In reading this book, with plenty of nods, smiles, and outright laughs, I caught a glimpse of the why. Though I’m in a different season parenting, I well remember those days, and the agony, and the creativity it spurs. This book holds wisdom and hope, and it could be a must-read rec of the year for any mom who finds herself wondering why/how/when. Curl up with a cup of something hot and let Gillespy be the sister-girlfriend who will share a big hug and lots of encouragement.