Rethinking Autism: A Parent's Guide to Navigating Life with an Autistic Child: How to Identify Early Signs

by Bev A. Lanier

Are you finding it hard to sleep because your child doesn’t behave “like the other kids?” Are you frustrated because your child’s teacher or caretaker isn’t trying to make things better for them or because other children are excluding your child from play and group activities? Would you like to fully understand your child, so you can be a bastion of strength when challenges arise? If so, know two you are not alone, and you have come to the right place. As a parent of a child with autism, you know that every child has their preferred path, and discovering its intricacies can be difficult in the first few months after receiving a diagnosis. Your personal transformation as a parent starts with observing how your child communicates and understanding the words or gestures they use to let you know their wants and needs. The road to better communication deepens as you reconnect with your own childhood… during the time you were also learning about the world, and you required patience, love, and an understanding of your uniqueness. You are far more equipped to be your child’s window to the world than you may realize. You know them like nobody else, and your keen ability to identify what your child needs and try out new strategies will enlighten you along the way and ensure there are many victories to celebrate. This guide on parenting a child with autism is here to accompany you through each step of the way—from the time you discover your child has autism, right through to choosing the therapies that work best for your child. Within its pages, you will And so much more. We know that time is of the essence when you have kids. When you first receive your child’s diagnosis of autism, you may feel like there just isn’t enough time to attend so many appointments and digest new information. Breathe. Help is here. You will soon be the very best expert on all things to do with your child and able to successfully select strategies, therapies, and routines that work for your child.

170 pages, Paperback

Published September 16, 2023

Reviews

[Kameron · Rating 5 out of 5]

I received a complimentary copy of this book from Reedsy Discovery. I voluntarily chose to read and post an honest review.


What is ASD (autism spectrum disorder)? As the author said quite eloquently, “autism” is more than just a label we can assign to people. It is a framework that can guide us through raising these individuals to become the best versions of themselves.

Even though the first diagnosis occurred in 1943 by Leo Kanner, a psychiatrist, we still have much to understand about the condition. What doctors look for are common tell-tell signs or indicators on the “spectrum”: repetitive behavioral patterns and hyperfocus on interests or activities. The writer breaks down the three levels, which tell us more than just a child’s level of proximity to either end of the spectrum: from functioning independently to those who require assistance with everyday tasks.

What I learned that fascinated me was more kids are being misdiagnosed with ASD. On the flip side, many kids never get diagnosed with it and should have so they can get proper care. I was also amazed by the number of famous people believed to have autism, such as Jerry Seinfeld (actor and comedian) and Elon Musk. It just shows that sometimes you never know who has autism and who doesn’t. One thing is apparent: you can’t look at a newborn and know they will have ASD or not. However, as a child grows, there are signs that you should be on the lookout for and share with your doctor. Bev A. Lanier (the author) discusses these in Chapter Two: “What to Look For,” alongside possible causes, preparing for evaluation, and what should you expect. I would advise reading this area carefully and possibly more than once. It’s a lot of information to absorb in one sitting.

As I said earlier, Bev A. Lanier mentions different levels on the autism spectrum. As you read chapter three, you’ll get valuable intel on the lowest level, formerly known as Asperger’s, to level three, where an individual will require substantial support. No matter what “level” you or your loved one lands on, getting a diagnosis from a trained professional, the initial point of treatment, is important, as stated in Chapter 4. Remember, each person is different, so “treatments” must be catered to your or your child’s mind and body. Speech therapy, physical therapy, occupational medicine, non-invasive activities, and meds are tools you must utilize to bring out the best versions of your autistic child. With all that in mind, treatments will change as your child grows older and becomes more independent. I want to note there is more to this subject matter; I am merely touching the tip of the iceberg regarding the information presented.

As you move into Chapter Five, we get a closer look at the brain and how the spectrum shapes it. Okay, this section brings me back to my school days. Lots of science information that I can see people glossing over. I imagine the average person will focus more on treatment options, resources, or the mini stories between each chapter. Bev made a wise choice including the heartwarming tales. Just hearing your child has ASD can strike fear in any parent’s heart, but these stories give glimmers of hope to many parents. Hope that one day their own child will be thriving like David, Sofia, Liam, and the other kids.

There are challenges with having ASD or taking care of someone with ASD. As the author pointed out, it affects language, reaction to stimuli, social interactions, behavior, and how we manage tasks. Parents, as overwhelmed as you might feel, remember you are not alone, and all your feelings regarding the diagnosis are normal. Take the writer’s advice and set time aside for yourself. Do something that you enjoy. Join a support group. Remember, we all need help now and then, so never be afraid to ask for some!

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