Hello, my name is Failure

by Bryant Ellis

The difference between those who succeed and those who do not can be narrowed down to a common those who see "failure" as the end, and those who understand failure to be an education for their future success.
These engaging letters personify "Failure" as your mentor, guide, and friend, offering profound insights into the crucial role it plays in shaping your future success and the success it has helped create throughout history.
Failure invites you into its world, seeking not to frighten, but to inspire, to mentor, and to enlighten. Be guided through life's journey with resilience, embracing every setback for what it teaches you. Here, you'll find failure not as the end, but as the catalyst for your greatest achievements. Journey through the pages of Hello, my name is Failure to learn, grow, and ultimately, succeed. Discover an original perspective on life's hurdles. It's time to rewrite your narrative and let your failures light your way to success.

Genres: Self Help, Personal Growth

170 pages, Paperback

Published January 2, 2024

Reviews

[Alberto Tupputi · Rating 5 out of 5]

⭐️ REVIEW: Hello, My Name is
Failure by Bryant Ellis

The difference between those who succeed and those
who do not can be narrowed down to how people see
"failure". Particularly, those who see failure as the end,
and those who understand failure to be key for their
future success.

In this engaging book, the author personified "Failure"
as your mentor, guide, friend, and coach, revealing to
you how crucial its role is in shaping your life and
making you a successful individual.

Reading this book feels like sitting around a table to
talk with Failure in person, making the relationship you
have with it more relatable and impactful.

🤔 My thoughts on this book

The style of this book is undoubtedly unique and
different from anything I've read in the past. It's the first
time that I see an author personifying failure in this
way.

The ultimate goal of this book is to make you
understand failure, seeking not to frighten, but to
inspire, enlighten, and rewrite your narrative to let your
failures light your way to success.

I seriously wish this book had existed when I was 18; a
phase in my life where I felt a massive loser. If I had
read that book when I was 18, it would have greatly
helped me to improve my relationship with failure,
which at the time was completely broken.

Why should you read this book❓

If you have been taught to fear failure, to shy away
from it, you need to read this book as it will give you
every reason why you should not fear it. Also, I would
particularly suggest reading this book to young people
entering the real world.

[Alleana · Rating 3 out of 5]

I did like this book and found it helpful, especially as a supplement or something to return to when you’ve started to stabilize and can begin to reflect on your experiences with a bit of distance. Hello, My Name Is Failure takes a creative approach by personifying failure as a voice speaking directly to the reader. That framing gives the book a more personal, emotional tone, helping reframe failure as a guide or teacher instead of something to be ashamed of. It’s uplifting and motivational, but it’s not meant to replace therapy, deep self-work, or books with more step-by-step guidance. It’s really more about shifting your mindset, the way you emotionally relate to failure, fear, and growth.

That said, if I had picked this up while still in the middle of everything — when life felt completely out of control — I probably would’ve felt disconnected from it. I might’ve even thought, “WTF is this book trying to say to me? It doesn’t get what I’m feeling.” And that’s part of its weakness: the tone can feel a bit too polished or idealistic if you’re still in survival mode. Some ideas repeat, and the metaphorical style might feel too abstract if you prefer real-life examples or more practical advice. It’s not life-changing, but it has value in the right moment, when you're ready for it.

[Nicole smith · Rating 4 out of 5]

I’ve been following Bryant’s podcast and talks for a long time now and I always feel inspired by his determination to go after what he wants and to embrace failure as a friend in the journey. This book continues on you the journey of going after a full life and knowing that failure is a key component to get you there. I’d recommend this for someone graduating high school, or trying to figure out what’s next. This would have been a great motivator in my early 20s to go after what scares you and learning to embrace your own shortcomings. This is also a great staple to have on your bookshelf whenever you need a reminder to hope or dream. I’d highly recommend and while you’re at it, go listen to his podcast too!

[Colby Hurford · Rating 4 out of 5]

One of my good friends bought this for me and I was very pleasantly surprised. I appreciated the creativity of reading a book in this manner. Each of the topics covered is referenced in the form of a letter written to the reader by Failure. Very unique and I think would really resonate with young adults and those maybe who are experiencing the world in a whole new way or learning what life is about all over again. I could see this book being good for someone who is coming out of a bad long-term relationship, someone who recently lost their job, moving to a new town where you don't know many people, or anything where you are "starting over or anew."

[Kyle Newton · Rating 5 out of 5]

For a long time failing and losing were synonymous. Failure is quickly introduced to you as a graceful mentor along the road of your life. He helps demystify and lower the stakes of temporary setbacks and hurdles that might otherwise feel and seem daunting. He also shows the importance of taking shots often, if you only take a few shots the regularity and impact of failure seems larger than it is, almost inevitable - however the only way to guarantee a win, is taking more shots, not less.

I think this book is written for really anyone and everyone, there is not a path or life journey that this book would not impact. I encourage you to introduce yourself to your new mentor, Failure.

[Brian Long · Rating 5 out of 5]

Anyone who is ambitious would benefit from this book. Very practical ways to embrace failure and pursue your dreams