E Ware Mumene: I'm Going Home

by Kevin Itima

"E Ware Mumnde" (I’m Going Home) is the account of my experience as a young, first generation Nigerian American and my desire to to reconcile my diverse identity, while rejecting my home culture . The book starts off with me cast to country I had visited only once. As a foreigner in my parents' home country, I experienced humiliation, found redemption and a new-found appreciation for my heritage.

The events preceding my departure contrast with my life in Nigeria to highlight the growth of a self-centered young man, accustomed and aspiring to inner-city American life, struggling to cope with the intricacies of urban life in Africa. The complexities and angst that comprise adolescence further weave through the story to illustrate the strain one experiences while attempting to balance competing social identities. The reader goes on a journey that leaves me ostracized from my peers and family, in which I seek answers through violence, drugs, and theft, yet find myself only after going home.

174 pages, Kindle Edition

First published March 4, 2013

Reviews

[Gabriell Gaiter · Rating 5 out of 5]

Anyone who reads this will automatically connect and relate to the author because Itima writes in a way that puts the reader directly in the story. I enjoyed the short chapters filled with action and I was able to picture almost every scenario in my head! The best part about this book was when Kevin, the main character, found a sense of belonging once he felt finally returned/ visited his home state. That understanding of historical roots is a feeling so many are searching for and it makes the reader want to celebrate Kevin once he finally embraced it. This book is a joy to read and takes the reader on a journey about identity and the power behind going back to one’s roots to find the inner peace that one may have been searching for in other places.

[Pam · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is an inspiration to all who experience various transitions of identity, self doubt, and struggles with their purpose in life. I applaud the author’s willingness to be transparent, relatable, and honest about his life and how he had to go through this process to define his purpose.
I encourage everyone to read it but especially if you are a parent, mentor, sibling or an influencer of any young male who is trying to fulfill society’s expectations as well as their expectations of manhood.
It’s also funny, captivating and entertaining. I couldn’t put it down. Read it!!