s heart. Lauren’s plan is simple: stay on the show long enough to build her social media following, and then gracefully leave when it's her turn to be eliminated. With enough followers, she’ll finally have enough influencer clout to do whatever she wants—including come out of the proverbial walk-in closet. But the longer she stays on the show, the more she finds herself tangled up in a certain blonde’s lasso.

But neither contestant expects a heteronormative dating show to challenge their own deeply-ingrained ideas of who they are—and what they want. Fans of The Charm Offensive and Love Island will swoon for this sparkling debut romcom.

365 pages, Kindle Edition

First published May 21, 2024

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837 reviews114 followers
September 30, 2023
I think to call this an LGBTQ+ book is a bit of a stretch. Yes, in the end we get a lesbian couple, but this book is basically just about a series similar to The Bachelor. A very straight storyline.
That’s ok, but I think this book is misrepresenting its storyline in the blurb and the tags.

The main characters are childish, superficial, irritating, and irresponsible - highly annoying. The way the story is told is just utterly boring. If I wanted to read a scripted reality tv script, I would. I don’t, and when I ever feel the urge it wouldn’t be this flat piece of text.

I just didn’t like this, didn’t like the characters, didn’t like the way the story was told. I stuck in there because I kept hoping the couple would find each other and the tv show nonsense would stop. It didn’t, it got worse.
Not for me, please read other reviews.
Profile Image for Bethany (Beautifully Bookish Bethany).
2,784 reviews4,686 followers
April 29, 2024
4.5 stars rounded up

For anyone who watches or has watched The Bachelor, loves messiness, and wishes they had sapphic representation, this is a must read. I thought Here for the Wrong Reasons was delightful and it has a ton of nods to the setup of The Bachelor. It follows two women who come on the show- one is a closeted lesbian looking to grow her social media, the other is a rodeo queen who has never had a serious relationship. They're supposed to be falling for the hero of the show, but instead they're falling for each other...

I thought this was a blast to read, as someone who watched the Bachelor franchise for many years. There is definitely some bad behavior, but I liked how it came together at the end and the way amends were made where they were needed. Definitely recommend this for fans of the show! Also, yes it is quite steamy once you get a little ways in! The audio narration is excellent. I received an audio copy of this book for review via NetGalley, all opinions are my own.
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337 reviews54 followers
October 4, 2023
This book basically had me smiling from start to finish. I love riffs of The Bachelor so this was up my alley and I loved how the author showed us behind the scenes while sassing the show in a nuanced way. I wasn’t sure what to expect going into this but was pleasantly surprised on all fronts. Krystin’s journey was tactfully handled - I loved her character and how her confidence and self-awareness unfolded. I also loved Lauren and the perspective she brought. And together, their chemistry is palpable. I would have liked Josh (and his Judaism) to be developed a bit more as well as some of the other contestants but that’s how reality tv goes. These characters will sit with me…I’ll be keeping my fingers crossed for a future bonus chapter.

Short summary: Rodeo Queen Krystin is missing a husband - reality tv is a good solution, right? Lauren could care less about Josh- she’s on TV for the followers..like everyone else. Except Kristin is shockingly earnest, and keeps looking at Lauren…

Thank you to Netgalley and Alcove Press. ARC provided in exchange for an honest review.
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Author 14 books93 followers
May 5, 2024
Pretty much as much fun as you can have between the pages... or in my case, between the speakers 🥰

Is this a take on “The Bachelor,” a rom with liberal sprinkles of com added in? Or is it an LGBTQ+ book with a romance?

Perhaps it’s these questions that have led to some of the varied reviews, creating a possible mismatch of expectations. Which, if the case, is most surprising to me because the cover, title, and blurb make it clear this wonderful novel is *all of the above*.

And all the better because of it!

“Here for the Wrong Reasons” is both an homage to and an exposé of unscripted TV dating shows, in particular “The Bachelor,” which it parodies down it to a “t.” The show, though, that contestants Lauren (that’s Lauren C… not to be confused with the “other” Lauren with an H!) and Krystin, find themselves on merely provides the brilliant backdrop for this story, this romance. And be in no doubt that this is romance, a queer one. If it was anything less (or perhaps I should say “different”), then the debut team of Annabel Paulsen and Lydia Wang would not have told the story in an alternating, dual POV. It’s a choice that’s wisely made too, since we get to enjoy the fledgling relationship between the protagonists from very different starting points, perceptions, and hopes.

I thoroughly enjoyed this opposites-attract, forced-proximity romance with dashes of grumpy-sunshine sprinkled in, and which is performed superbly by both narrators in the audio version that I, frankly, devoured. Lauren and Krystin are quite different in their makeup, backgrounds, and traits, but both narratives skewer the dating show they’re on, while still managing to acknowledge why the show is fun for viewers, endearingly popular, and can help people find love… even if not in an expected way. The attraction between the leads is obvious and immediate, and readers/listeners are not kept waiting for too long for the frissons of feels to reverberate.

I have a few pet peeves when I read romance. One (a huge one) is the weak reversal, where the relationship is fractured for some reason. Way too often the reversal is poorly constructed, usually some silly misunderstanding that feels inorganic and forced. The angst is high in places in “Here for the Wrong Reasons,” including its reversal. I don’t think I’m giving much away here, since the reversal is so ubiquitous in the genre. What’s great is the reversal situations that occur are entirely organic due to the pressurized environment the girls, as contestants, find themselves in. The authors deftly take advantage of this to organically construct strains and lack of communication in a relationship that impact what might otherwise be feature more straightforward development.

Another common device used in the genre I don’t care for is public announcements of affection, love, status, and so on. It’s crept in from TV rom-coms, I think. Maybe it’s a cultural thing. I’m a Brit and we are famous for being stiff and reserved (some of us are barely flexible enough to navigate a bend in a twisty road). So a public declaration of emotions?? I.Am.Not.A.Fan.

Except here. Because public declarations of emotions are the entire backdrop. So… will Lauren and/or Krystin and/or Josh—the show’s romantic lead this season—and/or another character finally come to terms with their feelings amid the pressure of a closed community? And if so, who will they tell? And how? And when?

Who knows? Well, I know, obviously. And I urge you to grab a copy of “Here for the Wrong Reasons” so you can to find out and enjoy this super-fun and entirely engaging romance.

My huge thanks to the authors, the publishers, and to NetGalley for the chance to devour and review this superb debut as an (audio) ARC. I giggled my way through a lot of this and full out laughed in places. And yes, I shed a tear or two, I don’t mind admitting.

Buy this, read this, listen to this, and it just might become as standout a literary experience for you as it has been for me, in 2024.
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1,878 reviews741 followers
May 27, 2024
I've read a book that's very similar to this in terms of plot and have been looking for something like it ever since. I was hoping I'd found it in Here for the Wrong Reasons, but it sadly didn't fully work for me.

I liked the idea (obviously), the setting, the writing, parts of the romance, and the fact that I didn't mix the other girls up despite there being so many of them. The authors really did a good job eliminating them in every chapter, and making sure the ones that were sticking around longer were given recognisable personalities.

What didn't work for me was how dragged out it felt. Both Lauren and Krystin (but especially the former) were in the show for the wrong reasons, like the title says, and after realising there's something there around 40% into the book, I was expecting them to drop out, any moment now, not for both of them to keep making it into the next round until the very end.

Maybe I wouldn't have had such a problem with this if Josh wasn't so nice. He had his heart broken once, and both of these girls ultimately knew they'd break his too. And they were kinda okay with it?

I'm a bit more lenient with Krystin because she wasn't sure what she wanted for most of the book, she'd never been with a girl before and thought she had to be straight to fit in at home, but Lauren was awful. She knew who she was and what she wanted, she just wasn't officially out yet, and from the start she was leading Josh on, just to get more followers and brand deals.

Her saying that she was staying because she wanted more time with Krystin rang hollow to me, because in the next scene she'd act like she wanted to win the whole show to prove she could.

She had a very clear exit point near the end, and instead of taking it, and hoping Krystin follows, she does something that would keep her on the show...

Anyway, her and Krystin had no chemistry that I could sense. I couldn't tell you why they liked each other, it felt really random. But their romantic scenes were cute.

I wish that more time had been spent on developing their relationship, instead of describing what the characters were doing during the episodes, where they went etc, I wanted to be convinced that these two actually liked each other, see them spending more time together.

And there was a huge focus on Josh, which, okay, it IS his show, but I kinda feel like he got more page time than Krystin and Lauren.

Both of them kept going back to him, kissing him, even after getting closer and closer, it just didn't feel right.

There was also some miscommunication, but when I tell you I didn't even care...yeah. The ending made up for all of that though, mostly. Everyone got their happily ever after.

Overall, it wasn't a bad book, and I'm not regretting giving it a chance. Hopefully others will like it more than I did.

*Thank you to the publishers and Netgalley for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review*
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78 reviews375 followers
July 12, 2024
As a queer woman who loves the Bachelor franchise, I loved this!! For anyone who’s ever said “what if two of the contestants fell in love instead? 🤷🏻‍♀️ ”, this is for you.

5 stars for it being such a fun read for me!
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968 reviews236 followers
June 21, 2024
Here for the Wrong Reasons is a sapphic romance in which two women on a dating show fall for each other instead of the bachelor. I've read a book similar to this one's premise, however this book still stands on it's own. I had a few issues with this book, such as the way that Krystin and Lauren led Josh on and how fake so many of the contestants were and how pessimistic that felt, but other than that I really loved this book. Lauren and Krystin's chemistry was so uniquely perfect. It's the sapphic dynamic I didn't know I needed. Mean lesbian influencer falls for the closeted all-American rodeo queen. Yes please! Lauren does come off as very fake at first, but it's because she is a closeted queer women scared of exposing her heart and being rejected as the real her. Krystin is your classic, all-American, country girl. She screams basic straight girl, but she's actually gay as well and has a heart of gold. I loved seeing Lauren slowly shed her mean girl persona to pine for and protect Krystin. And on the flip side, I loved seeing Krystin push Lauren to be her real self. I also loved seeing Krystin comes to terms with her sexuality. I found that all the discussions regarding queer identity and sexuality were very well written. (also the smut scenes were very good hehe). Overall, I really loved this story. Sometimes I got stressed out by all the secrets and the girls leading Josh on, but Lauren and Krystin's chemistry and relationship was everything I could have asked for, and outweighed any real faults this book had.
Thank you to Dreamscape Media for the audio ARC in exhcange for an honest review!
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807 reviews1,728 followers
August 30, 2024
That's the way it is; you come to Buenos Aires, your realize you're a lesbian

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1,186 reviews12 followers
October 25, 2023
Cute, light, fun. Juuuuust enough bite to keep it interesting. Shout out to my MVP Delia, love a bitter bestie - where’s her sequel? 😂
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502 reviews255 followers
September 25, 2024
I received an ARC from Alcove Press via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

With an excruciatingly slow start and a lot of focus on the bachelor, this was not a good fit for me. I was bored as the first half really focuses on the show and all the dates with Josh.

With Lauren firmly in the closet and Krystin not even aware there is a closet, it just didn’t feel very sapphic. When I read a sapphic romance I like for it to feel like a sapphic romance. I can’t even really remember them interacting with each other much before 20%?

I was impressed the authors made such a bold choice to make Lauren such an unlikeable character in a romance. She rude, selfish, manipulative and the list goes on and on. She goes onto the show only wanting to grow her influencer following and I saw basically no growth in the end for her. Or, not real growth as I can completely see her going back to who she was in no time.

Krystin, on the other hand, was sweet and naïve and a little boring. She was there to actually find love and I felt bad that her first relationship would be with someone like Lauren. She deserved better.

I also had a huge issue with the third act breakup situation. It stems from an assumption made by one character which then leads to them no longer speaking. Then the two don’t even get back together on their own. It takes a third party to get them speaking again and it frustrated me a lot. Nothing about them being together makes me think they have a lasting kind of love.

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2,873 reviews1,047 followers
June 22, 2024
Lesbian rom-com and men is most likable one. Bye.
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251 reviews45 followers
August 1, 2024
No fucking way I just read lesbian romance and left feeling bad for the man
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1,387 reviews207 followers
June 30, 2024
This book reminded me so much of Sophie Gonzales NEVER EVER GETTING BACK TOGETHER--it bugged me forever until I remembered! There's something slightly upsetting when it's a queer story yet centered around a variety of women competing for the affections of a straight man. REASONS focuses on the reality show Hopelessly Devoted, a knockoff of The Bachelor. Two of the contestants are Krystin, a young rodeo queen from Montana, who really wants to find love, and Lauren, a social media influencer, who hopes to use the show to gain followers.

But as Lauren and Krystin spend time together on the show, they soon realize they care more for each other than the man on Devoted, Josh. This comes as less of a surprise to Lauren, who knows she's gay, but keeps it to herself for social media purposes, than for Krystin, who's never had a relationship of any kind, and her newfound attraction to Lauren scares her.

Krystin often seems really young and confused in this story, and it sometimes seems like it would fitter better as YA, despite the overall plot. It makes sense that two young women would be undecided about their sexuality (and completely okay), but it makes for a very long heterosexual story with the dating show as the backdrop. When the story focuses on finding yourself and figuring out your sexuality, it's much better. Because all the women are competing for a straight man, the queer moments are stolen; this heightens them, but also makes the story very closeted.

The book is often cheesy but has some funny satire about online culture and dating shows. I couldn't help but feel protective of Krystin, and Lauren certainly grew on me over time. There's not a lot of character development or a ton of chemistry, unfortunately, but it's cute.

I received a copy of this book from Alcove Press and Netgalley in return for an unbiased review.
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278 reviews23 followers
June 14, 2024
"I love you in a real, certain way, and I know I'm not good at, like, feelings and words, but I think I've been trying to tell you that for a really, really long time now. And I want to keep doing it, Krystin. For as long as you'll let me."


+ lesbian main characters, queer side characters
+ reality dating show

what made me read this was the dating show theme and the wlw relationship. i was hoping for more because the romance isn't that clear until the last 20% of the book.
some people might argue that the protagonists were very manipulative with which i can agree in a bit, Lauren was in the show only to gain followers while Krystin actually wanted to experience love.

although it wasn't peak wlw romance i had fun while reading this and in my opinion, it is a perfect beach read this year. we've got romance, a little bit of adventure, and a happy ending.

big thank you to Alcove Press for providing me with an arc.
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132 reviews273 followers
March 7, 2024
4.5 stars :)
Krystin is a rodeo queen from Montana who never had the time or drive to date. However, her luck changes when she is accepted as a contestant on the hottest dating show, Hopelessly Devoted. Finally, it’s her time to meet the right guy and settle down, all she has to do is beat out dozens of other gorgeous women with the same goal. And although Krystin seems to catch the bachelor’s eye, she can’t seem to stop thinking about the beautiful brunette with the cherry-red nails.

Lauren knows what she wants, and air time on Hopelessly Devoted is a direct path to it. She’ll stay on for half the season, get some sponsorship deals, up her following, and be able to take on influencing full-time. It’s not like she’ll ever fall for the bachelor, her string of exclusively sapphic hookups as reference. But a heternormative dating show is the last place she expected a stunning blonde with a proverbial lasso attached to her hip to steal her affection. Will they realize their feelings and stay true to themselves, or will the pressure of putting it all out there prove too much? Reality dating shows have met their sapphic match in Here for the Wrong Reasons.

What a fun book!!! I was honestly so game from the first time I read the description because I have a weakness for sapphic dating show storylines. This is a for sure slow-burn romance but after that first kiss it is spice the rest of the way. I also love that an actual couple wrote this, you could tell in the best of ways. The characters felt real and intricate, and the plot was tension-packed but also silly and fun. This book set the scene for more “complex queer female characters” in the romance genre.

Both Krystin and Lauren have their own “morally grey” moments but I think Lauren stands out in this book. She is immediately set up as the show's “villain”. Although initially rightfully so as she is cold, calculating and has no issues screwing people over to get to the top. The stereotype of everything that we are taught to hate in women and promote in men. But she is written with so much depth and nuance that you are rooting for her from the start. Especially her coming-out storyline, which I loved. Lauren is a fantastic example of how to re-write the “queer mean girl villain” narrative that heternormative stories have force-fed us to make our own.

Krystin is also a fun character, although completely different from Lauren. Her slow but transformative realizations felt on a timeline that would fit someone in her situation. She’s from a small town in Montana and because of her strict rodeo schedule, she always had an excuse to never delve deeper into her lack of interest in men. Plus she didn’t exactly grow up in the epicenter of queer representation. But Krystin’s transformation from a closeted unsure girl to a confident out and proud lesbian was well-paced and genuine.

I also loved the lesbian representation in this!! I don’t think this plot would have worked if one was bisexual so I am 100000% here for the dual lesbian love. And normally I am so tired of coming out storylines, I’ve just read so many and I think a lot of queer stories fall back on them as the “big moment” instead of giving us more complex queer stories. But this was such an interesting take that I can’t even be mad. I think it worked for this plot and it was also amazing to see the frontrunner “bachelor”-esque guy get dumped and humiliated. Hilarious!

As I’ve already mentioned I am a total sucker for reality tv-show plots. But we are so lacking them in queer romance! As much as I would love to see an all-sapphic reality tv show book this was freaking good for being so “straight”. My biggest fear was that it was going to feel too hetero but it didn’t and I am still shocked. It somehow felt so queer and sapphic and gave me all the butterflies in my tummy. Despite this book containing tropes I tend to dislike; coming-out, third-act breakup, miscommunication, it felt so fresh that I loved it. This is the perfect example of why you can’t judge a story by its tropes because it may surprise you.

All in all this fresh and spicy reality show romance is an absolute must-read. From the heartwarming storylines to the spicy rivalries you won’t be able to put it down. I promise that the immediate chemistry between Krystin and Laura will have you clutching the pages. If you like romances full of humor, spice, and complex, sometimes morally grey characters then this book is for you. Happy reading!

Thank you to NetGalley and Alcove Press for sending this eARC for review consideration. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

CW: Alcohol, anxiety, homophobia, misogyny.

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1,443 reviews219 followers
March 10, 2024
Sapphic love prevails on the set of a straight reality TV dating show. Krystin, a rodeo queen, has never had a serious relationship and thinks that Hopelessly Devoted is the key to getting her HEA. Lauren is an influencer who knows that she’s a lesbian and decides to go on the show to grow her social media following. Because a lot of people go on these shows to get something other than love, right? While they’re there to be dating Josh, Krystin and Lauren end up falling for each other instead.

I really enjoyed getting the different perspectives of Krystin and Lauren. It was especially interesting to follow Krystin’s journey of realizing her sexuality and breaking out of compulsory heterosexuality. It took me a bit longer to warm up to Lauren, she can be a bit of a prickly character. And I felt like it took longer in the story than I wanted for her to realize that she needed to open up more to people and not be so closed off just for the sake of her career.

The reality TV dating show definitely made for an interesting plot. I’ve never watched The Bachelor or any shows like that, so there will probably be fun references or Easter eggs for readers who are super familiar with those franchises that went over my head. I liked getting the interstitials of the confessionals from the main two women and the other contestants as well. Because the show was airing only a week delayed from when they were shooting I thought it would’ve been fun to have additional interstitials with online commentary from viewers, but that never happened.

Because the premise of the book is all of these women trying to date Josh, I can see why that might be annoying for people only there for the lesbian romance. So know that there is a slow burn in getting Krystin and Lauren together. And that the dating show is a massive part of the plot and Josh is there basically throughout the entire book.

I had a great time reading this. I think that reality TV and dating shows offer such an interesting backdrop for romance novels. And I’m definitely looking forward to reading more from Annabel Paulsen and Lydia Wang in the future. Definitely check this out if you’re looking for a fun sapphic romance.

Thank you to the publisher for providing an advance copy via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
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153 reviews9 followers
October 9, 2023
If there’s one thing about me you should know by now, is that I absolutely adore queer books. If you ever want me to read a book, just mention that is queer and I will devour it in less than a week.

The book I read this week, “Here For The Wrong Reasons” had me smiling from ear to ear, kicking my feet and twisting in bed. I am so excited for it to come out next year, and talk openly about it.

This book tells the story of Lauren and Kristyn, who participate in a reality show to win Josh’s heart. Lauren is an influencer who is only there to gain more followers and then be swiftly eliminated, while Kristyn is a Rodeo Queen who is there to find true love. Of course, they didn’t count on falling in love with one another.

While this book was definitely a fun and sweet read, I do think there was a little bit too much Josh. I would’ve liked for the main characters to have a more developed relationship, since in the beginning we barely see them interact. It was a bit out of nowhere but nonetheless sweet relationship to read.

And talking about development, I would’ve liked for the other women to be more developed too. Look, I get it, developing 35 women who don’t really matter to the plot is a bit useless and not relevant, but I would’ve liked to see friendships blossom and a bit more of the dynamics inside the house. In general, I would’ve liked to see less of Josh, and more of the women.

I do want to note that Lauren and Kristyn’s relationship to their queerness, especially Kristyn’s comphet, was really well handled. I read some reviews of this book which said that the queerness was barely there, and this is what I think: this book gave us two closeted lesbians who each battled with two different sides of internalized homophobia, and to me, that was very clear. It wasn’t outright stated, but it influenced their actions and their dialogue, and it was both a nice and sad thing to see. I think saying the queerness was not there, when the book has a lot of inner struggles about it, and specially about being a lesbian, is not right.

Thanks to Net Galley for the arc!

Rating: ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆


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222 reviews11 followers
June 28, 2024
I can’t stand reality shows, especially the dating variety, and I may have passed this book over but I kept seeing it recommended and was curious… ended up reading it in a day and really liked it. I liked both MCs and thought the romance was well done. Some of the reality show based plot line had me cringing, especially at the end, but a solid 5 stars for the romance.
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535 reviews46 followers
May 27, 2024
2.75 stars

it hurts ME when i feel like a lesbian couple has no chemistry
(deducted a point because i don't want a lesbian book to make me feel bad for a man??????)
Profile Image for Netgyrl (Laura).
625 reviews217 followers
October 20, 2025
3 ⭐️- it felt very authentic to what you would expect of people on a bachelor type reality dating show.

It also reminded me of watching that one reality dating show where the two girls decided they liked each other and the little scraps of that we got to see as the show went along.

The book is well written, but there was way too much “bachelor” and not enough with our leading ladies.

Borrowed from my library via Libby
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389 reviews455 followers
May 20, 2024
The audiobook of Here for the Wrong Reasons is a captivating listen, brought to life beautifully by phenomenal narrators, Mara Wilson & Lindsey Dorcus. Their expressive performances and distinct character voices elevate the story, making every moment engaging and vivid. These narrators’ skillful delivery enhances the emotional depth and humor, truly immersing the listener in the narrative.

This partial sexual awakening and coming-out story centers around the complexities of reality dating shows, making it a great pick for fans of such TV genres. If you enjoyed Never Getting Back Together and are looking for a more adult version, this story is for you.

Despite my general aversion to reality TV, particularly dating shows, and my dislike for love triangles, I found this debut novel from these two talented authors, Annabel Paulsen & Lydia Wang, to be an emotion-provoking experience. The characters are complex and developed, and the plot takes you on a ride of the emotional spectrum- I experienced a wide range of emotions through this listen, everything from frustration and eye-rolling at the lack of communication to giddiness over these two FMC's finding each other. This novel offers a sapphic take on familiar themes. I enjoyed the writing style and I would love to read more from these authors, especially stories that aren't centered around reality shows.

Overall, Here for the Wrong Reasons is a great debut, and the audiobook version is a standout, thanks to the exceptional narrators who bring every aspect of the story to life.

Thank you to Netgalley, Dreamscape Media, & Annabel Paulsen; Lydia Wang for an ARC of this Audiobook.
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172 reviews154 followers
October 19, 2023
Important: THIS BOOK IS SO GAY!

I've never seen any reality dating TV, despite the fact that so many of my best friends love it, but I was completely enraptured by Annabel Paulsen and Lydia Wang's Here for the Wrong Reasons, a sapphic romance that plays out behind-the-scenes of a long-running, super-straight reality show called Hopelessly Devoted. There was so much to love about this book; it surprised the absolute heck out of me.

First of all, the world-building is aspirational. Paulsen and Wong have created not only an entire dating show, but a whole believable universe around that dating show, one that feels so lived in I could easily describe the entire enterprise using all the shorthand language longtime fictional viewers have created over the show's 20+ seasons. The characters in the book talk about it with such matter-of-fact earnestness, it somehow both skewers Bachelor-type shows while also winking fondly at them. Second of all, the relationship between Lauren and Krystin is simply wonderful, in large part because neither of them are squeaky-clean-perfect; they have complicated, sometimes selfish motivations, and they also sometimes hurt the people they love. But there's something so beautiful about seeing two people come to terms with their sexuality in completely different ways, in their 20s, and find ways to be authentic about it, for themselves and for each other.

I started laughing out loud on page two and kept it up throughout the whole book. Not laughing AT these women, but with them (mostly) — Paulsen and Wong apply so much empathy to the brushes they use to fill in the lines of their characters. This book came to me at the exact right time, when I needed a warm, light-hearted, hilarious gay book. And yes, this book is GAY GAY GAY. I saw a review that said it was for straight readers, and it boggled my brain. The only straight dude main character is simply an avatar for innocuous curly-haired decent every-guys everywhere. The real story and development is all Lauren and Krystin, and it is through them that the book cements its female-only gaze.

Thank you to Alcove Press and NetGalley for the opportunity to read this book and provide an honest review.
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633 reviews56 followers
March 12, 2024
thanks to NetGalley for the eARC

⭐️=1 | 😘=5 | 🤬=4.5 | 18+

summary: two contestants on a reality dating show—one there to find love, one there to get followers—fall for each other instead of the man they’re supposed to be competing for

thoughts: the protagonists were so unlikable and manipulative and not morally proficient individuals in any capacity whatsoever, which does NOT make for a good romance novel—you can do gray protagonists in just about every other genre, but it’s not okay in a fluffy romance!! not a function of the genre!! forbidden!!!!!!!!!

furthermore!! whenever there’s a dating show romcom (see: One to Watch or The Charm Offensive ) there’s a plethora of identical/useless side characters (other contestants) and it’s annoying to keep track of; everyone blends together every time always and, again, romance novels are not known for the wide casts of characters. it just doesn't work.

idk. am I being too mean? but this was so frustrating 😭 and also I don’t feel like the MCs even had that much chemistry together?? like I wasn’t convinced that they had any reason to be attracted to each other at all?? and then the main guy they were supposed to be falling in love with is just completely sidelined and at the end of the book I felt for him more than either of the protagonists. like can we please not have the entire plot center around two manipulative lesbians trying to trick a straight guy into thinking they’re in love with him?? let’s maybe not do that! anyway!! did not love this!! no thanks!!!!!
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871 reviews102 followers
April 12, 2024
Here for the Wrong Reasons delivers an intriguing twist on the typical reality dating show narrative, blending sapphic romance with the glitzy, competitive world of reality television. Krystin, a rodeo queen unaccustomed to the dating scene, and Lauren, a seasoned influencer with a strategic plan, find themselves unexpectedly drawn to each other amidst the chaos of the hetero dating show 'Hopelessly Devoted'. Their connection challenges the heteronormative expectations of reality TV and their own preconceived notions about love. I really enjoyed this setting as it added a lot of fun and drama. It was an engaging read due to this.

The novel stands out for its deep dive into character complexity, especially with Lauren's portrayal as the show's antagonist. Her character arc, from being perceived as manipulative to revealing a vulnerable and genuine side, enriches the story and subverts the typical villain trope in a refreshing way. Krystin's journey of self-discovery and coming out adds authenticity and relatability, highlighting the nuances of queer identity in a conservative setting.

I really enjoyed the writing style to this too. It was so engaging in the way it was written. I am looking forward to reading more from Annabel Paulsen and Lydia Wang in the future.

Many thanks to Netgalley and Alcove Press for a copy of this novel. ARC provided in exchange for an honest review.
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922 reviews64 followers
January 31, 2024
Thanks to Alcove Press and Netgalley for early access to this book in return for a review.

What happens when two closeted lesbians end up on the same bachelor-esk show? Let's find out!

This book was so stinkin' cute. I love all the characters.

Here for the Wrong reasons is a dual POV forced proximity, slow burn romance. It follows two women, Krystin, a rodeo queen, and Lauren, a budding influencer. They have both been selected as contestants on Hopelessly Devoted to compete for Josh Rosen's heart. But as the competition heats up, so does the tension between these two women.

There is so much I enjoyed about this book, but I liked how it played with tropes and assumptions about the characters throughout the novel. Both Krystin and Lauren beg you to make assumptions about them, especially when you're reading from the others POV, but at every turn, they both become so much more than their stereotypes.

The conclusion to the story was sweet and tied up the loose ends nicely. The story gave you spice without going too overboard.

I think this would be great for fans of Ashley Herring Blake, and Rachel Lacey. The vibes are immaculate and it is a thoroughly enjoyable read.
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241 reviews6 followers
December 9, 2023
Thanks to Netgalley for providing this arc! All thoughts and opinions are my own!

The second I read this synopsis I had to have it. I think we all (and by we I mean queer women who also watch the bachelor) remember when the Vietnamese franchise had basically this scenario happen: two of the female contestants fell in love and lived happily ever after (at least as far as 2019 I can't find much past that).

Lauren and Krystin were such a perfect opposites attract couple and the setting of being on Hopelessly Devoted (aka The Bachelor) was such a cool setting for a relationship and all the mixed up communication that goes with it.

Like any good lesbian romance there are FEELINGS and also like any good "awakening" romance there is also love and support from the cast of secondary characters which we love to see.

Overall a super enjoyable read. I found the constant Bachelor references hilarious but I can see that those who didn't grow up with the franchise might just be a little confused/not as engaged with the "journey".

3.5/5 ⭐
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3,611 reviews207 followers
July 14, 2024
Annabel Paulsen and Lydia Wang's Here for the Wrong Reasons is an FF romance where the main characters are participating in a MF reality dating program. I've only seen one such program myself, and it was with queer women, so this book actually rang true for me. Some of the motivations for these participants aligned with the folks in the TV show I saw... and that really worked for me.

The audio version of Here for the Wrong Reasons is nicely performed by the marvelous Mara Wilson and Lindsey Dorcus. These two do a really nice job with this vast cast of characters.

an audiobook copy of Here for the Wrong Reasons was provided by Dreamscape Media, via NetGalley, for the purpose of my honest review, all opinions are my own
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