Okay, I have two EXTREMELY important notes I want to make here after seeing how poopy the reviews are on this book when they should not be:
1. This author lowkey wrote about her experience with also having gone on a reality TV show about finding your Swedish roots. "Allt för Sverige" is the name, and she wrote in this book about "Sverige och Mig" so like... keep that in mind!!! (Yes, it's real, so any hate towards the premise of this book... take it up with a show that's been running since 2011) So many people commenting about how this book was just hating on Americans when in reality it's like... have you ever been to Sweden? The book was so painfully accurate! As someone with Swedish family and who has been to Sweden many times, she's simply just pointing out Swedish culture and policies, and well... can you look me in the eyes and tell me they don't have some phenomenal policies and our country lacks? I'm just sayin'. I don't believe Sally Franson politicized this book -- I think she was trying to show you the Swedish climate through the perspective of a more liberal character, and you didn't get it.
2. I listened to this audiobook of this, and I need it to be known: IF MEG FREAKIN' RYAN IS NARRATING THE AUDIOBOOK, YOU BETTER LISTEN TO IT. I just... realistically, the story might've been more a 3.5 for me (I'll explain more below), but the fact that Meg Ryan was narrating this story was just... perfect. I genuinely pictured this as a Nora Ephron film, with Meg Ryan playing Paulie, and it was perfect. So 4 stars for the experience that the audiobook brought.
Okay, let's dive in a little more to the actual story:
I did go into this assuming it might be more of a romance (and understandably so when Lars enters the chat) but it's definitely more of a Women's Lit book, meaning that it's centered on her finding herself (perhaps in a less conventional way). I liked Paulie's character as I thought she was pretty confident in her beliefs, and she provided tons of comedic relief with how sarcastic and witty she was. But also this was a book where you did see her confidence falter a bit as she's frankly got too much on her plate at home, is a bit burnt out and unsure of what her life should look like next -- so you're constantly rooting for her throughout the book because you want her to win and make it to the next round (despite the wildly absurd and chaotic challenges and experiences she has) because you want her to fall back in love with photography, be in love with her person, and move past family trauma to be able to connect with new family through this experience.
And listen, I LOVED her constant reflection with Pippi Longstocking. I've ALWAYS loved Pippi, and I adored the way in which Paulie was constantly reflecting like... WWPD? What Would Pippi Do? Hahaha. It was just really heartwarming to see all the ways in which she embodied Pippi -- from the strength to the fearlessness to the generosity, etc.
Personally, this book felt lowkey homey to me. So many of the places she mentioned are places I've been to and have enjoyed so many times, as well as talking about the traditions and policies were something I'm so familiar with and kind of got excited to get to witness someone else like... discovering them for the first time!
I think my big gripe with this story was honestly the whole situation with Declan. Don't get me wrong -- I think perhaps they were in a rough patch in their relationship, and it took this experience (both the TV one and the Lars one) to help remind her of why she loves him in the first place. However, agh, I don't know... I just don't think the author really sold me on Declan. He was kind of an ass, I felt like he didn't really listen to her, and it was often like he was brushing her off a bit. Don't get me wrong, she's a little chaotic of a character, but I lowkey was not expecting the ending with them the way it was. I didn't love the whole storyline with Lars, truthfully, even if perhaps we can look at the ending as a happy one.
Overall, let's call it a Swedish "Eat, Pray, Love" and just know that I audibly laughed MANY times during this one. :')
Ps -- favorite moment of the book was Becky calling her sister to share big news, and her sister asking if she could call her back because she was on the toilet and preferred to play games on her phone while on the toilet instead of talking on the phone HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA.