Don't Text That Man! A Guide To Self Protective Dating in the Age of Technology

by Rhonda Findling

Rhonda Findling, author of the bestselling and internationally acclaimed Don’t Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go has written a new book to help women during their dating journey in the Don’t Text That Man! A Guide To Self Protective Dating in the Age of Technology.

Don’t Text That Man! will empower you by offering deeper insight into men's minds to determine if a man you are interested in or involved with has the emotional capacity to sustain a grownup, mature, viable relationship.

Packed with invaluable advice, Don’t Text That Man! will teach you how to detach from a man you broke up with or has broken up with you in the healthiest way possible, with your self-esteem in tact. You will learn to cope with obsessive thinking as well as feelings of anger and aggression.

In our fast-paced technological world, women truly need to be smarter and more self-protective than ever before. Don’t Text That Man! will teach you how.

Table of Contents

Introduction
Malignant Men
The Classic Malignant Men Prototypes
The Sexually Ambivalent Man
The Severely Emotionally Avoidant Malignant Man
Why Do Malignant Men Destroy Relationships With Women?
Malignant Men’s Most Popular Psychological Defense
How Did He Get Like This?
Relating to Malignant Men
What To Do If You’ve Been Devastated By A Malignant Man
Detaching from a Malignant Man
Detaching Technologically
Why Acting Aggressive Is Not A Good Idea
Recovery Three To Six Months Later
Why Do I Still Want To Contact Him?
Ruminating
Destructive Thoughts That Disempower You
How To Stop Ruminating And Thinking Destructive Thoughts
Six Months To One Year Later
Closure
Forgiving “That Man”

150 pages, Paperback

First published December 10, 2011

About the author

Rhonda Findling, MA,CRC is an internationally acclaimed psychotherapist and author with a private practice in Forest Hills and Manhattan (New York City). She has been in private practice 17 years(full time 10 years). She was a staff psychotherapist at Postgraduate Center for Mental Health in New York for 15 years. She taught courses on psychology and counseling at Marymount College. Rhonda has worked as a psychologist for the State of New York for three years . She was a counselor at Victims Information Bureau where she counseled victims of rape, sexual assault and spouse abuse.

Rhonda has appeared as a relationship expert on several national talk shows including Ilanya, Ricki Lake, Geraldo, Maury Povitch, Good Day New York, Judith Regan Tonight , and Eye Witness News. Rhonda has also been featured on radio shows nationwide.

Rhonda has led "Don't Call That Man!" workshops and seminars throughout the world including Paris, Berlin, Leeds and Glastonbury,England. She has also presented at the Learning Annex, 92nd St. Y and Hazelden. She has been featured in the "New York Post", "Newsday", " Los Angeles Times", "Cosmopolitan Magaine","Denver Rocky Mountain News", and "Today's Black Woman." Her articles have appeared in "Essence" magazine, "Complete Woman" and "Mouthpiece" (the newsletter for the New York State Association of Criminal Defense Lawyers).

Rhonda is a member of the National Speakers Association, the Dramatist Guild, the New York State Psychological Association, the American Screenwriters Association and is recognized in Who's Who in America.

Rhonda is the author of the play "The Psychic" that was produced by Caicedo Productions and Doubletime Productions at the American Theatre of Actors in New York City November 1996. The Psychic also had a staged reading at the Nuyorican Poetry Cafe in New York City August 1997. She has taken classes in directing, screenwriting, and filmmaking at New School University and Film and Video Arts Inc. She studied acting at HB Studios, Stella Adler Studio Of Acting in New York City , and with William H Macy in Chicago. She's appeared in several community theatre productions on Long island, New York and two off-off Broadway productions in Chicago.

Reviews

[Nichole · Rating 3 out of 5]

A lot of stuff you already know, but a good reminder.

[Jamie · Rating 2 out of 5]

Lame

Really didn’t say anything most of us don’t already know.
We know the why, what we want is the how.