This guidebook offers survivors of high-control religion a tangible path to healing from adverse religious experiences. It's written by experienced religious trauma therapist, Anna Clark Miller, who is also a survivor of religious trauma. In addition to recovery tools, it lays an educational foundation for other survivors and mental health professionals, pulling from research on post-traumatic stress disorder, trauma recovery techniques, cult dynamics, purity culture, and more.
Borrowed this one on Unlimited for a postgrad research assignment on therapy for RT survivors, and I must say that this little handbook has been extraordinarily helpful. Miller offers valuable insight into exactly what Religious Trauma encompasses (fear and anxiety, shame, rigidity and suppression, & relationship dysfunction), providing robust theoretical frameworks that she then adapts to religious abuse specifically. I found the examples she provided to be particularly handy in regards to understanding the ways that RT may show up in people's daily lives, even when not triggered. During the second half of the handbook, Miller offers self-assessment tools to get to know one's trauma better and different ways to start working through it step by step. Her five-stage model was incredibly helpful to structure my own intervention program, and I cannot recommend this book enough to scholars and RT survivors alike!
This book had some great points and places for reflection. I think I’m farther in my religious trauma healing journey than I anticipated because it kind of felt like an overview of what I already know, but it was a great refresher and would be excellent for someone just now starting the journey of deconstruction.
A quote that stood out to me: “the ultimate goal of deconstruction isn’t to fully reject the belief system, but to assess each element individually without jumping to forgone conclusions. Deconstruction isn’t always finding the “right” answers or reaching certainty. The goal is to be curious as you search for congruence.”
Whether You’ve been hurt by religion or know someone who has suffered, this is a great resource. It has checklists, inventories, and ample reflection questions to help the reader understand the role highly-controlling religion had in shaping their present.