Ha, I totally read this whole thing. It didn't really teach me anything I didn't know already, but I really like reading others' perspectives on non-monogamy, especially when their approach is so much different than mine. Maybe not the best primer for people who already think non-monogamy is wacky & are having a hard time of things. This was written by a deeply Californian, woo-woo feminist lesbian, and was recommended to me by a deeply Californian, woo-woo feminist lesbian friend. If you are one of those, you'll love it. Also, the cover is fucking incredible!
Wow! What a great, open, honest, funny, sensual book. Almost, makes me wish I could have a life long relationship with it, which I will! This book is a great guide for beginners, who can define and redefine themselves amongst the pages of poetry, and a refresh review for practitioners of multiple partners. For myself, I found me not in "Non-monogamous", but in "Poly-amorous". This is a book to share with a lover, new or long time. This is good bedside manner keeper.