This was my second book written by Sudha Murthy maam. I read the book 'Here, There and Everywhere' first.
Maybe my review is a bit harsh, but that might be because I had high expectations from the book after reading the first one.
The writing is quite crisp and clear, with simple language that is easy to read.
However, the content of this book is not up to the mark. There are many unnecessary stories that contain nothing special about them. Some of the stories are rather good, like 'The Old Man and His God' and 'A helping hand'. But the rest are just about the day to day life of Sudha Murthy Maam, which have nothing exceptional to learn, for example 'Food for thought'.
After reading this book, I have learnt an important lesson, though. I've learnt how it feels like to do social work. Also, I have learnt that those who do social work, are not necessarily saints without egos, sometimes it does lead to a false grand narrative of being the champion of the helpless, and the feeling of doing a great favor to the world. But, anyways, the amount of worldly experience that one may learn from such work may be quite huge. That is because in poverty, in destitution, the world comes out naked. There is no more correctness, being nice, no manipulative people who smile on your face and stab you behind the back, here, there's no need to even smile before stabbing. You see people as they are, and no longer are in delusion, expecting something nice from anybody. I doubt the author would have such a vast experience of life, if she hadn't worked in the foundation. And, I do not oppose social work, I find it to be quite uplifting to one's character, if done in the correct attitude. Also, no doubt, it is quite helpful to the one who one is getting helped. One learns a lot about the world also. But, I feel, that if not done in the right attitude, it may lead to a bloated ego and self-righteousness.
This is not a critique of Sudha Murthy Maam. For someone having reached her position, she is exceptionally humble and nice person overall. But, maybe I was expecting too much, a spiritual guide, a Swami Vivekananda or a Sadhguru in her writings. That's kind of silly of me, I know.
Also, another good thing I learnt after having used goodreads for a while (that got reinforced after reading this book) is that while people from the rest of India generally start hating their culture, their civilization after getting a little bit of money, due to false media narrative and cultural distortion by Marxists (literature, films, poetry, etc. etc.), in Karnataka, Hindu India still lives. The Kannada literature is starkly Hindu and Indian, say compared to Hindi Literature after its Premchandisation, Gandhicization and secularization. Maybe that explains why gems like SL Bhyrappa, Mohandas Pai and Tejasvi Surya still come from there. Earlier it used to be alive in places like Maharashtra as well, but the communists have relentlessly attacked anything Hindu or any literature/film/poetry which takes pride in its Hindu past, and flooded the markets with their own non-sense. To end, I would like to mention something I read from Swami Vivekananda:
The world will always remain a Tantalus's Hell. The world is a composite of contradictions, there can be no good without a bad, no richness without poverty, no selflessness without selfishness, no pleasure without misery. The world is maya. We should remember while doing good that we are not helping anybody in the world. The world was doing just fine hundreds of millions of years before we were born, it will do just as great millions of years hence. By doing good towards the world, We do not help the world, we only help ourselves. We move towards the infinite freedom, infinite good and godhood through our good actions.