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Don't Wait Till You're Dead: Spirits' Advice from the Afterlife
New York Times bestselling author and America’s top psychic, Matt Fraser presents an immersive guide to intentional living and discovering what life is really all about before reaching the pearly gates.
New York Times bestselling author Matt Fraser knows a lot about life… from the dead. We’ve all heard there is a mystical moment that occurs just before you die—or right after you get to Heaven—in which your life flashes before your eyes in vivid detail. The chronicle of your achievements, your failures, your loves, your losses, your daily rituals, your lifelong friendships invites a new perspective through which to view your life. But what if you did not need to wait until your death bed or the pearly gates to experience this phenomenon? What if you could examine your life right now, while there is time to make changes, heal relationships, manifest your goals and the life you truly want to live?
In Don’t Wait Till Your Dead Matt distills the lessons, stories, and heavenly truths he’s learned from his gift of connecting with souls on the other side. Readers will be able to learn lifetimes of secrets to happiness, fulfillment, and gratitude from loved ones that are no longer with us. Practical, inspirational, and downright heavenly, Don’t Wait Till Your Dead will wake readers up to the joys of life, and assure us that those we love never truly leave us.
New York Times bestselling author Matt Fraser knows a lot about life… from the dead. We’ve all heard there is a mystical moment that occurs just before you die—or right after you get to Heaven—in which your life flashes before your eyes in vivid detail. The chronicle of your achievements, your failures, your loves, your losses, your daily rituals, your lifelong friendships invites a new perspective through which to view your life. But what if you did not need to wait until your death bed or the pearly gates to experience this phenomenon? What if you could examine your life right now, while there is time to make changes, heal relationships, manifest your goals and the life you truly want to live?
In Don’t Wait Till Your Dead Matt distills the lessons, stories, and heavenly truths he’s learned from his gift of connecting with souls on the other side. Readers will be able to learn lifetimes of secrets to happiness, fulfillment, and gratitude from loved ones that are no longer with us. Practical, inspirational, and downright heavenly, Don’t Wait Till Your Dead will wake readers up to the joys of life, and assure us that those we love never truly leave us.
256 pages, Hardcover
Published August 20, 2024
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About the author
Matt Fraser
16 books125 followersMatt Fraser is America’s Top Psychic Medium and star of the hit television series Meet The Frasers on E! Entertainment.
His sold-out live events, television appearances, and popular private readings have allowed him to bring healing, hope & laughter to a global audience of fans and followers from all around the world. From heartfelt emotional readings to stunning revelations, Matt Fraser has audiences on the edge of their seats with his outrageous personality and unique approach to mediumship.
His readings lead guests through a rollercoaster of emotions from laughing to crying, turning skeptics into believers with stunning details. His dynamic readings frequently include names, dates, and locations he couldn’t possibly know, only adding to his long-established reputation. Matt’s uncanny abilities and extreme accuracy have allowed him to reach millions world-wide from A-list celebrities and influencers, to everyday people looking to get in touch with those they have lost.
The bestselling author of When Heaven Calls and a psychic phenomenon, Matt has caught the attention of major media outlets across the nation including the New York Times, People magazine, and CBS Radio. He has also been a sought-after guest on popular TV shows such as The Real Housewives, Botched, The Doctors, and many more.
His sold-out live events, television appearances, and popular private readings have allowed him to bring healing, hope & laughter to a global audience of fans and followers from all around the world. From heartfelt emotional readings to stunning revelations, Matt Fraser has audiences on the edge of their seats with his outrageous personality and unique approach to mediumship.
His readings lead guests through a rollercoaster of emotions from laughing to crying, turning skeptics into believers with stunning details. His dynamic readings frequently include names, dates, and locations he couldn’t possibly know, only adding to his long-established reputation. Matt’s uncanny abilities and extreme accuracy have allowed him to reach millions world-wide from A-list celebrities and influencers, to everyday people looking to get in touch with those they have lost.
The bestselling author of When Heaven Calls and a psychic phenomenon, Matt has caught the attention of major media outlets across the nation including the New York Times, People magazine, and CBS Radio. He has also been a sought-after guest on popular TV shows such as The Real Housewives, Botched, The Doctors, and many more.
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August 26, 2024
I love this man. I love everything about this book. Read it now!!
September 7, 2024
I discovered this book by accident on Spotify and thought I would give it a go. I really enjoyed the author’s narration.
June 10, 2025
Matt Fraser is one of the most loving mediums I have come across. His stories and messages from Spirit are uplifting and do remind us that there is always love and hope. However, there was a moment in which I had to pause the audiobook and question soulmates. My interpretation is that if we are in a loving relationship with someone (and the feelings are mutual!) then we shouldn’t become so obsessed with the ideas of soulmates or twin flames that we end up dumping the person we are with just to be with our soulmate. I feel this can be a destructive line of thinking, and we will miss out on having a meaningful relationship with someone, and based on what I have learned about the subject some people may not meet their soulmate in this lifetime, because after all they too have their own free will, and we should respect that.
When it came to soulmates it just felt very surface level to me.
I also had to pause when it came to loved ones from the other side encouraging their children to make up with each other and forgive each other and get back in touch. Some relationships are toxic, and abusive, and distancing and going no contact with each other due to that is healthy, and for a lot of people necessary for wellbeing. If we keep abusive people in our lives, then our own wellbeing will be impacted. I do believe in angels, and having our own spiritual team that support us, but I don’t think they would encourage us to maintain contact with someone, who hasn’t changed or taken accountability for their actions.
I know Matt expressed that forgiving someone isn’t okaying someone’s bad behavior, but to get back in touch with someone as part of healing, according to loved ones on the other side? I don’t think it’s always possible or a good thing. We can however love from a distance!
Don’t get me wrong, Matt Fraser is doing very important and loving work but there were some things in this book that I just didn’t agree with, and I only wrote down what would be helpful to me in my own life, such as getting clear about what I want out of my life, clearing out emotional baggage, and the questions to ask myself whenever I am faced with a challenging situation. Those exercises were very helpful to me.
This is a book to be listened to or read with an open mind, but you should also listen to yourself if something doesn’t feel right to you. Take what you need from this book, and leave the rest if it doesn’t resonate with you.
I have only a few more chapters until I finish the audiobook but this is my review as it stands now.
Edit: The last few chapters of this book were very powerful, but I encourage others to be discerning whenever they read books like this! Not everything in this book will work for everyone.
When it came to soulmates it just felt very surface level to me.
I also had to pause when it came to loved ones from the other side encouraging their children to make up with each other and forgive each other and get back in touch. Some relationships are toxic, and abusive, and distancing and going no contact with each other due to that is healthy, and for a lot of people necessary for wellbeing. If we keep abusive people in our lives, then our own wellbeing will be impacted. I do believe in angels, and having our own spiritual team that support us, but I don’t think they would encourage us to maintain contact with someone, who hasn’t changed or taken accountability for their actions.
I know Matt expressed that forgiving someone isn’t okaying someone’s bad behavior, but to get back in touch with someone as part of healing, according to loved ones on the other side? I don’t think it’s always possible or a good thing. We can however love from a distance!
Don’t get me wrong, Matt Fraser is doing very important and loving work but there were some things in this book that I just didn’t agree with, and I only wrote down what would be helpful to me in my own life, such as getting clear about what I want out of my life, clearing out emotional baggage, and the questions to ask myself whenever I am faced with a challenging situation. Those exercises were very helpful to me.
This is a book to be listened to or read with an open mind, but you should also listen to yourself if something doesn’t feel right to you. Take what you need from this book, and leave the rest if it doesn’t resonate with you.
I have only a few more chapters until I finish the audiobook but this is my review as it stands now.
Edit: The last few chapters of this book were very powerful, but I encourage others to be discerning whenever they read books like this! Not everything in this book will work for everyone.
April 1, 2025
This book is just not helpful. I don't know if Fraser can communicate with "Spirit" But, this book does not make common sense. First of all his information that each person has an army of people in the afterlife looking after just them, you have your Spirit Guide your Guardian Angels a group of angels and ancestors who are there just for you. It is as if everyone in the afterlife has nothing else to do but keep an eye on us down there. And, for the sake of argument let's suppose that is true, if it is than why is it so many people are screwing their lifes up. Well, he would say you have to acknowledge them and ask for their assistance. Also he claims we all have a purpose that was decided before we were even born. That is a pretty tall order for sure........and, yet there are a lot of messed up people in this world of 8 billion humans.
A lot of us are missing the Spirit's advice by living lives of mediocrity. Either out of laziness or unbelief. His advice in finding one's "soulmate" is basically you have to wait until that person comes along and you will know because your Spirit Guide, or angels or somebody out there will let you know this is the one. There are a lot of lonely people out in the world who fell for the soulmate myth, or the having a baby myth, or the there's a perfect job for you myth. Not only do I think his claims are ludicrous, they are dangerous. This is basically a self-help/law of attraction book, but Fraser is saying you don't have to even do anything, just put yourself out there don't settle for stuff, and your Spirit Guide will make sure you get what you need. And, life just doesn't work that way.
He is 30 years old, and rather he can talk to dead people or spirits, I cannot say, but he has know understanding at his age of the life experience of the majority of people on this planet. And, IMHO, does not give the best life advice.
A lot of us are missing the Spirit's advice by living lives of mediocrity. Either out of laziness or unbelief. His advice in finding one's "soulmate" is basically you have to wait until that person comes along and you will know because your Spirit Guide, or angels or somebody out there will let you know this is the one. There are a lot of lonely people out in the world who fell for the soulmate myth, or the having a baby myth, or the there's a perfect job for you myth. Not only do I think his claims are ludicrous, they are dangerous. This is basically a self-help/law of attraction book, but Fraser is saying you don't have to even do anything, just put yourself out there don't settle for stuff, and your Spirit Guide will make sure you get what you need. And, life just doesn't work that way.
He is 30 years old, and rather he can talk to dead people or spirits, I cannot say, but he has know understanding at his age of the life experience of the majority of people on this planet. And, IMHO, does not give the best life advice.
November 1, 2024
Don't Wait Till You're Dead: Spirits' Advice from the Afterlife by Matt Fraser
Interesting, thought-provoking memorable. A very enjoyable read. I look forward to reading more by Matt FraserI highly recommend Don't Wait Till You're Dead: Spirits' Advice from the Afterlife to all.
Interesting, thought-provoking memorable. A very enjoyable read. I look forward to reading more by Matt FraserI highly recommend Don't Wait Till You're Dead: Spirits' Advice from the Afterlife to all.
September 20, 2024
This book is a perfect introduction to the afterlife and spirit realm!
I will say, as someone who has read Delores Canon’s books as well as some other channeled messages, this book was a bit too surface level for me.
However, I would absolutely send this book to someone who has never learned of such things before. Especially someone who may be a bit hesitant to get into this subject due to religious afflictions.
I will say, as someone who has read Delores Canon’s books as well as some other channeled messages, this book was a bit too surface level for me.
However, I would absolutely send this book to someone who has never learned of such things before. Especially someone who may be a bit hesitant to get into this subject due to religious afflictions.
March 10, 2025
I really love that. Matt reads this himself. The narration he did was great. Listening to this book has given me some hope about what happens after we pass. It’s made me feel more. It is with living life, without as much fear, and anxiety about dying. It’s what I needed right now. One day I hope I get a reading. He’s definitely a gifted individual.
January 3, 2025
Charming author though a slight read. I read Don’t Wait Till You’re Dead by Matt Fraser as he is charming on YouTube. He is a channeler, however, in this book the author is talking surface level to a readership who might not necessarily believe in the eternal soul or multi-dimensionality. Didn’t inspire or teach me anything new.
This book review also appears in https://Amazon.com and https://thereadersvault.blogspot.com.
This book review also appears in https://Amazon.com and https://thereadersvault.blogspot.com.
January 9, 2025
Good book written and read by Matt Fraser. Matt does a wonderful job sharing insight on the afterlife with his gift to his listeners. If you're struggling with grieving a loved one it's certainly worth a listen.
February 14, 2025
So very moving
This book really made me look at my life from new,angles! It made me remember many things as well. It really put death and the after life in a wonderful perspective. I am truly thankful for all of the journal prompts. I learned so much!
This book really made me look at my life from new,angles! It made me remember many things as well. It really put death and the after life in a wonderful perspective. I am truly thankful for all of the journal prompts. I learned so much!
August 31, 2024
This book takes an open mind, but is so worth it. Helps you understand your life and death.
September 2, 2024
I was a little nervous to read this book but now it's one of my favorites. Thank you for writing this one. 😊
September 27, 2024
Pretty predictable, but I like the chapter 11(The Life Review).
October 27, 2024
Uplifting and inspiring. Matt always provides a positive message of comfort and hope. All will be well!
November 2, 2024
really interesting book . I believe in spirits and couldn't put down.
November 20, 2024
This book was very underwhelming. It basically says everything a basic self help book would tell you, even if the author wasn’t a “medium”.
I am not sure why I even bought this book.
I am not sure why I even bought this book.
December 15, 2024
This book was interesting.
January 20, 2025
Not my favorite of his. Took me a long time to read. Sorry Matt.
March 27, 2025
As always Matt is very interesting.
March 28, 2025
Easy read. Very well written!
July 13, 2025
much needed book
I lost my sister from cancer, dealt with guilt and anger for a year. This book helped me start my journey to healing. Than you Matt!
I lost my sister from cancer, dealt with guilt and anger for a year. This book helped me start my journey to healing. Than you Matt!
October 7, 2025
I will be reading more from this author - Loved this book!
January 2, 2025
He makes some very good points. He says that you can stay stuck if you do not process unexplored emotions and traumatic experiences. By letting go of old, negative energy you can make space in your life for new opportunities. To manifest a life of your dreams you need a clear picture for doors to open up for you and when you are in the right place, everything will open up. This has been said before by others as well. This is something that all people more or less strive for, trying to make their dreams and wishes coms well as some exercises you can work on to discover/be aware of what is really important to you in your life.
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