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正反対な君と僕 [Seihantai na Kimi to Boku] #1

You and I Are Polar Opposites, Vol. 1

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When it comes to romance, opposites really do attract!

Miyu Suzuki is a bright and bubbly high schooler who’s got a crush. There’s just one little problem—when it comes to personality, the guy she’s into is her polar opposite!

Suzuki’s a high school girl in love. The only problem is that the guy she’s fallen for is pretty much her total opposite! While she’s cheerful, outgoing, and always trying to fit in, her classmate Yusuke Tani is stoic and quiet, and he doesn’t seem to care what people think of him. Will Suzuki be able to overcome her anxieties and ask him out, or will she discover that opposites really don’t attract?

Collects chapters 1-6

192 pages, Paperback

First published July 4, 2022

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Profile Image for nush ❀.
608 reviews19 followers
May 5, 2025
— 3.5 ★

this was rlly cute!! part of it reminded me of horimiya, which is my favourite high school romance ever so that’s a high compliment. the characters are rlly cute & the dialogue is quite fun as well. i rlly like the friend group but as is always the case, it takes me a few volumes to learn their names & learn who is who. the art style is also taking me a little time to warm up to but the story is adorable & so are the characters. i just don’t feel like this is unique in any way when compared to other high school shoujos & so for those reasons, a 3.5 ★ feels apt.
Profile Image for Jen.
3,437 reviews27 followers
July 20, 2024
Oh my goodness, this was so cute! High school romance without all of the emotional drama. I mean, there IS some, but it isn't OTT and it's really cute and sweet how the two MCs, while being polar opposites, really LIKE one another. It's not just a physical attraction, they like the other's personality and respect on another. They aren't trying to change the other one to be more like them or to change themselves to be more like the other. They communicate and when they do, there may be slight misunderstandings, but no drama-filled misunderstanding that causes emotional pain and a breakup and pining.

The artwork fit for the slightly bubbly, silly feel of the story, but knew when to be serious too. It's so warm and fuzzy and relaxing, this might be my new go-to in order to decompress.

I can't think of anything that would lead me to say it's not good for middle grade readers to higher, but as always, the adult/s should vet as appropriate.

4, highly recommended, stars!

My thanks to NetGalley and VIZ Media LLC for an eARC of this book to read and review.
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Profile Image for Mark.
2,797 reviews269 followers
May 8, 2024
Suzuki has enough energy for six people, but the object of her affection is the quiet and taciturn Tani. With surprising ease, the two end up attached, but establishing the relationship and maintaining it are two different things.

Between this, Blue Box, and Akane-banashi I might have to retire my position that Shonen Jump is the bane of my manga existence. I won’t be jumping for joy at whatever action stuff is coming, but this sort of thing is a hoot.

Suzuki continually includes Tani in her inane conversations because she’s showing (or attempting to) that she cares. And he actually recognizes that. And then they start going out in the first chapter. Now that’s progress!

Except, as the title suggests, they are very different people who happen to have an attraction. Now they get the joy of finding out how to navigate coupledom and the prying eyes of classmates. Mistakes are made, but fun is had and love shines through. What more do you want? The central premise of finding that balance between what you both like is really welcome.

Both our leads are pretty solid, though as the firecracker of the two, Suzuki leaves the biggest impact. She’s torn from the exact same cloth as Clara from Welcome to Demon School, Iruma-kun!, except with a dollop more common sense and boy problems.

Tani is quiet, but observant, and appears blunt but is really quite well aware of his own nature. Both of them are getting used to the idea of their mutual attraction, but even if Suzuki is front and centre, there’s lots of room for Tani.

Even with him being so quiet, the story wisely doesn’t limit this to Suzuki’s viewpoint. There is definitely a tendency in stories like this to leave the more stoic character behind while the manic one gets the focus. The split here isn’t even, but it’s better than other manga I’ve seen.

There’s an especially cute part at the end where Tani and one of Suzuki’s best friends start to get to know one another better and it pretty much nails that great feeling of two people sharing a joke and growing closer because of it.

Not that close, mind, as our leads are absolutely goofy for one another. Relationship-forward stories are always a bit of a treat and, while it remains to be seen how much gas is in this tank, there’s a lot left to be done here that makes me hopeful for a few solid volumes.

And the whole thing is remarkably wholesome; there’s a nice all-ages quality to it. Plus, it has a very noodle-y, cartoony art style that suits it just fine - Suzuki gets some ridiculous poses and actions - but also knows when to go in for the kill too.

Also, Tani has a cat called Tempura, so that’s an automatic win.

4 stars - I wouldn’t reach for this if I wanted something weighty, but it would definitely be on my list if I wanted something light that was also pretty darn good. Definitely coming back for more.
Profile Image for Victor The Reader.
1,848 reviews25 followers
January 11, 2025
Pink-haired Miyu Suzuki is a bubbly, talkative and energetic high-schooler who has a crush on one of her classmates, Yusuke Tani. The issue is that Tani has a quiet and often unconcerned personality who mainly looks unfazed. This puts Suzuki in a storm of anxiety and despite that, she confesses her infatuation to him and surprisingly accepts her feelings. As we see the new couple having fun while their classmates and friends react differently to their new relationship, Suzuki attempts to make Tani be more expressive while she grapples with her own flaws and first-love jitters.

There’s certainly a funny and sweet story in this high school rom-com that’s too hard to stop. The odd couple, Suzuki and Tani, bring a near-perfect balance of her vibrant sparkly-ness and his calm and serious demeanor. For me,my favorite moments are Suzuki’s hilariously cute facial expressions and their interactions together. Also, it’s nice to see a manga couple at the beginning of a series instead of just the end or middle. It looks as though the opposites really are slowly attracting to each other in the first volume, so I can’t wait to see how they’ll stay together. A (100%/Outstanding)
Profile Image for Rebecca.
1,442 reviews84 followers
March 18, 2025
I adored this! Suzuki and Tani are adorable as they explore first love with each other, learning how to communicate and connect. There's a lot of humor here, and I genuinely laughed out loud multiple times. Suzuki's friends are also pretty great, and I love how accepting they are of Tani.
Profile Image for Jessica (Odd and Bookish).
707 reviews850 followers
May 16, 2024
I received a copy of this book for free for promotional purposes.

This was such a joy to read! This manga is seriously the cutest thing ever. I was dying over how adorable it was.

Like the title suggests, the main characters are opposites. Suzuki is outgoing and popular, while Tani is more reserved and keeps to himself. I loved seeing their relationship blossom. In particular, their first date was a standout. Their relationship also felt very relatable, especially when it comes navigating first relationships. I was glad the story did not have any unnecessary drama. It was straightforward and mainly focused on their developing relationship.

As for the art style, it complemented the story perfectly. It was fun, cute, and occasionally silly, just like the story.

Overall, if you are looking for a sweet manga that will bring a smile to your face, consider picking this one up! I can’t wait to continue their story.
Profile Image for Laura A. Grace.
1,967 reviews307 followers
May 11, 2024
"There's no 'right' way to do things that works for everyone. I was so obsessed with following somebody else's rules that I couldn't even hold a conversation. I wasn't even paying attention to the person right in front of me."

One of the best and most mature Shonen Jump romcoms I have ever read!

Deeply overjoyed to have this volume physically because I read it digitally before it was licensed and it was AMAZING! That definitely continues to be true with rereading this first volume!!

I know a huge part of why I love this series so much is that I find Suzuki VERY relatable! She and Tani both remind me of when my husband started dating and how I overthought EVERYTHING! I really wanted my then-boyfriend to feel he was doing things that were fun to him and talk about his interests too and it wasn't just me hogging the conversation. Like Tani, my husband really doesn't have much to say but is blunt and straightforward when he does.

On the flip side, this story is just so refreshing for a romcom! There is ZERO fan service and a down-to-earth feel where all the characters are relatable in some kind of way. Plus, they feel like fun high schoolers!

The art is a BLAST and is a lot of fun to read for that alone because Suzuki is a hoot! I never get enough of her expressions!

Overall, I would HIGHLY recommend checking out this new series! It's a great fun-filled romcom with a lot of heart! Will be preordering volume two as soon as I can!

"Expressing one's thoughts with words and understanding someone else's thoughts from their words…doing both perfectly is hard."
Profile Image for Sana.
1,356 reviews1,147 followers
August 15, 2024
'Are you two... ...whispering about me?'
'Where does that confidence come from?'
'PFF.'


So I was expecting a cute but wholesome story from You and I Are Polar Opposites and that's exactly what I got. Also, it's hilarious which is always a bonus.

Suzuki is so damn energetic that it's hard not to find her antics constantly amusing enough to smile at. She is very obviously an extrovert but does also have some people pleasing tendencies that she's aware of so it's nice to see her struggle with her easygoing behavior sometimes and wanting to take a break. Love that Suzuki is sometimes drawn in an exaggerated cartoony style to properly convey her emotions because valid.

Meanwhile, Tani is as calm and quiet as an early morning breeze that nothing can faze him. Except ofc, Suzuki LOL (the way he ran away ashamed when Suzuki saw his search history aljflsd) but hey, in a good way. He is also pretty blunt which I always appreciate. Tani overanalyzing Suzuki calling him cute from every possible angle, though LOL. I'm glad we also get his POV and thoughts but he clearly has a hang-up about not knowing how to keep a conversation going so I'm hoping there will be a more even split in the future as he opens up more.

It's nice to see that both do actually like each other and it's very much got to do with their respective personalities. So when Suzuki suggests they walk home, Tani agrees pretty readily. Even better that it happens in the first chapter so this manga definitely hits the ground running.

This is a minor thing but I found it very cute that her family let her sleep in on a school day probably because even they knew she needed that after the day she'd had, heh.

My favorite chapter is easily when they go on a date starting from Suzuki having a whole meltdown over what to wear to both of them arriving way early and bumping into each other and that picture at the end had me rolling. Even though they had very different styles of consuming media, I loved that both of them learned something about the movie from each other.

Meanwhile, Suzuki's friends all gradually befriending a-very-clueless-as-to-why LOL Tani was so endearing to see. Taira being the hella confused one and dumping his issues on Suzuki and Tani both was both funny and sad. He really does have some messed up viewpoints about the world that apparently Suzuki and Tani are going to change, heh. Oh and pretty sure Gapacho's identity is very much going to be a running joke and I'm into it haha.
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384 reviews17 followers
February 21, 2025
I rarely enjoy reading Shounen romcoms, but this one is so cute.

Just as the title suggests, this series offers a delightful look at how two seemingly opposite people can complement each other in ways they never imagined. It centers around the quirky and mismatched relationship between the two protagonists, who are polar opposites in almost every way. Suzuki is a bubbly, outgoing person, while the guy she falls for, Tani is a stoic, quiet and straightforward guy. From the very beginning, it's clear that their differences make them an odd pairing and yet, it's these very differences that drive much of the humor and the chemistry between them.

The story doesn't fall into predictable tropes. While I initially thought the series would follow the typical slow-burn romance, where it takes a long time for the characters to start dating, Agasawa sensei subverts these expectations by having them begin their relationship right away. This allows the story to focus on how their personalities clash and grow over time, which I think works really well. We get to see more of their awkwardly cute interactions, including their first date, and all of this adds to the overall charm of the manga.

Overall, You and I Are Polar Opposite by Kocha Agasawa is a charming and delightful read for anyone who enjoys a light-hearted romance with a dose of humor and great friendship. The contrast personalities of the characters create both comedic moments and heartfelt exchanges that highlight the beauty of the 'opposites attract' concept. The art style complements the story perfectly. The character designs are clean and expressive, with each panel capturing the character’s emotions in a way that enhances both the humor and the romantic moments. Giving this 4.5 ⭐️
Profile Image for Tyler Mickelson.
157 reviews9 followers
April 7, 2024
My initial thought on this book was not very positive, the artwork was not spectacular and the story was a bit all over the place. However, after the first few chapters the story tightened up and the artwork became smoother.

It's not often that you read a romance manga where the main MCs get together in the first few chapters. Normally, we have several volumes of awkwardness to wade through before the characters finally realize their feelings for one another and then the series concludes.

This series focuses more on the opposites attract aspect and the process of learning about each other's idiosyncrasies, which is a breath of fresh air.

As I have Already stated I'm not a huge fan of the art style. It's a cross between call of the night and don't toy with me Miss Nagatoro but not nearly as polished. But as the series progresses I'm sure the artist will clean things up.
Profile Image for Fen.
92 reviews
July 1, 2025
omg this is so cute!! at first the art style was kind of meh to me but it really grows on you! i love love love their dynamic, suzuki and tani compliment each other really well despite their whole opposites attract thing. i totally got butterflies a few times!! i’m definitely going to continue this!
Profile Image for Maya.
231 reviews
April 1, 2024
Complete Review || man I really love this! It's so cute and heartwarming! I love reading such goofy characters and relationships that just feel so natural. I high key got jealous of them too lol. Also tani kun has some serious rizz
Profile Image for Aca.
287 reviews
February 15, 2025
❤️

A very cozy and fun manga.

The character work is nicely done, even for the side characters. My favorites are Azuma and Taira. I feel like they underwent the most significant character development.

I will never forgive the author for not making them the official couple.

The main couple reminded me a lot of my boyfriend and me, which always makes me happy.

❤️
Profile Image for Cassandra.
2,500 reviews21 followers
April 1, 2025
Its is okay. I like that we got some dual POV so we see more of his inner thoughts to see that he does like her. I get why they would be into one another. I think I will give this one more to see what happens or how this evolves. Oh! There date was very cute. I want more of that.
Profile Image for Dieuwertje.
30 reviews1 follower
September 24, 2024
DIT IS LEUK☹️ en heet ze nou Toyota…..????

anyways heel leuk, Geen misverstanden of miscommunicatie PRAISE THE LORD
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4 reviews
December 19, 2024
Very cute! I adore my physical copies and can't wait to collect them all. The style and the storytelling are very refreshing! I love rereading this series over and over again.
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476 reviews10 followers
April 2, 2025
That was surprisingly good... We get character development of the two leads and actual depth to the side characters, all in the first volume.
Profile Image for Julie.
220 reviews4 followers
July 31, 2025
So cute! This feels so high school, and I love it.
Profile Image for Severeads.
14 reviews
August 3, 2025
This book was so cute! I loved their relationship and it was the first manga I’ve ever read and for sure exceeded my expectations
Profile Image for BeckyisBookish.
1,201 reviews35 followers
June 29, 2024
Absolutely adored this! As much as lingo and styles change with teens, some things will always stay the same. This is the perfect cozy romance.
Profile Image for Luka.
363 reviews49 followers
March 2, 2024
Como siempre, lo primero es lo primero: la trama 👉🏻 𝚂𝚞𝚣𝚞𝚔𝚒 es una chica extrovertida e intensa, que se preocupa por la impresión que causa en los demás. 𝚃𝚊𝚗𝚒 es un chico calmado y tranquilo que se relaciona lo justo con los demás, pese a no tener problema en expresar lo que piensa. Lo mejor de todo es que se gustan y, al descubrirlo, se llevan una gran sorpresa, pero mayor sorpresa será para sus propios compañeros de clase y amigos 🫶🏻

Mi opinión👇🏻

☯️ Lo mejor sin duda son los protagonistas que, pese a ser tan diferentes, consiguen conectar genial. Y es que ya lo dicen: los polos opuestos se atraen 🧲 

☯️ Me encanta que se le de tanta importancia a la comunicación en la relación, a conocerse, escucharse, entender a la otra persona y, al mismo tiempo, valorarse a unx mismx 👍🏻

☯️ La narración es inocente, 𝘲𝘶𝘦 𝘯𝘰 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘢, natural, con personajes cercanos y grandes dosis de humor 🤲🏻

💬 Y vosotrxs, ¿le habéis dado una oportunidad a esta obra manga? ¿Qué os ha parecido? ¡Os leo!👇🏻
Profile Image for Mary.
613 reviews27 followers
August 9, 2024
I'm a simple girl - if I see a panda on the cover, I read it 🐼

This was cute. Definitely over the top and silly, but it was easy to read and things happened fast. I didn't realize it was published through Shonen Jump.
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28 reviews
July 8, 2025
This is a librarian review.

I work in a middle school, and as most of us know, looking for age-appropriate manga for any children below the high school / YA ages is SO difficult. Mainly because our professional sources never review manga and so we have to read them ourselves to vet them... Which can be difficult with the barriers we may have obtaining them without purchasing them. So I've read through 2 of this series and here are my thoughts!

So far, this has been a great series. There are no illustrations that could be considered sexual or inappropriate like so many other series. Characters are considerate of each other and don't speak of each other with sexual comments or innuendos. This is a very cute, innocent romance series from what I've seen so far. I don't really even remember any harsh language.

The only thing that bothered me was a choice of words in the second volume on one page. The boy finds out she had a previous "boyfriend" in middle school (it didn't really become a thing) and gets a bit jealous and leaves for a bit to reflect on it. The girl feels guilty for not telling him but also has a section with a friend essentially debating on whether it should matter is past relationships are important as long as they are faithful in the current relationship. Great message! Except for the section where she says "Even if I'd slept with a hundred other people..." to which her friend reiterates "Slept with??". Any other word would have been more appropriate, such as 'gone out with' or been with' or something, so that was unfortunate. However, that is the only little 'red flag' I saw in this series so far.

Perfect for high school. Might be ok for middle school. So far teaches great lessons about healthy relationships and is actually pretty funny in a wholesome way.
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Author 1 book27 followers
February 13, 2025
You know that book as you're reading you just have a smile on your face the whole entire time?

That was me. I couldn't help but smile as I read this from start to finish. I'm already obsessed with Tani and Suzuki.

Volume 1 starts out with Suzuki coming to realization her feelings for Tani, the quiet kid who sits next to her in class. Suzuki is all things loud and bubbly all while making it an endearing part of her personality. Tani is blunt and isn't afraid to tell Suzuki the truth when she asks him for his opinion on whatever topic she's discussing with her friends.

However, Suzuki wants to portray a certain image of herself and she doesn't know if Tani fits that image. This is what the first volume is about. Suzuki coming to realization that she doesn't care what people think, as long as she's happy. It's heartwarming and endearing and full of the cutest moments already!

I think this is a nice shift from a lot of high school manga where the relationship doesn't happen until the end. Instead, we get the beginning of the relationship and are going to watch them grow into their personalities and figure out their feelings.

Overall, Volume 1 for You and I Are Polar Opposites by Kocha Agasawa is a huge success. I loved this story and the personalities of the characters so far. There were so many cute moments and I cannot wait to see Tani and Suzuki's relationship bloom! The art work was fun and sometimes the conversations did get a little lost on who was talking so if you are brand new to Manga - this might be a little tough to follow. But I highly recommend giving this story a go, and I am already anticipating continuing to Volume 2.
Profile Image for Kelli.
2,118 reviews25 followers
July 10, 2024
This is SO CUTE!

I love an “opposites attract” story so much—it’s one of my favorite romance tropes. I find it to be a good blend of cute, humorous, and romantic. And, the first volume in this series certainly captures that trope well.

Here, we’re introduced to Miyu Suzuki—an outgoing, stylish, and bubbly young high school student who is friendly and likes to fit in. Suzuki is the polar opposite of her seat mate and crush—Yusuke Tani. He is quiet, level-headed, and not much concerned with what their classmates think. To Suzuki, he’s just so dreamy. But, can two people who are so different get along—let alone fall in love?

This is just such a sweet and charming little story. Suzuki is absolutely adorable and Tani is so unassuming yet attentive to her. I really appreciate their dynamic.

More, I just really appreciate a high school romance where the main characters actually feel and act like teenagers. There’s just so much joy in watching them grow up as they grow together. I find it to be really important that these series reflect their young audiences well. The curiosity, uncertainty, and discovery of youth is so intrinsic to the human experience of growing up.

Anyway, definitely recommend this series to any readers who enjoy a sweet, quirky high school romance or an “opposites attract” story to sink into~
Profile Image for The Book Dragon.
2,515 reviews38 followers
July 27, 2024
Suzuki is super extroverted, peppy, friendly, and has a high social IQ.
Tani is super introverted, quiet, blunt, and has difficulty conveying his true feelings in a way others can understand them.

Turns out they actually really like each other (despite being polar opposites, lol) and once Suzuki is honest about her feelings, the two of them start dating. (This all happens in chapter 1, btw)

I wasn't expecting it to be this fast paced. I was thinking there would be more of a slower burn, where she pined and they kept having slight misunderstandings, but grew closer over the span of a volume or two. Nope. But that's not necessarily a bad thing. So far the story is super cute, you actually root for the protagonists, their friends are super supportive, the drama is focused around them just being awkward, and the art matches the tone perfectly. Suzuki has twin buns on her head make her chibi look like a teddy bear, but they pop off her head when she gets excited. The author even managed to use Google search history in the cutest and funniest way possible. (The only wonky part was Taira's inner monologue.) So far, it's an A+
Profile Image for Total.
97 reviews
August 27, 2024
I'm on my 3rd re-read of this and it gets better each time. With a fun art style and a comedic spin on the typical 'opposites attract' trope, this manga appealed to me, even as a uni student with no patience for teenage shenanigans. The MC's relationship with each other and all their friendships were depicted with the silliness and exuberance that's typical of high school friendships. They poke fun at each other, they get into trouble, they get OUT of trouble, and they frequently embarrass each other in front of their crushes. There was no overwrought drama about bullying or gossiping or stealing anyone's boyfriend. It's about two people trying to understand each other, sometimes missing the mark, sometimes not, and the shenanigans they get into along the way. A cute read!! I'd recommend this to everyone.
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6,268 reviews329 followers
October 10, 2024
A wholesome romantic comedy. Main characters Suzuki and Tani are very different people: she's a bubbly people pleaser, and he's reserved and doesn't care what people think of him. And yet, they're dating by the third chapter. That's a little fast for a manga romance, but the drama, such as it is, isn't at all about them getting together. It's about how two people with different personalities can make a relationship work. Given how much this book leans into comedy, I was a little surprised at how earnest the romance is. Suzuki and Tani have a genuine like and respect for each other beyond physical attraction, and neither of them are particularly phased by their differences. It's really sweet. Suzuki's extremely over the top personality might be grating for some readers, but I like her in small enough doses.
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