❣️I felt like I was hanging out with friends the whole time I was reading House Mate by Leah Brunner. This book is funny while hitting some heavier topics like grief, personal growth, the nuances of parenthood, and independence without focusing too much on one aspect. Rather, all of these elements are beautifully balanced in this story.
❣️I fell in love with Drew the moment he played Yo-Yo Ma. Drew has some really sweet qualities, so it's no surprise that a work colleague is interested in him (and I think it's brilliant to have introduced him attempting a relationship with her before getting with Sophie).
❣️I'm a sucker for relatable inner dialogue, and Sophie is hilarious. It's cool to identify with someone that's just as quirky as you are.
❣️I like skimming through reviews after completing a book, and there is one review I couldn't disagree with more: the reviewer said it's unrealistic for two people in their 30s to live in close proximity without having sex. While this may often be the case in today's world, I don't think it's unrealistic for two parents that have gone through serious ups and downs in life and with major responsibilities to approach a relationship carefully rather than jumping into intimacy—plus, it's not like they lived together for five years. The fact that there's a clean romance community in the book world is just some evidence that there are people that have certain standards; in many cases, temptation is not non-existent, which adds to the realistic nature of such stories.
❣️I typically don't go for books that involve kids as a major part of the story, but this one was good. Super well done, realistic, and it doesn't feel like Drew and Sophie are shoving their girls down my throat. (That's huge for me, someone mostly uninterested in children and the way some parents parade their kids around.) The girls really add to the story meaningfully, observing the relationship between Drew and Sophie unfold and expressing their growing love for the new parental figure in their lives.
❣️I was a little worried about Sophie's dad (also Drew's boss) being a major obstacle to them getting together, but I was really happy Leah Brunner didn't make the possibility of her dad's disapproval a huge deal. It kills me to read about over-bearing parents that are a little too involved in their adult kids' lives.
❣️Another part of the story that's represented accurately is the way Drew's life as a surgeon affects his home life; he isn't just a surgeon for the sake of being an attractive romantic prospect. Rather, the surgeon's life of service is depicted accurately in his need for a dependable sitter, being on call, and even the simple detail about him showing up to get his daughter at school in scrubs. The minor details provided really make the story full.
❣️I was so moved by Sophie's loss, and I admire the way Leah describes her grieving process and how that affects her new relationship. Dealing with a recent loss, I find it therapeutic to learn about how a loss can change us and how we can move forward as someone new, in a sense.
❣️As we get older and mature, we should seek more out of relationships. Relationships, whether romantic or not, should add to our lives in a meaningful way, upbuild us, and make us better people. I loved reading about the qualities and actions Sophie and Drew admired about each other early on—these qualities reflected goals and needs that are different from those we have as a teenager or even in our early twenties, such as how Sophie melted when she discovered that Drew had tea parties with his daughter.
❣️Drew has a secret that is gradually revealed. At first, we're kept guessing, but eventually, you can pretty much guess what the secret is. Still, the delivery and details that accompany the circumstances bring the account to life.
❣️A lot of the stories I've read lately (I don't review everything I read) feature unbearable parents. Sophie's parents are annoying in some ways (as all parents are to an extent), but they are also super supportive and loving, wanting the best for their daughter and granddaughter.
❣️Check out House Mate if you're interested in clean romantic comedies about people with obstacles to overcome before getting their HEA. Read about Sophie and Drew as their relationship unfolds and they mesh their lives together.