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Belonging
Appealing to readers of Delia Owens’
Where the Crawdads Sing,
Kristin Hannah’s
Firefly Lane,
and Ann Packer’s
The Dive from Clausen’s Pier,
Belonging is a heartbreaking and hopeful coming of age story that traverses lifelong friendship, first love, and a young woman’s fierce desire to transcend her traumatic childhood.
Jenny is thirteen when an epic dust storm rolls into her central California town in December 1977. Bedridden after contracting a life-threatening illness in the storm and suffering a shocking loss, Jenny realizes she will never be cared for by the mother who both neglects and terrifies her or the father who allows it. She relies on her cousin, Heather, who has the loving home Jenny longs for; her beloved great-uncle, Gino, the last link between generations; her best friend, Henry, a free spirit with whom she shares an inexplicable bond; and earnest baseball star, Billy, who becomes her first love. After a stunning turn of events in both their lives, Jenny and Henry leave for college in LA together in the summer of 1982—Jenny fleeing a broken heart, and Henry running from something he can’t reveal, even to his best friend. When she returns home years later, the life Jenny so carefully created collides with the one she left behind.
Spanning three decades, Belonging is about first love and heartbreak, friendship and secrets, family and forgiveness, hometowns and coming of age, and memory and music. The heart of the story is Jenny’s struggle to undo the binds of a childhood that have deeply affected her life, the painful path to love endured by children raised in alcoholic families, and the grim reality of believing you must hide a part of yourself in order to belong.
Jenny is thirteen when an epic dust storm rolls into her central California town in December 1977. Bedridden after contracting a life-threatening illness in the storm and suffering a shocking loss, Jenny realizes she will never be cared for by the mother who both neglects and terrifies her or the father who allows it. She relies on her cousin, Heather, who has the loving home Jenny longs for; her beloved great-uncle, Gino, the last link between generations; her best friend, Henry, a free spirit with whom she shares an inexplicable bond; and earnest baseball star, Billy, who becomes her first love. After a stunning turn of events in both their lives, Jenny and Henry leave for college in LA together in the summer of 1982—Jenny fleeing a broken heart, and Henry running from something he can’t reveal, even to his best friend. When she returns home years later, the life Jenny so carefully created collides with the one she left behind.
Spanning three decades, Belonging is about first love and heartbreak, friendship and secrets, family and forgiveness, hometowns and coming of age, and memory and music. The heart of the story is Jenny’s struggle to undo the binds of a childhood that have deeply affected her life, the painful path to love endured by children raised in alcoholic families, and the grim reality of believing you must hide a part of yourself in order to belong.
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328 pages, Kindle Edition
Published January 30, 2024
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About the author
Jill Fordyce
1 book36 followersJill Fordyce received a bachelor’s degree in English from the University of Southern California and a law degree from Santa Clara University. While practicing law, she continued to study writing through the Stanford Continuing Studies creative writing program. Jill and her husband, Craig, have five children and live in California and Tennessee.
"Belonging" is her debut novel.
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February 12, 2024
This is this authors debut novel. I thoroughly enjoyed it. This starts out when Jenny is 13 and a horrible dust storm rolls through her town. She has been raised in a dreary home without the love of her mother and very little from her father. She collects prayer cards and is close to other family members. She returns home to confront the wounds of her childhood from her parents and her friends. I would definitely recommend this book.
December 7, 2023
Belonging
You know that quote by Stephen King that says Books are a uniquely portable magic? That’s what I felt reading Belonging by Jill Fordyce. To say Jenny has a cross to bear is an understatement. Jenny’s homelife is rough with an alcoholic mother and a father who allows it. Life gets harder when at thirteen Jenny gets a disease from an epic dust storm sweeping across her hometown of Bakersville California and loses her grandmother at a young age. What gets Jenny through her rough life is her best friend Henry, her great uncle Gino and her cousin Heather and her first love Billy. In 1982 when Jenny and Henry are old enough, they flee their town. Jenny flee’s a broken heart and Henry is running from something he can’t reveal. When Jenny returns to her hometown the life Jenny worked so hard to build coincides with the one, she ran from. Belonging spans decades and takes you on a journey through heartbreak, faith, love, family, friendship and forgiveness.
Writing, Story, & Setting
The writing is beautiful and descriptive. I could picture myself in the story with Jenny. I’m surprised that this was Jill Fordyce’s first novel. I assumed with how well written this was, this had to have been Jill’s fourth or fifth novel. I like that the setting takes place in California and that the story begins in the late 1970s and ends in 2017. It was great going through the different decades.
Characters & Themes
The characters are very realistic, and I like that because it’s as though we know them or someone who is like them and can relate to some of them. I love Jenny and I felt as though I was with her on her journey through life watching as she grew as a person. I also like her friend Henry, Uncle Gino and Nonna. I love that Jenny was able to understand why her mother was the way she was and forgive her without excusing her actions. What I really enjoyed about the book is Catholicism played a huge part in the story without coming off as preachy and in your face. Not many fiction books have religion be a part of the story and if religion is mentioned, it seems as though almost every character is like “I’m spiritual but not religious” or “I’m atheist”. As a Catholic I appreciate that faith was apart of the story. While I wasn’t a huge fan of Billy and Jenny’s relationship after the heartbreak that happened, it grew on me.
Overall
If you enjoy stories about family, friendship, heartbreak, love, forgiveness and faith I recommend Belonging by Jill Fordyce. I can’t wait to read everything she writes next. If you don’t have an early copy of Belonging, preorder the book coming out next month on January 30th. In my opinion it’s one of the best books of 2024! Thank you, Jill, for writing such a great book! I can’t wait to do our Q&A!
You know that quote by Stephen King that says Books are a uniquely portable magic? That’s what I felt reading Belonging by Jill Fordyce. To say Jenny has a cross to bear is an understatement. Jenny’s homelife is rough with an alcoholic mother and a father who allows it. Life gets harder when at thirteen Jenny gets a disease from an epic dust storm sweeping across her hometown of Bakersville California and loses her grandmother at a young age. What gets Jenny through her rough life is her best friend Henry, her great uncle Gino and her cousin Heather and her first love Billy. In 1982 when Jenny and Henry are old enough, they flee their town. Jenny flee’s a broken heart and Henry is running from something he can’t reveal. When Jenny returns to her hometown the life Jenny worked so hard to build coincides with the one, she ran from. Belonging spans decades and takes you on a journey through heartbreak, faith, love, family, friendship and forgiveness.
Writing, Story, & Setting
The writing is beautiful and descriptive. I could picture myself in the story with Jenny. I’m surprised that this was Jill Fordyce’s first novel. I assumed with how well written this was, this had to have been Jill’s fourth or fifth novel. I like that the setting takes place in California and that the story begins in the late 1970s and ends in 2017. It was great going through the different decades.
Characters & Themes
The characters are very realistic, and I like that because it’s as though we know them or someone who is like them and can relate to some of them. I love Jenny and I felt as though I was with her on her journey through life watching as she grew as a person. I also like her friend Henry, Uncle Gino and Nonna. I love that Jenny was able to understand why her mother was the way she was and forgive her without excusing her actions. What I really enjoyed about the book is Catholicism played a huge part in the story without coming off as preachy and in your face. Not many fiction books have religion be a part of the story and if religion is mentioned, it seems as though almost every character is like “I’m spiritual but not religious” or “I’m atheist”. As a Catholic I appreciate that faith was apart of the story. While I wasn’t a huge fan of Billy and Jenny’s relationship after the heartbreak that happened, it grew on me.
Overall
If you enjoy stories about family, friendship, heartbreak, love, forgiveness and faith I recommend Belonging by Jill Fordyce. I can’t wait to read everything she writes next. If you don’t have an early copy of Belonging, preorder the book coming out next month on January 30th. In my opinion it’s one of the best books of 2024! Thank you, Jill, for writing such a great book! I can’t wait to do our Q&A!
December 19, 2023
Belonging by Jill Fordyce. Thanks to @posthillpress for the gifted Arc ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Jenny is thirteen when a dust storm leaves her with a potentially fatal illness. She knows her parents won’t take care of her. She relies on her friends and grandmother. After stunning events, Jenny flees her small town but returns home years later.
This was a great coming of age story of a young female. It did a great job of showing her experience growing up with an alcoholic mother and the people that she held on to. It is quite short for a story that spans decades, but nothing was amiss. The author did a great job of packing a lot into a little.
“She wondered how in the span of five minutes, she went from feeling as joyous and hopeful as she could ever recall to being terrified and ashamed..”
Belonging comes out 1/30.
Jenny is thirteen when a dust storm leaves her with a potentially fatal illness. She knows her parents won’t take care of her. She relies on her friends and grandmother. After stunning events, Jenny flees her small town but returns home years later.
This was a great coming of age story of a young female. It did a great job of showing her experience growing up with an alcoholic mother and the people that she held on to. It is quite short for a story that spans decades, but nothing was amiss. The author did a great job of packing a lot into a little.
“She wondered how in the span of five minutes, she went from feeling as joyous and hopeful as she could ever recall to being terrified and ashamed..”
Belonging comes out 1/30.
January 6, 2024
I voluntarily read and reviewed an advanced copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
4.3 rounded down to 4/5.
Jill Fordyce's "Belonging" invites readers into a captivating narrative that spans three decades, skillfully weaving through the intricacies of first love, heartache, friendship, and the profound impact of one's upbringing. Set against the backdrop of central California, the story unfolds in the wake of an epic dust storm in 1977, leaving the protagonist, Jenny, bedridden and grappling with a life-threatening illness and a devastating loss.
The strength of Fordyce's writing lies in its beauty and descriptiveness. The writing is a tapestry of emotions, vividly portraying the innocence and heartache of first love, the complexities of friendships slipping away, and the indelible marks left by the places we call home. The author's ability to capture the essence of each decade from the 1970s to 2017 adds depth to the narrative, immersing readers in a richly detailed journey through time.
The characters in "Belonging" are rendered with authenticity and realism. Jenny, the protagonist, is a poignant portrayal of resilience in the face of neglect and terror from her own family. The supporting cast, including the loving cousin Heather, the enigmatic best friend Henry, and the earnest first love Billy, all contribute to the relationships that shape and define Jenny's life.
However, one aspect that may catch some readers off guard is the significant role that Catholicism plays in the story, a detail not explicitly highlighted in the book's description. The intertwining of religious elements might be divisive for those who prefer narratives less focused on religious themes. It's a crucial aspect to be aware of, especially for readers who may have strong feelings about the inclusion of religious elements in their literary experience.
Another point of contention might be the book's brevity given its expansive timeline. While the narrative spans three decades, some readers may find themselves yearning for more depth and exploration, feeling that certain aspects of the story could have been further developed. The desire for a more extended exploration of the characters' lives and experiences speaks to the compelling nature of the narrative, leaving readers hungry for a more immersive experience.
In conclusion, "Belonging" is an exploration of first love, heartbreak, friendship, and the enduring impact of childhood. Fordyce's beautiful and descriptive writing captures the essence of each era, while realistic characters breathe life into a story that navigates the complexities of human relationships. Though the inclusion of Catholicism may not resonate with every reader, and some may wish for a more extensive exploration of the narrative, "Belonging" stands as a testament to the enduring power of love, forgiveness, and the quest to belong in a world shaped by both past and present.
4.3 rounded down to 4/5.
Jill Fordyce's "Belonging" invites readers into a captivating narrative that spans three decades, skillfully weaving through the intricacies of first love, heartache, friendship, and the profound impact of one's upbringing. Set against the backdrop of central California, the story unfolds in the wake of an epic dust storm in 1977, leaving the protagonist, Jenny, bedridden and grappling with a life-threatening illness and a devastating loss.
The strength of Fordyce's writing lies in its beauty and descriptiveness. The writing is a tapestry of emotions, vividly portraying the innocence and heartache of first love, the complexities of friendships slipping away, and the indelible marks left by the places we call home. The author's ability to capture the essence of each decade from the 1970s to 2017 adds depth to the narrative, immersing readers in a richly detailed journey through time.
The characters in "Belonging" are rendered with authenticity and realism. Jenny, the protagonist, is a poignant portrayal of resilience in the face of neglect and terror from her own family. The supporting cast, including the loving cousin Heather, the enigmatic best friend Henry, and the earnest first love Billy, all contribute to the relationships that shape and define Jenny's life.
However, one aspect that may catch some readers off guard is the significant role that Catholicism plays in the story, a detail not explicitly highlighted in the book's description. The intertwining of religious elements might be divisive for those who prefer narratives less focused on religious themes. It's a crucial aspect to be aware of, especially for readers who may have strong feelings about the inclusion of religious elements in their literary experience.
Another point of contention might be the book's brevity given its expansive timeline. While the narrative spans three decades, some readers may find themselves yearning for more depth and exploration, feeling that certain aspects of the story could have been further developed. The desire for a more extended exploration of the characters' lives and experiences speaks to the compelling nature of the narrative, leaving readers hungry for a more immersive experience.
In conclusion, "Belonging" is an exploration of first love, heartbreak, friendship, and the enduring impact of childhood. Fordyce's beautiful and descriptive writing captures the essence of each era, while realistic characters breathe life into a story that navigates the complexities of human relationships. Though the inclusion of Catholicism may not resonate with every reader, and some may wish for a more extensive exploration of the narrative, "Belonging" stands as a testament to the enduring power of love, forgiveness, and the quest to belong in a world shaped by both past and present.
April 23, 2025
This was a tough book for me and I almost put it aside several times. But I plugged along until the very end because I wanted to find out what happened to sweet Jenny and her family. A mother who hated her and was a drunk, a completely ineffectual father, a gay best friend and her high school sweetheart Billy who was her soul mate. It’s a weird little book and so repetitive but I still kept reading. Jenny cries buckets of tears in this book and constantly reads her prayer cards. Maybe I should have given it two stars.
January 19, 2025
The first half of the book was slow and a struggle for me. I’m glad that I read until the end.
February 7, 2024
This book breaks my heart and heals it too. It’s both precise about a particular time and place—beginning in 1977 in California’s Central Valley town of Bakersfield—and universal—circling our human need to belong. Jill’s crafted a smart, taut, emotional novel that reveals tremendous kindness and dignity. Even those who do wrong in this novel have a backstory that explains how they got there.
I was raised in Bakersfield, three years ahead of Jill. We carpooled to speech and debate tournaments in my 1978 Buick Riviera, Tom Petty and Linda Ronstadt blaring on the eight track. BELONGING brought me right back to that time. The precise details she shares about Bakersfield, details I loved and details I hated, ring true. The novel begins with the great dust storm of 1977, which covered our whole town with piles of grit that reminded local grannies and grandpas of their migration from Texas to Bakersfield in the Great Dust Bowl. Our dreaded dust-borne Valley Fever spore swims to the bottom of protagonist Jenny’s lungs, sending her to the hospital and to a home sick bed where much of her family trouble is revealed. Jenny attends a rehearsal dinner at the Basque restaurant where my husband and I held our rehearsal dinner. At a family funeral, she serves the Smith Bakery yellow smiley face cookies we recently nibbled at my father’s 87th birthday. Jenny watches movies every weekend at Stockdale Six, where I sat in the first row screaming at the first screening of Jaws. Jenny inhales the rich smell of irrigation on farmland on cool mornings before blistering afternoons. She reveres Merle Haggard and the Bakersfield sound. She hates the homophobia that poisons that soil. Her mother totters on a barstool every afternoon at what has to be Mexicali. This novel is so very resonant.
But a reader doesn’t have to be from Bakersfield to feel the generous dignity Jill allots her characters, because the story is universal, turning on the way we need to belong, to be accepted for who we actually are. All of us, everywhere, at every time in history, have needed this, whether or not we ever get it. In spite of the pain Jenny endures, she gets that feeling of belonging, because this novel is honestly redemptive, not falsely redemptive. I highly recommend you read it. It will take you home again.
I was raised in Bakersfield, three years ahead of Jill. We carpooled to speech and debate tournaments in my 1978 Buick Riviera, Tom Petty and Linda Ronstadt blaring on the eight track. BELONGING brought me right back to that time. The precise details she shares about Bakersfield, details I loved and details I hated, ring true. The novel begins with the great dust storm of 1977, which covered our whole town with piles of grit that reminded local grannies and grandpas of their migration from Texas to Bakersfield in the Great Dust Bowl. Our dreaded dust-borne Valley Fever spore swims to the bottom of protagonist Jenny’s lungs, sending her to the hospital and to a home sick bed where much of her family trouble is revealed. Jenny attends a rehearsal dinner at the Basque restaurant where my husband and I held our rehearsal dinner. At a family funeral, she serves the Smith Bakery yellow smiley face cookies we recently nibbled at my father’s 87th birthday. Jenny watches movies every weekend at Stockdale Six, where I sat in the first row screaming at the first screening of Jaws. Jenny inhales the rich smell of irrigation on farmland on cool mornings before blistering afternoons. She reveres Merle Haggard and the Bakersfield sound. She hates the homophobia that poisons that soil. Her mother totters on a barstool every afternoon at what has to be Mexicali. This novel is so very resonant.
But a reader doesn’t have to be from Bakersfield to feel the generous dignity Jill allots her characters, because the story is universal, turning on the way we need to belong, to be accepted for who we actually are. All of us, everywhere, at every time in history, have needed this, whether or not we ever get it. In spite of the pain Jenny endures, she gets that feeling of belonging, because this novel is honestly redemptive, not falsely redemptive. I highly recommend you read it. It will take you home again.
February 7, 2024
I loved this read. Gentle, poignant, real, and relatable are all words that come to mind. By the end of the first page, I wanted to know more about young Jenny. I was drawn in by the fact she was more interested in the cute boy sitting in front of her in class than by the teacher’s direction- relatable. Though some of the realities of Jenny’s life are harsh, the author has developed a character who faces her challenges through a soft, almost gentle lens. The nearly poetic, well-crafted description of Jenny’s childhood home in a central California town harkened black to my own hometown. A subtle mystery sits, barely noticeable, in the background as we watch Jenny grow - intriguing. The poignancy manifests through Jenny’s lifelong journey navigating and discovering ways to belong through love, friendships and family, despite devastating heartbreaks. The detail woven through the story made Jenny’s story real, like it happened, as if a friend were sharing her intimate story over coffee. But more importantly than all of that, the story gently prodded my own self-reflection. My mind kept wandering to comparisons with my own life, what I would have done and, though it can in no way be called a self-help book (it truly is a story), it even provided a inspirational backdrop for reflection on perserverance, acceptance, friendship and an inescapable lesson on being open and accepting love in the myriad ways it presents. If I had to pick favorite parts, I would be hard pressed and I don’t want to ruin the story, but a few hints of some highlights: a painting, the armpit, prayer cards, fresh cut grass, mission bells, motherhood, and music . . . Enjoy!
April 11, 2025
I don’t recall how I heard of this book. It’s been in my audible for a while now. I’m just going to jump into it.
There was one line that had me yelling at a character out loud and all the emotional softening toward him ended immediately. I could have forgiven it as a self-centered thought from the character, but the rhetoric continued across multiple characters. When I’m reading about characters that are young and one person isn’t ready for sex, and the other one decides to cheat, I fall on the side of the cheated-on person for not wanting to talk to them. Instead, this book turned it into an issue that she chose not to speak with him. “I wish you had let me see you again”. Um… no sir. Try, “I wish I had never cheated on you.”
In the same breath, when they discuss how he wishes he would have seen her a month before he was married… I also don’t believe that is something to apologize for.
There were also some anti-LGBTQIA aspects, however it wasn’t written in the light of anti-LGBTQIA being acceptable. Difficult to hear characters with that mindset, so watch your triggers there.
So… interesting story, however it was also frustrating for my feminist, liberal heart.
TLDR: Billy can’t take responsibility for his own actions and shifts blame. Jenny pushes people away and blows things out of proportion and it’s ‘so shocking’ that they can’t work things out. Henry is an amazing person and I enjoyed his character (crying). Nonna was also an amazing character.
There was one line that had me yelling at a character out loud and all the emotional softening toward him ended immediately. I could have forgiven it as a self-centered thought from the character, but the rhetoric continued across multiple characters. When I’m reading about characters that are young and one person isn’t ready for sex, and the other one decides to cheat, I fall on the side of the cheated-on person for not wanting to talk to them. Instead, this book turned it into an issue that she chose not to speak with him. “I wish you had let me see you again”. Um… no sir. Try, “I wish I had never cheated on you.”
In the same breath, when they discuss how he wishes he would have seen her a month before he was married… I also don’t believe that is something to apologize for.
There were also some anti-LGBTQIA aspects, however it wasn’t written in the light of anti-LGBTQIA being acceptable. Difficult to hear characters with that mindset, so watch your triggers there.
So… interesting story, however it was also frustrating for my feminist, liberal heart.
TLDR: Billy can’t take responsibility for his own actions and shifts blame. Jenny pushes people away and blows things out of proportion and it’s ‘so shocking’ that they can’t work things out. Henry is an amazing person and I enjoyed his character (crying). Nonna was also an amazing character.
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March 27, 2024
Author Jill Fordyce has written from the heart about her character Jenny. As the reader follows her from her young teen years to adulthood, one gleans an understanding of some of her insecurities. Secrets are revealed later in the book which add to the reader’s understanding also.
Jenny’s mother is cold and uncaring when it comes to young Jenny. Her father is caring but seems to fear upsetting Jenny’s alcoholic mother. Her extended family of Grandma Nonna, Great Uncle Gino, cousin Heather, best friend Henry, and their families provide support for Jenny. This never seems enough, though, to undo the mental abuse inflicted by her mother. Much of the book is about Jenny’s struggle to come to terms with these insecurities.
The book has themes concerning family, friends, loss, acceptance, and the power of love. It’s not preachy in any way but does have quotes from the Bible and beautiful expressions by Mother Teresa and others. The book left me with a peaceful feeling.
I thank Pauline at BookMovement for the book contest allowing me to win copies of BELONGING for my book club. I also thank author Jill Fordyce for her part in sharing copies of this special book. I’ll report more after we’ve discussed the book in book club.
Jenny’s mother is cold and uncaring when it comes to young Jenny. Her father is caring but seems to fear upsetting Jenny’s alcoholic mother. Her extended family of Grandma Nonna, Great Uncle Gino, cousin Heather, best friend Henry, and their families provide support for Jenny. This never seems enough, though, to undo the mental abuse inflicted by her mother. Much of the book is about Jenny’s struggle to come to terms with these insecurities.
The book has themes concerning family, friends, loss, acceptance, and the power of love. It’s not preachy in any way but does have quotes from the Bible and beautiful expressions by Mother Teresa and others. The book left me with a peaceful feeling.
I thank Pauline at BookMovement for the book contest allowing me to win copies of BELONGING for my book club. I also thank author Jill Fordyce for her part in sharing copies of this special book. I’ll report more after we’ve discussed the book in book club.
October 29, 2024
Love, love, love this book!
This book is a raw and poignant exploration of family ties, self-discovery, and the complexity of seeking a place to truly belong.
Fordyce’s narrative struck a DEEPLY personal chord with me - especially her portrayal of the relationship with her mother and the understanding that some family dynamics remain locked away, too heavy to reveal to friends and family when you are young.
Fordayce’s ability to convey these layers of silence, responsibility, and yearning for acceptance is cathartic. Through her honesty, she gives voice to struggles that many of us keep hidden, yet desperately need to be acknowledged.
The story was a reminder that while family shapes us, we each have the capacity to carve our own paths, even when that journey requires letting go or redefining relationships that once seemed immovable.
Drawing the parallel to the main characters love for her uncle - I have to pay homage to my aunt Linda for buying me this book in her constant efforts to recognize what I’ve been through and guide me through it - for always encouraging me to look beyond circumstance and never stop searching! This book felt like an extension of these beliefs and I loved it. 😍
This book is a raw and poignant exploration of family ties, self-discovery, and the complexity of seeking a place to truly belong.
Fordyce’s narrative struck a DEEPLY personal chord with me - especially her portrayal of the relationship with her mother and the understanding that some family dynamics remain locked away, too heavy to reveal to friends and family when you are young.
Fordayce’s ability to convey these layers of silence, responsibility, and yearning for acceptance is cathartic. Through her honesty, she gives voice to struggles that many of us keep hidden, yet desperately need to be acknowledged.
The story was a reminder that while family shapes us, we each have the capacity to carve our own paths, even when that journey requires letting go or redefining relationships that once seemed immovable.
Drawing the parallel to the main characters love for her uncle - I have to pay homage to my aunt Linda for buying me this book in her constant efforts to recognize what I’ve been through and guide me through it - for always encouraging me to look beyond circumstance and never stop searching! This book felt like an extension of these beliefs and I loved it. 😍
January 5, 2024
I have to admit, about halfway through this story I was disappointed with it. I felt that there were too many unanswered questions about Jenny's parents, who were for the most part very one dimensional characters. However, the end brought it all together for me. Often in life, things don't make sense until all the truths are known, and many times that truth comes far too late.
This is a beautiful coming of age story of a girl whose faith, support and love came not from her parents, but others. That faith and love shaped who she became and how she ultimately came to peace with her life. While her parents characters may have seen one dimensional, I realize now that it was because of the truth that they failed to accept, share and live.
I loved the growth of Jenny's character and the struggles that come when we sometimes feel as if we don't belong, and how truth, even when revealed late, can always make sense of things we never understood. A good read that requires the reader to be patient until the end, but it is ultimately worth it.
This is a beautiful coming of age story of a girl whose faith, support and love came not from her parents, but others. That faith and love shaped who she became and how she ultimately came to peace with her life. While her parents characters may have seen one dimensional, I realize now that it was because of the truth that they failed to accept, share and live.
I loved the growth of Jenny's character and the struggles that come when we sometimes feel as if we don't belong, and how truth, even when revealed late, can always make sense of things we never understood. A good read that requires the reader to be patient until the end, but it is ultimately worth it.
January 9, 2024
I struggled with whether to give this book three or four stars. It’s very well written. The characters are well developed, flawed and relatable. The story itself is very relatable for anyone who has had an abusive, neglectful and angry parent. However, the religious undertones were a drawback, and I wouldn’t have chosen this book if I had known it was so filled with bible verses and Christianity.
I like that the book followed Jenny’s healing journey throughout her life and showed how complicated navigating healing from trauma really is.
The scenes of disownment by one of the gay character’s parents could be triggering for many people in the LGBTQ+ community. There are also scenes that may be triggering for people who have lost a loved one to AIDS. I have not seen that mentioned anywhere and thought it should be mentioned.
I like that the book followed Jenny’s healing journey throughout her life and showed how complicated navigating healing from trauma really is.
The scenes of disownment by one of the gay character’s parents could be triggering for many people in the LGBTQ+ community. There are also scenes that may be triggering for people who have lost a loved one to AIDS. I have not seen that mentioned anywhere and thought it should be mentioned.
April 14, 2024
I’m not going to lie, this isn’t my typical read at all and it took me a while to finish this. However, I was just not expecting the amount of emotions it was going to take me through and found myself having to take breaks often. The writing is amazing and the story is such a beautiful coming of age adventure. I think it also took me a while to finish because I was so upset with the way Jenny’s parents were and felt like I wasn’t getting any answers to WHY they were that way- part three answered all of the questions I had and brought everything together perfectly. There were heartbreaks, unwavering faith, unending love, and friendships all throughout. This was such an inspiring story about finding where you belong and loving the journey you went through to get there.
Thank you Jill and @bobimedia_ for the physical ARC to read and review 💖
Thank you Jill and @bobimedia_ for the physical ARC to read and review 💖
December 31, 2023
Belonging
What a great book! Was hooked from the first page. A coming of age story about lessons learned in friendship, family, and romance.
I really related to the main character, Jenny, as I also had an emotionally distant mother who was jealous of me for whom nothing was good enough. Even some of the things Jenny’s mother said to her were things my own mother said to me. It was almost like the author read my diary!
Chapters 21-23 just about brought me to tears, and I’m NOT. A book-cryer lol.
I like the author’s writing style: it’s very smooth, flowy, and easy to read. Would definitely recommend this book and I look forward to reading more from her!
What a great book! Was hooked from the first page. A coming of age story about lessons learned in friendship, family, and romance.
I really related to the main character, Jenny, as I also had an emotionally distant mother who was jealous of me for whom nothing was good enough. Even some of the things Jenny’s mother said to her were things my own mother said to me. It was almost like the author read my diary!
Chapters 21-23 just about brought me to tears, and I’m NOT. A book-cryer lol.
I like the author’s writing style: it’s very smooth, flowy, and easy to read. Would definitely recommend this book and I look forward to reading more from her!
January 23, 2024
This book hit me straight in the heart! Jenny is a young woman growing up in Bakersfield, CA in the late 70s to early 80s. She is from an Italian, Catholic family that has a lot of love to share. But, for some reason Jenny’s mom has always treated her as if she’s an enemy. All of Jenny’s life she is made to feel like she’s not good enough. Jenny’s Grandmother has always tried to make up for her mother’s shortcomings and loves Jenny unconditionally. However, when Jenny is 13, her Grandmother dies unexpectedly. Had it not been for her best friend Henry, Jenny would have been totally lost. Things just keep going bad for her from here. This is a story of how the love of family, and friends, along with a deep connection with God can save a person from the depths of despair.
December 28, 2023
Jenny is thirteen where her journey begins in this story. She has endured a lot, but she continues moving forward in her journey. As I read this book, I kept thinking one thing, and hoping she would continue to ride out her journey to see where she came out.
When she returns home years later, the life Jenny so carefully created collides with the one she left behind. But this part of her journey isn't done yet, so you will have to read the book to see if she ends it where it is now, or goes forward to see what lies ahead.
I received an ARC from Post Hill Press through NetGalley and I did enjoy this journey.
When she returns home years later, the life Jenny so carefully created collides with the one she left behind. But this part of her journey isn't done yet, so you will have to read the book to see if she ends it where it is now, or goes forward to see what lies ahead.
I received an ARC from Post Hill Press through NetGalley and I did enjoy this journey.
February 18, 2024
This was a truly wonderful novel. It kept me awake long after finishing, and I still find myself thinking of the story and the characters days after. It’s a story of deep friendship, difficult families, strength, perseverance, love and ultimately forgiveness. I love the way the author develops the characters with authentic growth, maturity and self-understanding. I grew up in the town of Bakersfield during the same time as the characters in the book. The author does a masterful job of recreating what was a wonderful place to be a kid. I savored this book, being careful not to rush through, knowing I would be sad when it ended. I’m glad I did.
April 1, 2024
A compelling read, Belonging delves into the poignant narrative of Jenny, who comes of age in the shadows of uncertainty and neglect.
Readers are immersed in a community where the weight of responsibility presses down on Jenny long before she should ever have to bear it, as she finds herself thrust into the unforgiving embrace of self-reliance as a young child.
Jill Fordyce skillfully weaves a tapestry of characters amidst the sorrow, who, in their own unique ways, guide Jenny's journey. As Jenny navigates the unpredictable and painful twists of her life, I found solace in her resilience and determination to carve out a life defined by purpose and joy.
February 11, 2025
For a debut novel, I couldn’t even believe how much I loved this book. I don’t give 5 stars out often, (does anybody?) and this deserved each one. Of course this book doesn’t come without flaws, but I won’t mention any because it deserves to be read. This is one of those books that I will eventually say I’d do anything to read it for the first time again. The only other books this compares to is the Great Alone and Where the Crawdads Sing, so if you liked those I’m certain you’d like Belonging.
I won’t put in any spoilers, read this book!!
I won’t put in any spoilers, read this book!!
October 10, 2023
In Belonging, Jill Fordyce has created a tender love story exploring friendships, parenting, parenting children who were born to others, grand parenting and “uncle-ing”. The beautiful novel explores alienation, disappointment and finding love in many different ways. It is a quick yet absorbing book that tears at heartstrings while filling voids in our heart and soul.
Thank you to NetGalley and Post Hill Press for the opportunity to read this sweet ARC.
Thank you to NetGalley and Post Hill Press for the opportunity to read this sweet ARC.
February 2, 2024
This will break your heart, then piece it back together. Jenny has had such a rough life, but she keeps fighting her way through it. Fordyce does an amazing job bringing Jenny to life, drawing the reader in quickly. The descriptions make reading feel more like watching a movie unfold before your eyes. A poignant coming of age story, this is one that will have you all up in your feels. Highly recommend!
February 4, 2024
Jill Fordyce leads us on a sentimental journey with characters as rich and diverse as the San Joaquin Valley of California. The multifaceted characters are portrayed so beautifully you’ll feel you know them. I highly recommend this elegant coming of age story that navigates growing up with loss, love, grace and ultimately belonging.
I would like to pass this novel to my daughter but I’ll be keeping it. I’ll purchase her one of her own.
I would like to pass this novel to my daughter but I’ll be keeping it. I’ll purchase her one of her own.
January 22, 2024
This is not a book I would typically “choose”to read, but because I won it in a giveaway I chose it to read next. AND I AM GLAD I DID. This book gave me all the feels - not those typical suspense/mystery/thriller feels I tend to default to. This was a wonderful story about life, love, faith, and a young girl learning life lessons as she grew up.
February 2, 2024
I fell in love with so many of Jill Fordyce’s characters - especially Jenny. I think this novel has much to offer the reader. It’s relatable to readers on so many levels. I loved how the author found beauty in the everyday and how family doesn’t always mean just your mom and dad rather the extended family and community we belong to.
February 22, 2024
Quick read - got better as you got to the second half of the book, the writing seemed to have matured as the character matured. Really gripping read but writing felt a little shallow….Loved the story and it was very relatable if you grew up in the same era. A bit too much dependence on songs/titles/muscicians to evoke the era tho.
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August 6, 2024
This book was a beautiful coming of age story that recognizes the healing of trauma sometimes takes decades to finally stick. I do wish it didn't have such a fulfilling conclusion, because unfortunately that is not the reality of many cases. However, overall, it was nice to balance much trauma and inevitable healing in one short novel.
March 11, 2024
Jenny revisits a traumatic youth and finds that there was more love and acceptance in her tragic teen years than she thought, Engaging characters, a believable plot, and a setting described in great and glowing detail add up to a heartwarming tale.
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July 23, 2024A sweet and moving story of a young Catholic girl in an abusive home, but with loving family and important friends nearby. I enjoyed the love story, and the way that faith sustained Jenny … and the novel. The author has put such care into all the details.
January 31, 2024
I found this book enjoyable and hard to put down. Jill brought you into the story.
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