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3 pages, Audible Audio
Published September 28, 2023
"The Perfectionist:
Perfectionism and imposter syndrome are
besties. Perfectionists set extremely high
standards for themselves, and when they
do not meet their expectations, their self-
esteem plummets, and self-doubt sets in.
Success is rarely satisfying as you always
feel you could have done better. It's
important for you to celebrate both wins
and failures/progress.
"The Superhero:
It can be exhausting being you. You're trying
to save the world without a sidekick or
empathy for yourself. You are extraordinary
and capable, but that doesn't mean you
don't have your own forms of kryptonite.
What may be most important is taking off
your cape once in a while, while taking pride
in your accomplishments. Learning from
your setbacks is key too.
"The Expert:
You have a reputation for setting lofty goals
and achieving them, often with ease. So it
can be disappointing when you don't meet
your sometimes not-so-realistic
expectations. But this just in: You're human
and that means some failure will likely be a
part of your story. Give yourself space to
function in your full humanity and
complexity. And remember, failure often
leads to growth.
"The Natural Genius:
It's not easy being the smartest person in
the room. You feel enormous pressure to
get things right the first time. Be gentle with
yourself when you don't grasp a new
concept or have a solution to a problem
right away. It is not always humanly possible
to know and do everything, especially when
it's new.
"The Rugged Individualist:
You prefer to work alone and navigate life's
challenges without any commentary that will
slow you down. You're a force of
intelligence and grit, but that doesn't mean
you should ignore your own needs. In fact,
taking care of yourself both alone and in
community can help you thrive in any
situation. Remember, getting support does
not mean you are weak."
"Managing Imposter Syndrome:
"The Imposter experience is rough. And not to mention draining!
Here are a few ways to help better manage when it comes up,
because let's be honest, it most likely will!
Exploration questions: what is your hypothesis as to where
imposter experience comes from? What tends to be your
imposter cycle?
"Normalize. Normalize. Normalize. This is a shared human experience!
Actually celebrate your successes. Say out loud, 'The success of this task/project/experience was because of the effort, energy, and knowledge I poured into it.'
Reframe your view of failure. Remember, failure is often part of success.
Finally, notice and reframe the way you speak to yourself. You are a human being who is often doing the best you can. We are perfect imperfect humans."

