This is a heart-rendering story of a young African boy, Alem, who is seeking asylum in England. Ethiopia and Eritrea are at war. One of Alem’s parents is Ethiopian, the other Eritrean. Both are considered traitors to their country for marrying across the divide, and Alem is regarded as a mongrel by both sides. As a family, they are bullied and discriminated against in both countries, and at constant risk of violence.
Alem’s father brings him to England for a ‘holiday’, then leaves him – with a note for the hotel, and one for Alem – saying Alem needs to stay in England to be safe and have a future, while his father will go back to Africa ensure the safety of his wife.
After a night in a children’s home, where Alem is bullied again, he is taken to the home of a wonderfully supportive foster family, the Fitzgeralds. Alem starts at the local school where he applies himself fully to his studies and makes some friends. Meanwhile, his application for asylum is put through, and he receives a letter from his father to say his mother has been killed.
Bad news continues, yet throughout it all, Alem is a remarkably resilient child. The process for seeking asylum seems designed to drag people down – it takes too long, strips people of their dignity, and relies on those with little to no concept of the situation that asylum seekers have escaped, to make arbitrary decisions on their future. Listening to Alem’s (and his father’s) case, you would think granting asylum would be automatic – not so.
Thankfully, Alem has excellent support from his lawyer and the refugee council, but most importantly from his foster parents, friends and school. But, unfortunately, there are more problems ahead, and England does not turn out to be the safe place it purports to be.
We have room and resources in this country to take in genuine asylum seekers. We need more stories like this to make people understand what is at stake for those who have been forced to leave their homes. Asylum seekers do NOT come to this country to leach off our benefit system. They would love to live in their own country, but life might not be possible there anymore.
Highly recommended.