I feel like I’m gonna be in the minority of my book club girlies but I liked this! I cried multiple times so 4⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ for me. This book is similar to others I’ve read by Fredrick Backman or Stewart O’Nan - they’re two authors I personally think can take vignettes of mundane, everyday life and make you see the beauty in the small things, and I felt like this book did the same. It’s not a bunch of action or adventure, but an exploration of some of the things that make us human. This book for me was about community, found family, grief, aging, compromise, maturing, the making of a home, passing the baton to the next generation, grace, compassion, patience, and growth. I enjoyed it.
Winston and his long time partner Lewis live in a flat with a neglected shared garden. The flat next door has been vacant for years until Bernice and her son Sebastian move in.
Lewis and Winston started together in finance jobs but Lewis continued in the corporate career and Lewis took a step back from it to find a local job that connected him to other people and the community he lived in. Their paths took them farther and farther apart until the space in their relationship felt unbreachable.
Bernice, following a divorce from her ex husband Simon, is looking for a safe place to raise her son and isn’t comfortable embracing strangers. In fact, everything about Winston bothers her. He’s always outside in their shared garden, which she wants to be a private garden, smoking cigarettes and grouchily keeping to himself. But what they don’t know, is before they lived here, two women lived in these same flats and had a family here.
Years before Winston and Bernice, Maya moves into the London flat with her husband Prem and later their daughter Hiral. At first their neighbor Alma seems off putting, but over time, Maya and Alma develop a deep friendship and become family. They pour their lives and love into the garden and they build and feed and sustain a community of neighborhood families. Their sincerest wish later in life when they move on from those flats is that the garden will live on, embraced by the next people to inhabit the flats.
Despite first impressions, Bernice and Winston form a friendship and as they transform the garden, they may just recover some of what made it so special to Maya and Alma.
I found the story very heartwarming, I was sad when people passed away, and this was very nostalgic for me. I remember my own neighborhood as a kid, playing yard games and all the parents gathering in lawn chairs to chat on a driveway and order pizza while the kids ran around. Safe, friendly, and like family. I was so lucky to have that and sometimes in life, you know when it’s the last time you’ll say goodbye to something, but other times, those last moments pass without acknowledgement until you reflect on them later. I remember saying goodbye to my last apartment I lived in alone, or to my college campus. I took a day to walk through it all, remember it, appreciate it, and say goodbye to it. But I couldn’t tell you about the day that we played kick the can in my neighborhood for the last time as kids. Or the last day we all sat out on my godparents driveway, chatting in our lawn chairs. For me I felt like this book captured some of those wistful, sometimes painful feelings when you reflect back on the life you’ve lived in different stages, and the inevitable way that things change over time. It also had some optimism, growth, renewal, and I needed some of that!